MSE Parents Club Part 9

Tigsteroonie

Is it bad of me - or simply sensible - to keep hold of the preemie clothes in case we decide to have a second baby (likely if Andrew makes it to 1yr without any problems being identified), as there is a chance another baby could be almost as prem? (think I've answered my own question!)

SugarSpun

aless02 wrote: »

nope, quiet and typically dim english fare

Very good. I met a group of friends for dinner over Christmas, and the plan was to meet beforehand so they could meet Molly before we went off and left Molly with Husband. Friend 1 suggested we meet at a bar we ended up visiting post-dinner. It had a dress code, a cocktail menu and music so loud I could feel it in my ribcage - definitely a great place for a small baby :rolleyes:

Big hugs Mel - if you want to rant please go ahead.

feelinggood_2

Tigsteroonie wrote: »

Is it bad of me - or simply sensible - to keep hold of the preemie clothes in case we decide to have a second baby (likely if Andrew makes it to 1yr without any problems being identified), as there is a chance another baby could be almost as prem? (think I've answered my own question!)

I know it doesn't compare, but I always think about pumping next time, and always imagine I'll have to do it again. I weighed up the cost of buying a pump against renting it, as I might use it 'next time'. It dawned on me that I might have a baby who latches on on the first day! How weird would that be!

I can't remember your story exactly, would you likely have another early baby?

I worry about 'next time' - I was induced at 39+2 (I think, who knows! I reckon more like 36 weeks), what if I get pre-eclampsia sooner? etc.

It is scary enoug having another baby without the added worries you have.

/ramble

feelinggood_2

Mel, I hope everything sorts itself out. I can empathise a little bit - OH has finally admitted that he is pretty depressed, and I've now got the job of persuading him to treat it. He is a lot more ill than I realised/wanted to admit. So hard to make plans for the future when standing on the edge of what could be a huge change. I wonder about planning holidays and buying houses, we might not even be together in the near future, let alone the far future.

jillie1974

right better go and make tea.

if anyone else would like some boy bay clothes let me know.
grandma did buy quite a bit from m/care

csh_2

feelinggood wrote: »

I know it doesn't compare, but I always think about pumping next time, and always imagine I'll have to do it again. I weighed up the cost of buying a pump against renting it, as I might use it 'next time'. It dawned on me that I might have a baby who latches on on the first day! How weird would that be!

I can't remember your story exactly, would you likely have another early baby?

I worry about 'next time' - I was induced at 39+2 (I think, who knows! I reckon more like 36 weeks), what if I get pre-eclampsia sooner? etc.

It is scary enoug having another baby without the added worries you have.

/ramble

Feelie, I had full blown Eclampsia complete with seizure on delivery table with DD and not even a sniff of high BP with DS!

SugarSpun

Big hugs for feelie too.

Seems like everyone's a bit down tonight - cuddles all round and I hope it looks better tomorrow

csh_2

jillie1974 wrote: »

right better go and make tea.

if anyone else would like some boy bay clothes let me know.
grandma did buy quite a bit from m/care

Are you not hanging onto anything for possible #2? I'm keeping everything in the attic for #3 :rotfl:

jillie1974

csh wrote: »

Are you not hanging onto anything for possible #2? I'm keeping everything in the attic for #3 :rotfl:

i'm hoping for a #2 but would really like a pink one!!

am keeping some outfits that we really like and the ones that have a bit of sentimental value.

but would like new for new baby if was a boy

pookie5488

Have not been posting in ages have had loads of probs with broadband dongle, had to get vm installed in the end!!
Have not got time to read back fully but everyone who is going to the pub tonight, enjoy!!
Love the pics of Henry and Andrew in their bumbos, must try Matthew in his to see how he goes. He has started to go off his milk don't know what is up with him he just does not seem hungry anymore. Today he has had a grand total of 13oz of milk hv not concerned just told me he will not starve himself!! Gp told me to disguise the bottle(!!!!!!???????????)
Have visions of drawing on a pair of glasses and a beard onto my tommee tippees.
SS if you are about could you answer an ultrasound question for me??