MSE Parents Club Part 9

feelinggood_2

ladybirdintheuk wrote: »

How are you feeling today feelie?

Not that great, worried because there isn't any support on a weekend so if I get worse I'm a bit stuck. Toby is teething which isn't great timing. Medication starts on Monday so just got to try to get through till then.

Tigsteroonie

jillie1974 wrote: »

definitely not lol!!!
more like a size 16 short !!!!!!!
must have been the dodgy photo i sent plus the complaint about never being able to try clothes on anymore cos no shops have changing areas where a buggy will fit!

Good point. Mind you, I don't think I've actually tried on any clothes in a shop for donkey's years, I generally buy big and then take it back if it looks ridiculous. Perhaps I should have told them I'm fed up with dressing in Tesco & Asda clothes?

jillie1974

feelinggood wrote: »

Not that great, worried because there isn't any support on a weekend so if I get worse I'm a bit stuck. Toby is teething which isn't great timing. Medication starts on Monday so just got to try to get through till then.

just chat to us feelie. thats what we're here for

ladybirdintheuk

feelinggood wrote: »

Not that great, worried because there isn't any support on a weekend so if I get worse I'm a bit stuck. Toby is teething which isn't great timing. Medication starts on Monday so just got to try to get through till then.

You can do it. My friend in guildford has a tummy bug at the mo, or I would send him round to you. If you get really stuck I know he has lots of broody female friends who would be glad of a baby to cuddle. they are all excitable students from what I can tell though, so mght not really be very helpful!

Krystaltips

Urgh, just got a waste of paper letter from the CSA telling me nothing I didn't already know... But it's addressed in my married name... I've never changed it with them because the less he knows about our life the better... Hubby says it doesn't matter whether he knows or not... But I don't want him getting all territorial and feeling he needs to stake a claim or something...

jillie1974

Tigsteroonie wrote: »

Good point. Mind you, I don't think I've actually tried on any clothes in a shop for donkey's years, I generally buy big and then take it back if it looks ridiculous. Perhaps I should have told them I'm fed up with dressing in Tesco & Asda clothes?

i just said i have no fashion sense whatsoever and just dress the same all the time.should have said i'm an asda girl!! then they asked me who's 'style' did i like... mind went blank.... so i said holly willoughby lol!!! can think of loads now

just wait and see now. prob wont get picked

angelfairy

Krystaltips wrote: »

Urgh, just got a waste of paper letter from the CSA telling me nothing I didn't already know... But it's addressed in my married name... I've never changed it with them because the less he knows about our life the better... Hubby says it doesn't matter whether he knows or not... But I don't want him getting all territorial and feeling he needs to stake a claim or something...

how is that they have got your married name then??? i didn't think agencies really spoke to each other.

Krystaltips

angelfairy wrote: »

how is that they have got your married name then??? i didn't think agencies really spoke to each other.

As a rule they don't... The only thing I can think of is child benefit, I don't know any other way really... Maybe someone else will know... <ahem>3<ahem>

angelfairy

Krystaltips wrote: »

As a rule they don't... The only thing I can think of is child benefit, I don't know any other way really... Maybe someone else will know... <ahem>3<ahem>

ah that's a point, although a bit poor security wise if you didn't want the other person knowing your married name and change in circumstances.

angela6834

AF...hope things start to get better for you soon. I had really bad sleeping problems with DS and all i can say is, like everyone has, it does get better ( he is 17 tho!! only kidding) DD1 and Rose were and are both angels for sleeping but it honestly not down to being a good mummy or not as they have all been put down the same. Im sure the sloppy kisses in the morning make you feel better. The poem for Weezl made me cry too.

MFD...missed Benjamin's first word...bless, they are growing up so fast

Feelie...I hope you can speak to someone soon and feel a bitter. I have no experience of this but hate hearing you feel so down.

Weezl...you are such a lovely person, I really dont like the tought of you doubting yourself at all. Im sure if you can manage to get some sleep, you'll feel much better. There is 17 months between my eldest 2 and i know i found the second pregnancy hard. You are such a support to everyone on here. I hope you can feel that back when you need it x