Am i being paranoid?

gareth01422

zippychick wrote: »

By "out in the open" - do you mean posting here?

That isn't what I meant. I mean between the two of you. Each other - why not go to a public place to talk about it - like sit in the corner of a cafe? So you have privacy but you have more reason to stay calm and avoid a scene? It sounds like yous both maybe blow up at each other so you need to talk under a calm controlled environment. Or that's how I see it anyway.
Or do you mean you can't be fully honest with her? Sorry just confused.

No i meant that if i told her everything, about past and anything she wanted to know. I dont think i would get the truth back to any questions i would ask her. I have already asked who the friend was who set her up with this guy but i got told that im not going to find out......... So where do you go from that?

zippychick

gareth01422 wrote: »

No i meant that if i told her everything, about past and anything she wanted to know. I dont think i would get the truth back to any questions i would ask her. I have already asked who the friend was who set her up with this guy but i got told that im not going to find out......... So where do you go from that?

I think you've answered your own question there.

gareth01422

BeenieCat wrote: »

Lol well i started to but i think i'll read it in the morning cos my brain hurts In the meantime, try not to kill each other

Don't underestimate how much all the arguing will damage you both, it's hard to stop once you're into the habit!

Well we are stuborn both of us. And yes the arguing does really make a mess of things as we tend to say things we dont really mean.

gareth01422

May be I have answered it, Maybe i keep hoping that linz will talk to me like an adult and have proper convosation regards our relationship.

zippychick

gareth01422 wrote: »

Well we are stuborn both of us. And yes the arguing does really make a mess of things as we tend to say things we dont really mean.

Then you need to stop arguing. Talk like adults. Yes , you have been through good and bad . Fair enough. But screaming at each other isn't getting you anywhere.

Honesty and trust is a vital part of a relationship

Nail. Head.