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  • GlasweJen
    GlasweJen Posts: 7,451 Forumite
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    Bogof_Babe wrote: »
    What I don't understand is if he was originally just her carer, and only became her boyfriend a few months ago, over what period was he having his mail delivered to her address?

    If he can prove he had his mail redirected to hers fairly recently, perhaps that would count as evidence that he was just sorting out the details prior to moving in.

    However if he has always had his mail sent there, even when it was simply a "working relationship", it does sound a bit suss.

    BB, the OP says that her OH moved in as a boyfriend 2 years ago so this has been going on for quite some time.
  • Mips
    Mips Posts: 19,796 Forumite
    Bogof_Babe wrote: »
    What I don't understand is if he was originally just her carer, and only became her boyfriend a few months ago, over what period was he having his mail delivered to her address?

    If he can prove he had his mail redirected to hers fairly recently, perhaps that would count as evidence that he was just sorting out the details prior to moving in.

    However if he has always had his mail sent there, even when it was simply a "working relationship", it does sound a bit suss.

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    So he was working on the side :confused:

    Or just an unpaid carer?!
    :cool:
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    Op as Sunnyone has advised you need to get professional advice from a solicitor.
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