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MSE Parents Club Part 9

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  • jillie1974
    jillie1974 Posts: 6,997 Forumite
    csh wrote: »
    They were good enough for my DD, and my sister and I when we were babies so I'm sure they are fine for Kian:cool:
    (although I'm sure my mum ate most of ours!)

    i used to eat my brothers and sister's when they were babies. i used to have then with warm milk before i went to school.
    we all turned out ok :rolleyes:
    'Children are not things to be moulded, but are people to be unfolded'
  • ManOnTheMoon
    ManOnTheMoon Posts: 2,815 Forumite
    Sorry to hear Benjamin falling out of bed. I hope the little man is okay now.

    Rusks chavvy? They've been around longer than chavs! And sausage rolls from Greggs chavvy? Why? I've never been in Greggs, so maybe i'm missing something?

    My girls all had rusks when younger and we own our own house and aren't violent. 15yo's odd altercation with ex boyfriend aside :p
  • keelykat
    keelykat Posts: 3,341 Forumite
    Becles wrote: »
    There's loads on your list! I only took a small holdall for both me and baby.

    I didn't take any bottles of water, juice etc. The hospital had water coolers and I just drank from there in labour or had OH fetch it for me.

    When I was in labour, even though it was long and I had a book and a magazine with me, I never bothered looking at anything! Mind was concentrating too much on getting the baby out.

    I came home in the same maternity clothes that I went in. You're a normal person, so you're not going to have a baby and pop straight back to pre-pregnancy overnight :D

    Remember that OH and family will be popping in regular so they can bring in clean clothes as you need them and take the dirty ones away. They can also bring in other supplies. eg: I just took shower gel, but if I'd been kept in any longer I would have asked hubby to bring shampoo and conditioner in so I could wash my hair.

    I agree that maternity pads are better than Always type pads especially for the first few days. It's going to be very sore down there and you'll appreciate the extra padding on a maternity towel.

    Hope all goes well and if you're worrying about anything else, pop back and we'll put your mind at rest.

    Fab reply :)

    I didn't need a lot in the end, labour was shorter then i'd imagined though.
    One thing i did need loads of was the pads-i bled loads!

    Keely.
    Mommy to Elliot (5) and Lewis (born xmas eve 11!)
  • ManOnTheMoon
    ManOnTheMoon Posts: 2,815 Forumite
    We went out for lunch today like proper grown ups :D! It was so nice, even if it was just Pizza Express (free with Clubcard vouchers :money:). Henry slept the whole time :T.

    Also popped into Tesco on the way home and got some more 3-6 mth vests as Henry has so nearly grown out of his 0-3 ones ...... at 7 and a half weeks old. He must have a long body as the legs on everything are fine, but vests are too tight around the crotch, IYKWIM. They were a rather bargainous £1.75 for three and they had long sleeve, short sleeve and sleeveless. I hope I don't upset anyone by saying this, but I hate the sleeveless ones. The look like 'wife beater' tops, why would you want to put a baby in one of those?! I will probably eat my words if we have a heartwave this summer though :p.

    MOTM- I have to say that I think Lucy quitting and looking for other jobs is much less scary than just quitting and working from home. The nursery one sounds very hopeful so fingers crossed.

    Sounds like you had a productive and MSE day. :T

    She wants to do something, but it has to be right. I understand that. No point staying in a job that makes you miserable, because it will start affecting all of us eventually. So, with my backing, she is quitting tomorrow and will look for something part time that she may enjoy. Finances are of no concern, so no pressure to just take anything.

    We'll have a chat once girls have gone to bed and she says she'll talk to me about the playgroup/pre-school thingy. I'm not going to get her hopes up, even though I think she is fantastic, I think we have to look at it realistically and she may not get it.
  • DD1 had excema on her cheeks and E45 cleared it up really quickly, she did grow out of it and dosnt suffer at all now.

