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The Sub Prime Credit Thread - Part IV
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usedandabused wrote: »oh thats good, no interest on existing balances, but then again if you go bust, they can't legally enforce interest anyway
heres hoping vanquis go bust, the interest is killing me, all because i needed to get a phone put in my house for an ex who used me big time, paid with my credit card and i'm getting charged around 52% on interest, madness hey?
but i do have a tescos card and even the sygma card if it ever comes, at much lower rates to transfer it over too.
remember with ure SYGMA u AUTOAMTICALLY get a 6 month balance transfer deal at 0% interest that should help ure vanquis a lot
oh and yeah women wise i feel ure pain mate mines took me to court to try and FORCE me to sell my house and give her half the EQUITY..........SHE LOST
THOUGH SHE COST ME A SMALL FORTUNE IN LEGAL COSTS
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Its-A-New-Age-Thing wrote: »remember with ure SYGMA u AUTOAMTICALLY get a 6 month balance transfer deal at 0% interest that should help ure vanquis a lot
cheers for that, yes, i need to rid myself of vanquis and crappy one completely, maybe i'll just use the sygma or even tesco, close the rest down, stop applying for credit for 2 years, the default i have still has three years to run its course, within two years most prime banks will probably accept me!She LEFT me, she LIED, and she made me foot the BILL ! :mad:0 -
Its-A-New-Age-Thing wrote: »
oh and yeah women wise i feel ure pain mate mines took me to court to try and FORCE me to sell my house and give her half the EQUITY..........SHE LOST
THOUGH SHE COST ME A SMALL FORTUNE IN LEGAL COSTS
:mad::D:(
How come? If she lost then there should have been a costs order against her to cover your costs - they are the usual rules.2013 TARGET £30k
2012 £26500 paid off.
2011 £22750 paid off
2010 £19800 paid off
2009 MBNA Cleared 25.09.09 £34391.33 PAID OFFDFW Nerd 612 Proud to be dealing with my debts0 -
How come? If she lost then there should have been a costs order against her to cover your costs (and yes I am a family lawyer)
coz i agrreed to pay her legal costs to get to her to p!ss off due to previous agreements which had been signed, and she stood no chance of gettin out of
shed basically agreed to sign it over to me, then decided she was gonna try and change her mind
which didnt sit well with the minute of agreement
in the end i couldnt be arsed any longer, she has my 12 year old daughter and 8 year old son
soooooooooooooooo i wouldnt screw her financially with legal costs as itd be taken food from my kids mouths
long story went on for about 2 years............
shes now TOTALLY OUT OF MY LIFE AND ITS NOW TOTALLY MINE
i hear shes now using my child support payments to pay for her new wedding dress
i hope shes happy
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Its-A-New-Age-Thing wrote: »
oh and yeah women wise i feel ure pain mate mines took me to court to try and FORCE me to sell my house and give her half the EQUITY..........SHE LOST
THOUGH SHE COST ME A SMALL FORTUNE IN LEGAL COSTS
:mad::D:(
well at least you were not duped by a criminal, who ended up behind bars, scammed me for what little I did have, but she was sentenced for a crime she commited prior to us getting together!
if i really disclosed the amount of money i gave her because she 'needed to feed herself, pay for prescriptions', you'd all have a heart attack, mostly i had to borrow from my elderly aunt, used all my modest wages of HER, everyone warned me she was a gold digger, but a criminal i never knew!!!!She LEFT me, she LIED, and she made me foot the BILL ! :mad:0 -
usedandabused wrote: »well at least you were not duped by a criminal, who ended up behind bars, scammed me for what little I did have, but she was sentenced for a crime she commited prior to us getting together!
if i really disclosed the amount of money i gave her because she 'needed to feed herself, pay for prescriptions', you'd all have a heart attack, mostly i had to borrow from my elderly aunt, used all my modest wages of HER, everyone warned me she was a gold digger, but a criminal i never knew!!!!
seeeeeeeeee sometimes celibacys not a bad thing after all is saves u a fortune,
i think most of us have made wrong decisions mate u just were more unlucky than most
hey u live an learn chin up
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Its-A-New-Age-Thing wrote: »coz i agrreed to pay her legal costs to get to her to p!ss off due to previous agreements which had been signed, and she stood no chance of gettin out of
shed basically agreed to sign it over to me, then decided she was gonna try and change her mind
which didnt sit well with the minute of agreement
in the end i couldnt be arsed any longer, she has my 12 year old daughter and 8 year old son
soooooooooooooooo i wouldnt screw her financially with legal costs as itd be taken food from my kids mouths
long story went on for about 2 years............
shes now TOTALLY OUT OF MY LIFE AND ITS NOW TOTALLY MINE
i hear shes now using my child support payments to pay for her new wedding dress
i hope shes happy
:A
Ouch!
Although i think that was quite magnanimous of you. Its nice to see a partner putting his children first. I don't see it very often. By the time it gets to me its usually turned into a war and the children are getting caught in the cross fire. It makes me mightily annoyed! :mad:2013 TARGET £30k
2012 £26500 paid off.
2011 £22750 paid off
2010 £19800 paid off
2009 MBNA Cleared 25.09.09 £34391.33 PAID OFFDFW Nerd 612 Proud to be dealing with my debts0 -
Ouch!
Although i think that was quite magnanimous of you. Its nice to see a partner putting his children first. I don't see it very often. By the time it gets to me its usually turned into a war and the children are getting caught in the cross fire. It makes me mightily annoyed! :mad:
it was my KIDS first and foremost that factored into it, plus im in a storng financial position have been these past few years, shes not........ i didnt need her money though she needed or RATHER i knew the kids NEEDED it and thats the way it kinda played out there was so many factors to it, would take forever to get into on this though id been the ONLY ONE WHOD EVER PAID A MORTGAGE PAYMENT, directly from my SOLE BANK account, agreements had been made previously though mot within a SPECIFIED TIMESCALE so she GOT OUT OF THEM MORE WERE THEN MADE AND IT WENT ON AND ON AND ON.........................0 -
Its-A-New-Age-Thing wrote: »seeeeeeeeee sometimes celibacys not a bad thing after all is saves u a fortune,
i think most of us have made wrong decisions mate u just were more unlucky than most
hey u live an learn chin up
:beer:
cheers for your kind words:beer:
now i'm off to burn the witches pictures heheShe LEFT me, she LIED, and she made me foot the BILL ! :mad:0 -
Bloody women eh!!0
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