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Stay at home mums getting organised in 2010

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  • ragz_2
    ragz_2 Posts: 3,254 Forumite
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    tiamai_d wrote: »
    For weeks you will get a fright at every nappy change over whats missing and how weird it looks :rotfl: I still do it!

    She will need loads of dresses and you may develop an ebay addiction :o

    My boys are great with DD, though they can be a little rough and DS1 did comment that her 'boobs were growing' because she has a wee Buddha belly and boobies :cool:

    And she really is a spoiled little princess, more so because we stopped at 2 after being told too by my consultant so she was a shock and a lovely surprise after the first horrible weeks when we were told to terminate. Always said I would never dress a girl in pink... so she has some lilac too! :rotfl:

    Do I need to do stuff today? I've finally done the ironing, packed it all away and put away the folded stuff. So the rest of today is what we will call....

    A mental organisation day. Organising stuff in my head is hard work so I may have to sit with a few :coffee: and some biscuits :D

    :rotfl: I haven't changed a girl since doing my sister's nappy a few times 13 odd years ago and am dreading nappy changing, don't have a clue lol

    I too am sitting down with cuppa and biccies, done quite a lot today and I AM meant to be resting!
    June Grocery Challenge £493.33/£500 July £/£500
    2 adults, 3 teens
    Progress is easier to acheive than perfection.
  • ManOnTheMoon
    ManOnTheMoon Posts: 2,815 Forumite
    ragz wrote: »
    Kids have come back from preschool more full of cold and whingey than when they left. Have stuffed lunch of cheesy beans on toast into them and stuck them in front of a DVD, under a blanket, eating choccy biccies (bad mummy).

    Have shoved a chicken and a load of wrinkly looking veg in the oven, so dinner's half done and as a bonus the kitchen will warm up!

    ManOnTheMoon - Just read your signature - 7 girls! You are a very very brave man! And your new GF must be pretty brave too lol
    any tips? I'm expecting my first girl after 2 boys and have no idea what to expect. All I remember is being one of 3 girls and fighting with my sisters from the moment they were born until I left home!

    Chicken and veg will make up for the biscuits :cool:

    I consider myself lucky to have such lovely girls :cool: *more later

    New lady is a very sweet and lovely person and the girls love her, so she hasn't had to worry about much yet, although one fell out with her and she took it in her stride.

    Tips - I've blagged my way through every day, although a tip I can now give after todays mail...

    *Don't let them anywhere near the telephone! £83.88 voting for some reality tv kid, is not MSE! :o

    When 15yo gets in that door at 3.30, she is going to get the shock of her life.

    Why oh why can she not behave like the others. 99% of the time she is so adorable, but every now and then...

    I hate falling out with them, I really do, but I can't be soft all the time. I'm so soft because their mothers both walked out and the eldest two on 2 occasions. 16yo deals with it by looking after her sisters, 15yo deals with it by.....Grrr, she's a good kid, she really is, just doesn't trust anyone but me and her siblings and now new partner she has taken a shine too.
  • tiamai_d
    tiamai_d Posts: 11,987 Forumite
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    It's not that bad once you get used to it, its just the missing parts and feels a bit weird when poo gets into places :rolleyes: I'd only ever changed my niece once and it was a pee. Oh and girls have this magic trick of getting poo everywhere, DD makes it squeeze out one leg. The boys never did that! She does it every single time she has a poo! :eek:
  • ragz_2
    ragz_2 Posts: 3,254 Forumite
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    Chicken and veg will make up for the biscuits :cool:


    *Don't let them anywhere near the telephone! £83.88 voting for some reality tv kid, is not MSE! :o

    .

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: oh dear lol
    My sisters are still teenagers and it's those years Im dreading most I think, but really I'm just worried she'll get left out with 2 older brothers, especially as they are only 13 months apart so very close so I'm used to them keeping each other occupied. Really don't want to have to have ANOTHER baby to keep this one company!
    June Grocery Challenge £493.33/£500 July £/£500
    2 adults, 3 teens
    Progress is easier to acheive than perfection.
  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    Urgh - cleaning poop off girls is horrible. DD gets it all in her lady bits and I'm terrified of hurting her cleaning it off.

