MSE Parents Club Part 9

weezl74

redmel1621 wrote: »

Weezl, she is my best friend!
I wish someone had warned me before I read it and became utterly distressed over it, I can't get it out of my mind now:mad::(

Sorry I did ask earlier, but maybe not very clearly as I was rushing off for the school run....what is the documentary that was referred to as finding out there was a problem with Tigs baby?

Oh! naughty friend!

I'm sorry the story scared you, I haven't clicked, must have been a premonition of doom.

I hope you can feel oker because of what susan said about it not being able to happen on NHS?

basically (but tigs will explain this loads better) she was having fortnightly scans and all was well at the 29? week one, so next would have been 31. The documentary makers bumbled filming that scan somehow (detail escapes me) and so an extra one was done in between the 2 scheduled ones. At that scan it was revealed that Andrew wasn't getting all he needed from the placenta (something had started to go the wrong way?) and he needed out PDQ. Apparently without that extra scan they don't know if he would have been ok.

I'm sorry tigs if I've done a bodge of telling that!

redmel1621

Angela...I also had no idea Rose was Prem! Sorry, maybe I should have known as she is similar age to Kai isn't she, he was born in March?? From what I remember she is doing very well and I definitely remember you posting a pic of her not too long ago and she is absolutely beautiful:)

SS - All of our births are very different and although some not as traumatic/life threatening as other, I think we all have expectations and things that happen during or directly after labour that we are not clear about or happy about, I know I do and mine aren't even as bad as what you experienced....for me it is more the hazyness!! I am sorry you are feeling distressed about Molly's birth, but it really is not your fault, you could not have known exactly how things were progressing and what needed to be done. I hope you become more comfortable with how things went as time passes xx

Mel x

weezl74

feelinggood wrote: »

Personally, I think all our babies are miracles. I know MDW's Katie is a miracle. I'm still amazed by Toby's existance, seeing as I'd decided that I wasn't going to have babies.

you're right. And again I'm sorry I picked that word.

*Looks at Fergie, whose Daddy was never going to have any babies*:rotfl:

BeenieCat

I had no idea Rose was an early baby either, sorry Angela. I didn't see the post everyone is referring to you must have deleted it? Anyway don't leave, we're going to meet up one day soon

weezl74

scruffy96uk wrote: »

:hello: Weezl long time since I've been on here at the same time as you? How r things and how is bump?

hey scruff! Yeah you're an owl and I'm a lark! Bump still breech but I'm working on him!

Are you rodent freee now? :D

scruffy96uk

Hey Mel Howz ur bump doing?

I'm never normally on at this time in the moring I'm usually on late at nite hence why I never comment on happenings during the day coz I just don't have time to read back.

ETA no there was scurrying last nite, we've even got a RAT trap now :eek: Today is trap checking day, and whose got to do it, yes ur right muggins here!!!

sparkle03

Angela I was going to comment on your post but I cant find it anymore, I did read it and wanted to say something but I cant remember much of it. Im just sorry you were upset and hope I havnt offended you? Please dont stop posting I love hearing what your all getting up to. Hopefully see you later xx

redmel1621

sparkle03 wrote: »

Sorry Mel, I didnt mean to not tell you hun, I know I 'saw' you yesterday but dont know if it was around that time as I was in and out xx

Don't worry, no-one could have known I would read it, or how it would affect me...but I have terrible nightmares and daymares while pregnant....I mean really horrible:eek:

feelinggood wrote: »

There is lots more I want to say, but we are off to a new group this morning. Then post office at lunch, then Nanny, then dinner out. Busy busy busy!

Yay...and I am glad you enjoyed gymbabes yesterday too:D

weezl74 wrote: »

Oh! naughty friend!

I'm sorry the story scared you, I haven't clicked, must have been a premonition of doom.

I hope you can feel oker because of what susan said about it not being able to happen on NHS?

basically (but tigs will explain this loads better) she was having fortnightly scans and all was well at the 29? week one, so next would have been 31. The documentary makers bumbled filming that scan somehow (detail escapes me) and so an extra one was done in between the 2 scheduled ones. At that scan it was revealed that Andrew wasn't getting all he needed from the placenta (something had started to go the wrong way?) and he needed out PDQ. Apparently without that extra scan they don't know if he would have been ok.

I'm sorry tigs if I've done a bodge of telling that!

Thanks weezl...so she was having her scans filmed for a documentary then....what documentary was it, I wonder if I saw it.

scruffy96uk

Mel I don't think it's been on yet!! I may be wrong tho.

Jakesmummy

Morning everyone, Hope everyones ok?

kids are driving me mad this morning, jakes nursery has said that he can start having dinner there, for £8 a week which seems reasonable considering he'd be there a little extra a day plus they get a cooked meal, think am gonna give it a weeks trial cos he's really fussy and I seriously dont think he will eat anything they give him, but am gonna try you never know it might get him eating things!!

jillie1974 wrote: »

i thought i was going to fall of the operating table. it seemed so narrow!!
i was more scared about falling off the table lol!!

now i just wonder if the same thing could happen again (K's head didnt turn properly and forceps, ventouse didnt work)... if i was to get pg...can i ask for a CS staright away?

I did after Jake, Jake was failed vontuse and fauceps (cant remember the order?) and then section under general so had app at 36wks with jasmine and they said they'd prefer to do arranged section.(which i was happy with) Which compared to the birth with Jake was lovely cos i got to see my baby all gooey!! I was gutted after I had Jake cos by the time I'd come round he was fed, changed washed and dressed! Did you have K at bolton? that sounds similar to what happened with jake his head was kind of wonky trying to come out, x