    I was told by the HV that even the low sugar rusks contained alot of sugar which is why they dont recommend them.
    CSH - looking at your FB pics - you have the same (massive ) age gap as me between your two - how you finding it?
    19.6.10 Weight loss 6lb :D
  • Buttonmoons
    Buttonmoons Posts: 13,323 Forumite
    I used to get some sleeveless vests for Keira when she was small just to wear with her dresses though, for some reason loads of baby girl dresses are sleeveless, and look stoooopid with sleeves off a vest poking through :p

    We had a fun day, went Ice Skating, Keira looked so funny in her REAL ice skates! The guy said to us if it's her first time might aswell learn her on the real things. I was very slow and was hanging onto the edge but managed to work up a (tiny!) bit of speed by the end, but my feet were killing me because we were going so slow, and holding keiras hand, so you had to be constantly tense in case she hauled you over!

    She liked it but didn't like it when we went too fast, she never tried to skate on her own though but it would be quite difficult because I was skiting all over the place. Think we'll take her every 2 weeks or so, she can learn balance etc first and see how it goes.

    Went to Asda, bought one of those pedal bins, loads of cat chow and some other shizzle. Spent a fortune today, not including the £15 on taxis.....OOPS
  • csh_2
    csh_2 Posts: 3,294 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    DD1 had excema on her cheeks and E45 cleared it up really quickly, she did grow out of it and dosnt suffer at all now.

    I was told by the HV that even the low sugar rusks contained alot of sugar which is why they dont recommend them.
    CSH - looking at your FB pics - you have the same (massive ) age gap as me between your two - how you finding it?

    Really great now actually! I have far more patience now for babies. In fact the only thing that bothers me now is how much better I am with the baby than I was with DD was she was little. Still, not much I can do about that and she's turned out ok so I couldn't have been that bad!

    DD did not take it well when I was first pregnant, but now she really does dote on her wee bro.

    I haven't found it too weird going back to having a totally dependant child and I don't really feel like this is second time round IYKWIM, I can hardly remember the times when DD was a baby so it all feels new.

    Thats possibly a bit more long winded than you were expecting lol
    How are you finding things?
  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    Evening all. I've read back but didn't really take any of it in. OH is back to work tomorrow after three weeks at home, so it'll be a change to have some 'alone time'. Toby is easier when it is just the two of us, he is happy to amuse himself. When Dad is here, it is always 'fun' time, so he gets a bit upcited. Sorry to not offer much comments on things. If I've missed something you think I could help with, or should mention, please let me know!

    Rusks/jars/chaviness - I probably fall into the judgemental category, I'm ashamed to admit. Purely because I don't understand a lot of methods of weaning. I won't say any more for fear of offending!
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • emlou2009
    emlou2009 Posts: 4,016 Forumite
    Havent caught up, have only read this page. Hope all is well, and everyone is ok! But boo for any bad news there may have been :)

    Did Sami have a good holiday? Have I missed anything?

    I must be a chav, cos I love rusks and Greggs sausage rolls :rotfl: Seth has never had a sausage roll from there, but he has had plenty of rusks in his time. I prefer to give him a rich teat biscuit now though, much more MSE, and they dont turn to gloop! Rusk gloop is bad. But I have been partial to a rusk dipped in my tea :eek:

    I've got a roast duck in the oven :drool:
    Mummy to
    DS (born March 2009)

    DD (born January 2012)
  • Glamazon
    Glamazon Posts: 8,401 Forumite
    MOTM - Not commented on your situation cos not been around to know enough about it. However, if Lucy enjoys her job and its just the practice manager then could she look to move practices?

    I am a practice manager and a very nice one at that :) when I was working my way up I worked for a lovely practice manager with lovely partners HOWEVER I have also worked in some awful practices so it might be worth looking at another practice if she enjoys the job. Is she reception or admin?
    A very busy Yummy Mummy to a 1 year old gorgeous boy :smileyhea

    Where does the time go? :think:
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