MSE Parents Club Part 9

angela6834

sparkle03 wrote: »

Theres always a cleaning job to do in this house no matter how much of the day/week I spend doing it I should probably be busy busy but I cba
When is it you go back?

I dont go back till April but it seems to be approaching fast. Im only going back 2 days a week and i know im lucky compared to some but i really dont want to leave her x

BeenieCat wrote: »

Good idea - are you in newcastle? There's a few more from the preggy thread. CAFC is near me, and kindof is northumberland i think, wonder if they'd wanna come

Yeah im in Newcastle. We'll have to arrange maybe a central place for everyone but it would be good i think. Would be a bit nervous but im sure we'd all be fine.

Choppy, Rose wont go to sleep in her cot during the day either ( well ive had one or two times when she has but not many). We have a corner sofa so she has a 'v' cushion and i lay her in the corner with a blanket and she goes off okay. She doesnt sleep that great during the day but she sleeps well at night so i cant complain. You could try something like this x

searching_me

night night jillie x

cazscoob

just an update before i head to bed, i called HV and she came out as i was upset, she talked me through it all and was very worried and called the police. HV was an angel cleaned up, fed kids and put dishwasher on then she sat with kids while police went through everything. they were talking about searching my house etc etc just as they were about to start my phone went and it was him, he was told to come back and report to the local station. he has been back and i dont think he realised that he had done anything wrong, im all confused and cant understand why he done this and he cannot answer me just said it was a good idea at the time? he is away to the hotel again as i got myself into a state and couldnt talk to him. my head hurts with crying so much and i just feel alone, im going to speak to MIL about taking the kids for a few days i need time to sort myself out and at the moment i just dont have it in me

ladybirdintheuk

Evening all. Just popped on quickly. Feelie that picture is adorable

Poor Izzy was sick last night, so had to get my Mum to look after her today. She was a lot more cheery when I got home from work, and seems to have a good day, and has eaten her fill of biccies and bananas (but not a lot else!)

i hope everyone else is ok

Glamazon

aw Caz Massive hugs. We are here if you need us xxx

What a wonderful HV! :A

My_Fathers_Daughter

Oh caz - hugs hun. Glad the HV was helpful. Please keep asking for as much help as you can get and you know we are here if you need to talk. xxx

searching_me

((BIG HUGS)) caz .. what a brill HV though xxx

Buttonmoons

The housing man has told me before to fill in medical forms with my "issues" with it all, and that will give me more points, but you know, I never did, and why? Because it is UTTERLY pointless, they won't rehouse me in a million years because I'm adequetly housed, at least through normal channels.

I cant get points for overcrowding
I'd get 1 point per year per person and maybe 5 at the most medical. So 8 points. Nothing!!

I will be complaining about them, but the housing man doesn't care, I told him before about their banging on their ceiling and they didn't stop. They honestly think they own the place, they chased the last family off and they had a toddler at the time and kept reporting them :eek:

I honestly don't believe we make excessive noise at all.

Keira is up at 10am

She then vegs on the sofa watching Dora as she eats her breakfast
She plays with her playsets or draws etc
Gets dressed for nursery
Then we are out the house for 12:30 and she isn't home until 4pm usually.

In her bed at 8pm.

Yes she can run (but its rare because Im on her constantly about it, which isnt fair) and she falls now and then because she is bappit but I really dont kow what their problem is. SHE HAS TO WALK!! Im heavy footed myself. God knows!

It's got to the point where I dread coming home after her nursery.

Mel - I know if the noise WAS terrible, it would be awful for them I agree, but its really not, a bit of thumping probably now and then but like I said it's non exsistent now. The woman above me's kid is really noisy, but it wouldnt occur to me to complain about them because its never beyond 8pm IYSWIM?

Im sure its like 8-8 or maybe later, is normal living hours.

Caz what's happened?

SugarSpun

Big hugs Caz. I wish I could do something.

Buttonmoons

Oh and Aberdeen is really expensive to rent, I could get somewhere like what I'm in now for maybe £650 a month, but I really begrudge that. For a big drop in our income, I'd expect at least a garden, and no neighbours below me!!