MSE Pregnancy Club 17

three2be

lou66 wrote: »

32b
So good to see you !!! How's you holding up sweetheart and your oh, have i missed something who is the man on here !!! How's your Mum and Dad been wondering about you and how things are going xxxx

AB think it was armybike? his wife is pg a few pages back.

We are kinda holding on ok OH is not to bad about his sis they didn't get on but i keep getting upset a stupid things like adverts and songs, plus we sorted my sisters stuff from the hospital and it was full of notes from the couple of days when she woke up. Heartbreaking to read especially when we had to tell her what she had done and what was going to happen. She left us all letters and one that says we have to send the people that should have helped her rude letters.

jha sorry to hear that you may need to have a C/S but better to be safe than sorry with the little ones health, although i know it is disappointing.

lou66_2

jha wrote: »

I will find out on the 9th dec lou.

Oh well if you have to let us know because thats the day before i go in and if you do need one i will let you know everything as soon as i can about how it was for me and what i found out as well, Fingers crossed for you honey but everyone seems so postiv e about c-sections now that if thats what we both need i am sure we will be fine and it's quite strange knowing a date that could be bumpers birthday now !!!

lou66_2

Ahh 32b thats was so sweet of your sister and must have helped a lot and that least she knew how much you all cared in her final day's and if you need any help writing those letters i am here i am quite good at writing rude letters as one of my ex's found out !!!! They derserve to know how badly they treated her. Well i have my fingers crossed things get better and better for you.

jha

I am feeling really positive about it anyway lou:D What ever happens. I was very lucky to get an appt with anesthist (sp) and we had a little practice where she showed me how to sit on the edge of the bed and she had a feel of my spine for the epidural etc - she explained the procedure and how they would top me up for the c/section if required or how they would book me in for a time if it was a planned one:D I think keeping an open mind at the start is the trick:p not looking forward to the grotty ward / rooms though:eek:. In answer to your question what are we all doing tonight - i have a months shop arriving from asda - cue lots of huffing and puffing whilst i put it all away:rotfl:

Its a good way to do it though - especially if your getting near your edd I am going to get oh to "top it up" the week before christmas as otherwise i have visions of going into labour trying to pack away 36 cartons of uht milk or the cat food or something:rolleyes: OH would help but he has just gone to work - he enjoyed the antenatal class and found it very informative - he especially liked the fact they "borrowed" a newborn and showed us how to bath it - that bit was very cute:D

three2be

jha you just reminded me that was another thing that peeved me off at my appointment. i have never been to any of the wards in my maternity hospital so asked about getting a tour and was told this is included with antenatel classes so i tried to explain that the class near me started the day after my gran died and was booked full for the next session and the other 2 classes further out were both at times that i could not make unless i dropped DS at school at 7.30 to get threw the traffic and i was told i would just have to get the next class that will start the second week of jan, i'm due on the 31st lol will just need to hope i don't go early as i don't fancy wandering round the hospital in labor trying to get the right place.

ETA thanks for the offer Lou we have started writting letters already, so far they are all blaming each other and one actually said that my sister had refused any help which was rubbish as she was always accompanied on their visits. just as well i suppose. So my lappy is now full of info on complaints procedures and letters to everyone that ever spoke to her. I couldn't live with the thought of another family suffering what we are, something needs to change.......quickly

Sarah_Joanne

HI three nice to see you on here and glad everything is well with bump

Lou is there not much for people to do round your way?! :rotfl:

I have a pork belly joint, apples, stuffing and potatoes roasting in the oven so waiting for that to cook then I'll get the veg on mmmmm!

I ahve back ache though so on my birth ball which is actually helping. Think this may be my new favourite thing.

nikkit72

OH said we can have chinese tonight being as im not feeling 100% , that made me feel better

Hi 3 nice to see you are well

three2be

oww SJ you've made me want roast potatoes but i don't have any spuds waiting to go shopping with OH tomorrow. And i want one of your cakes too preferably one the size of a wedding cake so it lasts a few days lol

Feel for you with the back ache mine is a nightmare just now and have been getting major leg cramps too 3 am and both legs cramp up and i can never get OH to rub one of them properly so i end up screaming in pain that he is useless. Still it'll get him used to the abuse for when i'm in Labor lol

Hi nikki hows things, is your scar healing well?

nikkit72

3,

Yes scar much better now ty , little man is on the little side , but i have to back on 21st dec , but he still within their guidelines , even if he is on the bottom line, not to worried now tho as i'm only 5" , but oh 6" so looks like he gonna follow me ,

Sarah_Joanne

Chinese always makes me feel better!

I start to get cramp in my leg when I wake up for the loo and try to stretch out, have to quickly move my feet to stop the cramp and I've managed it so far so not too bad. Does anyone else wake up in the morning and want to do a really big stretch but can't cos it hurts your bump?