MSE Pregnancy Club 17

fernliebee

Aw beenie, sorry your feeling so low today, you will do great without a man. You got your two LO's and by the sounds of it the 'man' you had would have been more of a hinderance anyway, your best shot of him. Don't give yourself the guilts for believing his lies, he is in the wrong for lying not you for believing him.

If you lived near me, I'd come and do some glossing for you! Thats one job I don't mind! I can understand why you feel you need it doing, is there no way you could beg some friends fro a wee hand to decorate and you cook them some dinner or a buy a pizza or something- thats what friends are for, and I bet they wouldn't mind, you would just feel bad for asking.

lauzjp

BeenieCat wrote: »

I've not heard from him since he pulled the Facebook stunt 10 days ago.... Not a peep, not even a text. I could have had the baby for all he knows.
I can't believe someone i've been friends with and so close to and in a relationship with for so long can turn out to be the most heartless 'person' i've ever had to misfortune to be associated with. :(:(

feeling really down and tearful about him today and missing him more than ever, but can't/won't forgive him for what he's done!

BeenieCat wrote: »

i was completely fooled by him. He's so messed up and blames me, but all i ever did was keep taking him back when he messed me around. He says i asked for this by taking him back!!

My God, he doesn't deserve your tears, nor anything else. :mad:

I really really hope that you never take him back, he'll never change, look how many times he's been such a :silenced:.

BeenieCat wrote: »

I am leaving quite a lot of the decorating til the summer, the living room/stairs is the biggest job and i'm not even contemplating that! I probably won't get the kitchen done this week... I've done the bathroom, toilet, 2 bedrooms and plan to do the hallway cos it looks a mess and it's the first thing you see when you walk in the house so i'd feel better if it was tidy!

Hate glossing though!!

I don't know how on earth you are doing all this, all I do is stand by a till, put a few things out, etc. for a few hours & I'm knackered! I have to lie down afterwards, and will be asleep by 7pm. I wish I lived near you though, cos I would come & help you out. I'm resisting the urge to go on your fb and call your 'friends' names.. Why are none of them offering to help you? Or have they?

No offence Beenie, I just seem to be a bit grumpy today - two girls moaned that 2 different packs of chicken breasts didn't look the same erm... :rotfl:

CAFCGirl

lauzjp wrote: »

No offence Beenie, I just seem to be a bit grumpy today - two girls moaned that 2 different packs of chicken breasts didn't look the same erm... :rotfl:

you know, it would never be a man who said that...

just read it out to DH who remarked: breasts on just one woman are rarely the same, so what do they expect from two chickens?

i opted not to explore that one any further :rotfl:

jha

:wave: three - are you ok, how is the baby?

Hugs beenie - you are doing amazingly well with the decorating and everything - i am a beenie fan anyway:p

And hugs lou - you are normal:D the current rate of c/s in my hosp is one birth in 4 half of which are planned. And i am awaiting news on whether i am going to have a c/section and i am normal:p - i think:rotfl:

Had my antenatal class today and it was rubbish - very basic (and i havent read any books:o) just the nhs book and what i have learnt on here. We had a tour and the mw lead unit was beautiful:D the consultant let unit where i will be was horrible - 1980's decor, broken blinds, scaffolding on the outside and dirty - I will not be going anywhere near that place untill i have to / unless the baby is in trouble as my home is cleaner / better equipt a nicer environment - they havent got any birthing balls, chairs or bean bags and there is just enough space to walk around the bed - not really conducive to staying upright as long as possible:mad: - i am definatley going to push for midwife lead now even if it means i have to go without pain relief as i dont want my lo deliverd in a dirty room with builders looking on. sorry little mini rant over there Me thinks i might leave it a little late to get to hosp pending me and lo are ok:cool::p

I asked the midwife doing the course about rlt - she was a fan. But she had never heard of calcium.

Hugs to everyone who needs them:D

nikkit72

a bit of humor :P

kindofagilr

Evansangel wrote: »

Your are my new hero! :rotfl:

OH keeps telling people its a kitten cause his name is Felix! :rolleyes:

He was having a moan to me last night, apparently loads of people at work keep saying to him "Oooh are you scared yet?" and when he replies "Not really, it was planned so im quite prepared" they look shocked that she was a planned baby and walk away :rolleyes:
I think its cause we both still only 20 and 21 that people think it was an accident

That happens to me too (and I am 28), babybean was totally planned and it !!!!es me off when people think otherwise.