    I've now done all my work stuff, am about to make the two phone calls I need to make then clear off my desk at home and clear the dining room table. Living room has to wait because my monster is going to sleep on the sofa (currently grumbling to herself but on her way down) and after those two will be the wardrobe - shoes and Husband's birthday presents.
    Organised Birthdays and Christmas: Spend So Far: £193.75; Saved from RRP £963.76
    Three gifts left to buy
  • RoxieW
    RoxieW Posts: 3,016 Forumite
    csh wrote: »
    I agree with this!!!
    My dishwasher broke down when I was pregnant and I cried! It took about 3 weeks for the part to come and every time I had to do the dishes I heaved all over the sink because I had Hyperemesis.
    I LOVE IT! and i'm not ashamed to admit it :rotfl:

    me too! though the smell when u open the dishwasher is nearly as bad - over sooner though lol.
    MANAGED TO CLEAR A 3K OVERDRAFT IN ONE FRUGAL, SUPER CHARGED MONEY EARNING MONTH!:j
    £10 a day challenge Aug £408.50, Sept £90
    Weekly.
    155/200
    "It's not always rainbows and butterflies, It's compromise that moves us along."
  • RoxieW
    RoxieW Posts: 3,016 Forumite
    No.5 Write thank you cards. You know that's something I do but no one ever does them for me! So not going to bother anymore :p


    I should do a to do list - I did make out a rota but so far it has been half hearted attempts, I am thinking it will take 6 months to get the hanfg of it properly!
    Tomorrow/today I will give the bathroom a good going over.

    it is nice if u have kids to get them to do it though - just cos other people dont have manners doesnt mean we have to go to their standards. my kids r so spoilt i'm terrified of them becoming ungrateful brats so always make them write out thank you cards :)
    MANAGED TO CLEAR A 3K OVERDRAFT IN ONE FRUGAL, SUPER CHARGED MONEY EARNING MONTH!:j
    £10 a day challenge Aug £408.50, Sept £90
    Weekly.
    155/200
    "It's not always rainbows and butterflies, It's compromise that moves us along."
  • RoxieW
    RoxieW Posts: 3,016 Forumite
    edited 5 January 2010 at 5:47PM
    Slowly getting there with the list. I went into town earlier - braved the snow using the pram as a snowplough/crutch. Glad i picked up some milk and bread as ordered a big shop for today and doesnt look like Mr tesco is coming :(

    1 - Ironing/Clothes
    2 - Washing/Drying :)
    3 - Surface clean bathroom :)
    4 - Surface clean kitchen :)
    5 - Replace kettle and toaster :)
    6 - Sort the boys toys to go in their room :) A bloody big job!!
    7 - Buy big storage boxes for boys rooms
    8 - Take decorations down
    9 - Take tree and recycling to tip -delegate to hubby lol
    10 - Declutter my room
    11 - Paperwork
    12 - Take boys for haircuts
    13 - Wii fit (putting this on so i commit to doing it lol) :)
    14 - Gt boys to do thank you notes for xmas pressies
    15 - post thank you notes for xmas pressies
    16 - sort play returns :)
    17 - take returns to P/O
    18 - menu plan and list :)
    19 - food shop :)
    20 - pick up p/o parcels :)
    21 - cancel gourmet society card :) need to post
    22 - go to gym to cancel membership :)
    23 - get weighed :):( put on 3 pounds over the festive season - doesnt bode well as I have also cancelled my gym membership to save money lol
    24 - cancel sky :)
    25 - book drs apps for me and coby :)
    26 - dale do play returns :) need posting
    27 - find a new mobile phone deal and order
    28 - find desk :) ikea jonas or cyril, shoe storage :) ikea bissa and argos 5 clear shoe boxes, chair :) argos and toy box :) ikea apa,
    MANAGED TO CLEAR A 3K OVERDRAFT IN ONE FRUGAL, SUPER CHARGED MONEY EARNING MONTH!:j
    £10 a day challenge Aug £408.50, Sept £90
    Weekly.
    155/200
    "It's not always rainbows and butterflies, It's compromise that moves us along."
  • RoxieW
    RoxieW Posts: 3,016 Forumite
    boys home from school - totally mega snowy here - pretty as a picture but quite an inconvenience. oh well - happy to hole up at home - just need some food from Mr T!!
    MANAGED TO CLEAR A 3K OVERDRAFT IN ONE FRUGAL, SUPER CHARGED MONEY EARNING MONTH!:j
    £10 a day challenge Aug £408.50, Sept £90
    Weekly.
    155/200
    "It's not always rainbows and butterflies, It's compromise that moves us along."
  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    edited 5 January 2010 at 3:44PM
    SugarSpun wrote: »
    My list for today is fairly simple:

    [STRIKE]4 work things[/STRIKE]

    Home:
    [STRIKE]
    Call SLC
    Call mattress people
    Make sure couriers get off ok
    Tidy desk area[/STRIKE]
    Tidy living room a bit
    [STRIKE]Clear stuff off dining room table
    Tidy Husband's birthday present stash in wardrobe
    Organise shoes a bit[/STRIKE]

    I'm really feeling rather pleased with myself :)
    Organised Birthdays and Christmas: Spend So Far: £193.75; Saved from RRP £963.76
    Three gifts left to buy
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