MSE Parents Club Part 9

searching_me

weezl i couldnt of said it better myself ... also i think you're fab so whatever you chose to do i wish it forever makes you happy x

weezl74

Becles wrote: »

Thanks. I just have a bad gut feeling about something and it makes me feel uncomfortable at times.

Oh dear becles that doesn't sound good. Is it something you feel you can post about, or would that not work/be helpful.

Maybe other people feel it too?

mm, elle and feely thank you all for saying nice things

I'm ever so grateful for the support I get on here. I'd love to pay you all back somehow! Move to Wales everyone! I will make cakes

elle, I'm not sure about being a SAHM, it's an interesting question! I think that part of my personality is quite intense and tasky/projecty. I love to plan outcomes and see achievements. I wonder if, without some sort of work to channel that into it might come out towards Fergie and Kester. Like being a bit over-ambitious on their behalf. Or caring too much about their achievements and milestones. But I think I would like to find something different for a while. And definately not full time. I miss Fergie too much! I say to him at the end of my working days 'oooooooh I missed you all up!' and we touch foreheads. :cool:

Did/do you ever think about it? I mean if the ace new job hadn't come about or maybe even when rhys has a little sister (be quiet naughty weezl! Don't try to recruit for the PG thread :D)

angela6834

weezl74 wrote: »

How about we all say 3 things we love about mm?

I'll start,

• I love your funny, frank and real take on life
• I love that you cope with hard things but you don't winge, you just do what you can to make it work for C, J and D
• I love that you are naughty and cheeky and saucy when you post on here beyond 10pm:D

Weezl, im sure you'll be good at whatever you want to do in life. I'm sure you are all those already to family and friends. You are on here.

And point 3 made me chuckle as its soo true x:rotfl:

Gald you're okay MM and sorry you had such a poo birthday x

weezl74

angela6834 wrote: »

Weezl, im sure you'll be good at whatever you want to do in life. I'm sure you are all those already to family and friends. You are on here.

And point 3 made me chuckle as its soo true x:rotfl:

Thanks :Aand searchie

And now we all hug.


And everyone point and laugh at the preggie lady who is having a happy little weep on her keyboard


:rotfl:

tarajayne

weezl74 wrote: »

How about we all say 3 things we love about mm?

I'll start,

• I love your funny, frank and real take on life
• I love that you cope with hard things but you don't winge, you just do what you can to make it work for C, J and D
• I love that you are naughty and cheeky and saucy when you post on here beyond 10pm:D

Mad
Mental
Mummy
=MMM!!!

so MM with extra Mmmmmm!

aless02

bruno - ta, will look at tooting.

there's a SE London meet at the Horniman Museum in Forest Hill - check the sling meet website for more info. jennynoo from here is planning to go too i believe. sw london also 1 that might b closer, not sure

redmel1621

mm - sorry I missed it was your birthday. Happy birthday, although I see i am a bit late for that.....sorry you had such a crap day!!

Bruno - Thank you, yes I am absolutely overjoyed with the carpet....as is kai, it has certainly increased his crawling speed as he is no longer slipping!! the only problem is that because the carpet is so posh it made the rest of downstairs look naff, hence the decorating marathon!
How is your oh now, has she(and you) thought anymore about nursery/childminder for Elijah? I am not sure if I am regretting pulling Kai out of nursery myself, as we get no help from family etc it was quite nice to be able to get jobs done without CONSTANTLY stopping to entertain/move/feed/change/comfort kai, nothing seems to get done...

On that note, I picked up the forms for pre-school today, she said they are jam packed for this coming school year (sept/jan starters) So good job I collected the forms now to get his name down....she also gave me the forms for the 'belly baby'!!! I can't work out when he will start though? His brthday is march 15th, so he will be 2.5yrs old on Sept 15th, does that mean he will start in the Sept or Jan???

money_maker_3

I am going toput my kids to bed , be back on in a min or two to chat again xx

searching_me

weezl we'd never point and laugh just ask if you need a cuppa?? x

elle_gee

weezl74 wrote: »

I'm ever so grateful for the support I get on here. I'd love to pay you all back somehow! Move to Wales everyone! I will make cakes

Giant jaffa cakes?

elle, I'm not sure about being a SAHM, it's an interesting question! I think that part of my personality is quite intense and tasky/projecty. I love to plan outcomes and see achievements. I wonder if, without some sort of work to channel that into it might come out towards Fergie and Kester. Like being a bit over-ambitious on their behalf. Or caring too much about their achievements and milestones. But I think I would like to find something different for a while. And definately not full time. I miss Fergie too much! I say to him at the end of my working days 'oooooooh I missed you all up!' and we touch foreheads. :cool:

Did/do you ever think about it? I mean if the ace new job hadn't come about or maybe even when rhys has a little sister (be quiet naughty weezl! Don't try to recruit for the PG thread :D)

I know what you mean.. I think I'm the same. I'd turn Rhys into too much of a project! :cool: I do like working because I like having a purpose, feeling useful and completing things - the last one you don't get with a child, there is no "end" to development, iykwim. I don't think I'd feel like I'm fulfilling my potential as a SAHM.. a bit like, I'm an okay mum but I couldn't turn it into something I excel at (whereas I feel like I excel at work.. a bit ).

Plus all this is hypothetical as I can't afford not to work! But if I had the choice, I think I'd still have to work somehow, somewhere

As for Rhys having a little sister.. it'd better be sister, cos I have no ideas for a name of a little brother! Mind you, won't be for a good few years yet.. time for you to have a third!