I was talking to my friend at work the other week and someone else we know came up to my mate and said "hey weren't you suprised when Rachael said she was pregnant" and my mate nicely went "well no seeing as it was planned and they were trying"

I mean where to people get off saying !!!! like that.

Even if you think baby isnt planned I personally dont think it should ever be asked!

I dont care (well I obv do lol) I know, OH knows, my mother knew and my close friends knew we were ttc so sod everyone else

Beanie - I am sorry everything is !!!!! at the minute, the fairy went to the post office today btw xxx

Aww cafc thats really nice of you I live up here too, although I am in Ashington which is miles away from darlo lol

I am shattered today, we have put the shelves up in the nursery today and trimmed beany's curtains.

I am working overtime tomorrow which I cant be arsed to do but need the money, all I want to do is sleep already

I am in pain as well, my legs are so sore at the top, it feels like Ive ridden a horse for 24 hours (or to be rude, they feel as though I have had sex for hours and hours and hours, do you know waht I mean?) does anyone know what that can be?

three2be

Oh we have a gent with us now, how nice to have a different opinion.lol
JHA glad the cat is doing well, had a visit from my cat yesterday at mums he tried to go for mum so he hasn't changed.lol
PP that sonogropher sounds a pain how can the water disappear after 2 separate(possibly more can't remember) scans before
Beenie can you not get a cheap fan to attach onto the lappy like a base station, seen them for 10/15£ if you search about, check ebay.

OK forgot most of what i wanted to reply to, remember that swine flu jag was one thing, i refused it much to the annoyance of the MW they are still trying to get me in for it lol

Was in for another scan this week (30 weeks) and i had to listen to the receptionist complain that i had a scan 2 weeks ago like i choose to spend hrs unnecisarily in the hospital when i knew things were fine.:rolleyes: Got asked about the flu jab again and listened to the same arguments. Found out that my iron was low again despite taking supplements but they are waiting till my next bloods to decide if i should get anything so i have increased iron rich foods in my diet(will be a tomato soon lol) asked again about my Hipg and was told i should have got it weeks ago(like i don't know)but still didn't get it as they were to busy. so i will ask the doc for it i think.

Think i peeved off the MW's though because i asked for my notes after waiting for 2 hrs and was informed we all need to wait our turn so i snapped back (quite rudely:o)that i was trying to organize the 3rd funeral in a week so i didn't have the time to sit on my arris as they quibbled over who got the room with the wonky light! considering my appointment was for 9.45 and i was still their at 12 i think they need to get sorted. finally got seen about 15min after that. Scan was good though and bubs is growing well (right on the average line) despite me measuring small.

Have to go back on the 22 dec think i'll pack a picnic this time.

It's relatively quiet on here at the moment are we all to tired to type lol
Hugs and vibes to everyone.

lou66_2

Evening ladies

Hugs bennie you are doing so well and it's you ar** of an ex that's missing out wish i was closer to help and gibe you a hug and him a big slap !!!
Bumper is moving so much but it seems to be moving up rather than down, Watching every one loves raymond ,the nursery now has a carpet which was the main worry before bumper arrived but oh has such bad taste ( Not in women ) but in every other thing !!! He wanted this green carpet thing ! My cousin who is due in Jan her hind waters broke last night which is a bit of a worry but they have sent her home so fingers crossed. Thanks Jha when will you find out if you need a c-section or not, luckly the doctor downstairs from us has just offered help if we need any extra info etc , also his daughter who still lives at home is due any day. I think my block should make the news as out of 6 flats five of us are or had babys in the past 4 months one a month so loads of cryimg babies. What is everyone up to tonight, getting the feeling i dont want to be that far from home so it's dinner and x-factor and dvd. xxx

lou66_2

32b
So good to see you !!! How's you holding up sweetheart and your oh, have i missed something who is the man on here !!! How's your Mum and Dad been wondering about you and how things are going xxxx

jha

I will find out on the 9th dec lou.