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rose07

Hi all

How are you all?

soz i aint bin roundi havent been well recently

MC, i understand how you are feeling, how is it always us creative people that get depressed??
i had a relapse this week, and so totally understand how you must be feeling at the moment.
and people can say that they know how you feel but it is only you that can do something about it.

i dont think you are a failure, by the way, you are extremely talented in your photography, and i bet there are other things you are good at and enjoy too.
keep these things up as it is clear that your photography keeps you going, as it does me.
the doc wont think your selfish, and you do have the right to go see one, he will understand.
but can understand you thinking you are selfish, i thought this too, until i got to a point where i was sverely ill due to my depression, and then i didnt have a choice in the matter, i have seen councellors on and off for 4 years, and all i can say, is go once, and see if it helps, sometimes it helps and sometimes it doesnt, it truely depends what kind of person you are.

has anything happened to make you have these feelings? or has it built up for a while?

when you feel down try and think of something that makes you smile, mine is my dog. your might be a place or a photograph, etc....

we are all here if you need a chat, and you can pm me anytime if you need some advice or help.

((((((HUGS)))))))xxx

mclaren_2

yeh im ok - this was on the 2nd page!! i was just having a bad week

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glad to hear you are feeling better mclaren, been a sunny day here today so been in the garden, have picked loads of apples and more still on the tree
hope everyone is okay

whatamess_2

Afternoon all.
Glad to hear your feeling a bit better mcl.:D

Been very quiet around here.

chucks look lovely zc, wheres cg? wonder how badger is? dj numbers going up:D

Had friend from the mids down for the weekend:j lots of :beer: very little sleep.;) Feel dreadful:rolleyes:

For those of us in education who is looking forward to work? Not me!!!! Two inset days:eek: fire training and manual handling:eek: what picking a box up has to do with moving a child I dont know!!!!

Been looking at the police community service officer thing, might make some more inquiries.

Hello to everyone else,

Love all Messy

divorcingjack

oh god, soooo tired.

love the chickens zc! Very fluffy

KathrynPenguin

Can't wait to get back Messy. I can turn off being a bored Mummy and be myself again!

Inset tomorrow and new Year 7 in on Tuesday. Wednesday the monsters are back in force! SOO EXCITED!!!

Oh how sad am I.

On the house front, we viewed again Saturday and they assured us that they would not accept any other offers, they just want a good quick sale. Oh its going to be amazing, just found out that the local primary school is small and excellent. My neighbor has someone interested in renting my house already!!!!

For once in my life things are going well, but I am fully aware the crap is probably just around the corner.

rose07

KP. dont think you sad, if ya looking forward to it.

as prob said before my mums a teacher she teaches 4 and 5 year olds,
but starts a new school tomorrow.

i hope tomorrow goes great for all you teachers out there, you do a great job. x

competitionscafe

Interesting article from todays Sunday Herald magazine - good to know that I am not the only male out there in this situation and good to see an article that points out that men have a biological clock too. I could really identify with some of the comments in the article, for example the freelance guy not speaking to anyone for days apart from the supermarket checkout person (which is why I hate it when they steer you towards those awful self service machines at Tesco -one of the reasons I avoid them and use local shops now) and also the comment about getting a hug and needing physical contact (in a non-sexual way too) and the "imaginary picture of his ideal life" in the country with farmhouse, animals, kids and partner - I thought hey that's my dream too!


"Lonely white male

If you thought it was only women who worried about their biological clocks, think again. Today men are the ones panicking about being left on the shelf and missing out on the patter of tiny feet; where once they were toxic bachelors, now, it seems, they’re just tormented........."

You can read the article in full online:
http://www.sundayherald.com/57673

divorcingjack

need a bath .. may die. Think my fingers are all falling off.....

only one more section to go ...

help ..

dj xx

SeldomSensible

Wow DJ, hope you're impressed with yourself. The end is in sight....;)