telling a partner about my debt

littlesmurf

hi everyone.. thank you for the kind messages. sorry about the delay in answering.. sunflower.how is it going ? so glad you told him,hold in there it will get better x
houseiseverything, we haven't remortgaged. we are paying variable rate atm. its not working out much more. i did try to get remortgaged but was knocked back by some companies,and I couldn;t stand to look anymore. on a bright side we only have 9 years mortgage left. as we are both fulltime now,we decided to pay a overpayment on that each month rather than up the dmp anymore,as we pay more interest on the mortgage we thought it was better that way.
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littlesmurf

Hi All.

I'd love to thank everyone for the support help and general comments since all this started.. I am now clear ! Last payment made on dmp and account closed. My hubby and i are closer than ever and i am never ever going back there.. I know a shopping addiction never goes away and i will never have another credit card as long as i live..if anyone has the same problem as me..please please tell your partner get help.. Dont suffer the agony guilt and sleepless nights.. I had lots if private messages telling me i was an inspration to them which was lovely..but really i was a scared woman who didnt know where to turn and found great support on here. So thank you all.
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7roland8

Not been involved with your journey but want to say a huge 'well done' - it must be such a fantastic feeling to be free of the debts.