MSE Pregnancy Club 17

redmel1621

Thanks Sami:D

Esio - I know exactly how you feel....try not to worry and I hope this next week goes very quickly for you:)

Beenie - I do think you seem to have taken a lot on, with all the decorating you are doing.


Yuk, Yuk, Yuk, I have just heated up a bowl of pea and ham soup and it tasted like a big bowl of manky mushy peas, which I can't stand!!!

Mel x

BeenieCat

Mel i know, i was stupid enough to wait for the ex to come crawling back, otherwise i'd have started it sooner. He left me at 20 weeks and kept promising me it would be okay and he went down there got a job and said he was saving up to come back home with some money for baby and pay off his overdraft. It wasn't til about 34 weeks i realised it wasn't ever going to happen.

I've not heard from him since he pulled the Facebook stunt 10 days ago.... Not a peep, not even a text. I could have had the baby for all he knows.
I can't believe someone i've been friends with and so close to and in a relationship with for so long can turn out to be the most heartless 'person' i've ever had to misfortune to be associated with. :(:(

Sorry, that turned into another self pitying rant, feeling really down and tearful about him today and missing him more than ever, but can't/won't forgive him for what he's done!

redmel1621

BeenieCat wrote: »

Mel i know, i was stupid enough to wait for the ex to come crawling back, otherwise i'd have started it sooner. He left me at 20 weeks and kept promising me it would be okay and he went down there got a job and said he was saving up to come back home with some money for baby and pay off his overdraft. It wasn't til about 34 weeks i realised it wasn't ever going to happen.

I've not heard from him since he pulled the Facebook stunt 10 days ago.... Not a peep, not even a text. I could have had the baby for all he knows.
I can't believe someone i've been friends with and so close to and in a relationship with for so long can turn out to be the most heartless 'person' i've ever had to misfortune to be associated with. :(:(

Sorry, that turned into another self pitying rant, feeling really down and tearful about him today and missing him more than ever, but can't/won't forgive him for what he's done!

Aaaaah, right:(

Sorry you are feeling down, just take comfort in the fact that your baby will never know such a low life and will have your influence while growing up:)

When my friend fell pregnant her fella left her and threatened suicide and her with violence unless she terminated.....she didn't and her daughter is now 9yrs old, they have never seen him since and she has been with her (now husband) for 3yrs and they have a lovely 1yr old daughter together:D At the time she thought her whole world was falling apart but she is now so happy:)

Can you leave some of the decorating for a few months, until after baby is born and things have settled down?

Mel x

nikkit72

hugs beenie,

just think you and ur ds will have lo very soon and you dont need a man , just the 3 of u cuddling on the sofa brings a smile xx

redmel1621

Right all three kids are still in PJ's so am going to go and kick the older two up the butts to get dressed and, i'm going to dress the baby:)

Then decide whether to go out somewhere.

Mel x

BeenieCat

Thanks, i know it'll all come together in the end, but after being on my own with DS since pregnancy i vowed i'd never have another if i was on my own - he knew this and i was completely fooled by him. He's so messed up and blames me, but all i ever did was keep taking him back when he messed me around. He says i asked for this by taking him back!!

I am leaving quite a lot of the decorating til the summer, the living room/stairs is the biggest job and i'm not even contemplating that! I probably won't get the kitchen done this week... I've done the bathroom, toilet, 2 bedrooms and plan to do the hallway cos it looks a mess and it's the first thing you see when you walk in the house so i'd feel better if it was tidy!

Hate glossing though!!

Evansangel

MoosMummy wrote: »

I say "Well everyone thinks it's a baby, but I'm still holding out for a pony!" I had to drag DH away before I started laughing but it served her right :rotfl:

Your are my new hero! :rotfl:

OH keeps telling people its a kitten cause his name is Felix! :rolleyes:

He was having a moan to me last night, apparently loads of people at work keep saying to him "Oooh are you scared yet?" and when he replies "Not really, it was planned so im quite prepared" they look shocked that she was a planned baby and walk away :rolleyes:
I think its cause we both still only 20 and 21 that people think it was an accident

Guess what the baby did last night! She was wiggling around from about 10pm to try and get comfy i guess. Then all of a sudden my bump went really tight and i was so uncomfortable. So i put my hand on to have a feel and it was really hard. So i felt around and...

She had pushed herself right up against my tummy so you could feel her outline pretty much! I grapped OH's hand and made him feel and we couldn't decide if the round thing was her head or her bum! :rotfl:
But he laid there stroking her and she would not move at all.

She's back to normal position now though and im comfortable again

Argh, only 25 mins of internet time left and i still have to sort cafe world! lol.
My mum is picking me up at 2 and i need to get ready, so i allowed myself 1 hour internet time between 12 and 1 :rotfl:

three2be

Hi all hope everyone is well, gosh i have missed loads feel like i'm just starting on the thread again i've missed so much lol could some kind soul send/post a catch up for me please:D:D:D:rolleyes:

Off to read the birth stories then will try to catch up a bit on here too.

nikkit72

so quiet on here ,

still feeling crappy , no appetite , horrid heart burn , feeling low , 28 weeks tomorrow , bet thats the reason , started on the last trimester road now

CAFCGirl

Hi Beenie,

Just wanted to say I really feel for you given how your ex has been, but you're a strong moter, just look at how far you've come with DS, your nw addition is truly blessed to have a mum whose not going to take any cr*p from a fella..... and thats a good lesson for a baby to learn.....

Plus I saw somewhere that you live in Darlington (poss my mistake though) DH and I are moving there in a week, so I can offer you some decorating help when Im up there