MSE Parents Club Part 9

sparkle03

Angela I was going to comment on your post but I cant find it anymore, I did read it and wanted to say something but I cant remember much of it. Im just sorry you were upset and hope I havnt offended you? Please dont stop posting I love hearing what your all getting up to. Hopefully see you later xx

redmel1621

sparkle03 wrote: »

Sorry Mel, I didnt mean to not tell you hun, I know I 'saw' you yesterday but dont know if it was around that time as I was in and out xx

Don't worry, no-one could have known I would read it, or how it would affect me...but I have terrible nightmares and daymares while pregnant....I mean really horrible:eek:

feelinggood wrote: »

There is lots more I want to say, but we are off to a new group this morning. Then post office at lunch, then Nanny, then dinner out. Busy busy busy!

Yay...and I am glad you enjoyed gymbabes yesterday too:D

weezl74 wrote: »

Oh! naughty friend!

I'm sorry the story scared you, I haven't clicked, must have been a premonition of doom.

I hope you can feel oker because of what susan said about it not being able to happen on NHS?

basically (but tigs will explain this loads better) she was having fortnightly scans and all was well at the 29? week one, so next would have been 31. The documentary makers bumbled filming that scan somehow (detail escapes me) and so an extra one was done in between the 2 scheduled ones. At that scan it was revealed that Andrew wasn't getting all he needed from the placenta (something had started to go the wrong way?) and he needed out PDQ. Apparently without that extra scan they don't know if he would have been ok.

I'm sorry tigs if I've done a bodge of telling that!

Thanks weezl...so she was having her scans filmed for a documentary then....what documentary was it, I wonder if I saw it.

scruffy96uk

Mel I don't think it's been on yet!! I may be wrong tho.

Jakesmummy

Morning everyone, Hope everyones ok?

kids are driving me mad this morning, jakes nursery has said that he can start having dinner there, for £8 a week which seems reasonable considering he'd be there a little extra a day plus they get a cooked meal, think am gonna give it a weeks trial cos he's really fussy and I seriously dont think he will eat anything they give him, but am gonna try you never know it might get him eating things!!

jillie1974 wrote: »

i thought i was going to fall of the operating table. it seemed so narrow!!
i was more scared about falling off the table lol!!

now i just wonder if the same thing could happen again (K's head didnt turn properly and forceps, ventouse didnt work)... if i was to get pg...can i ask for a CS staright away?

I did after Jake, Jake was failed vontuse and fauceps (cant remember the order?) and then section under general so had app at 36wks with jasmine and they said they'd prefer to do arranged section.(which i was happy with) Which compared to the birth with Jake was lovely cos i got to see my baby all gooey!! I was gutted after I had Jake cos by the time I'd come round he was fed, changed washed and dressed! Did you have K at bolton? that sounds similar to what happened with jake his head was kind of wonky trying to come out, x

sparkle03

Feely hope you have a good day out! Sounds lots of fun x

Argh, just realised I left the buggy in the boot!!! Why???

I just looked down and Lexi has taken her pj bottoms off and she has them properly on her head like a hat :rotfl::rotfl: How on earth did she do that without me noticing?



Sorry just had to share, cant believe she managed to do it without me seein, see Im a bad mummy not paying her attention!

aless02

*hugs* to all, I think lots of people need it this morning

Apparently I have a baby that does not like to sleep? Seriously not had a night this bad since we first brought him home. He's decided he hates his Moses basket again (and even co-sleeping for 3 hrs this morning did nothing)...I do hope it's a very temporary phase!

angela6834

I think Sparkle is right, maybe emotions are running high!

I have deleted the post cause im not brave enough to have everyone commenting on it.

Weezl, in response to your post, I dont know if/ how we can stop it happening. We dont know how hormonal/emotional/ whats going on at home etc in eveyones life so we dont know how each and everyone of us will feel on a given day. I think its as much to do with me and how i cant bare to think of the birth and her time in special care. I know exactly how SS feels this morning and really feel you honey.

Im not here to self induldge, sorry x

sparkle03

Hope your ok Hun, are you two upto much today? Im really sorry if I have upset you xx

scruffy96uk

I suppose it's very much down to how much people remember when their posting. My memory is terrible and I only remember what I want to and half the time I probably even get that wrong. There are probably others like this. It's so huge and like angela just said it all depends on folks family life and just life in general.
What we've got to remember is everyone has there owns birth stories/worries, family problems and sometimes they just come on to vent and forget about others trying to do the same. I hope I'm making sense.
It's been said before if it is something you want people to comment on and nobody does try reposting/asking again and see if you get a response after jogging peoples memory that you already posting regarding this.

Hope that all makes sense.

angela6834

sparkle03 wrote: »

Hope your ok Hun, are you two upto much today? Im really sorry if I have upset you xx

Dont be silly. Im fine. I just forget that because she's the centre of my world that everyone else has other miracles too x