Am i being paranoid?

tizhimi

LOL BeenieCat you would make a formidable enemy! have you ever thought about counter survailance career?!?!

Brilliant, thats cheered me right up! I love it when someone gets one over the other and can produce hard evidence.

worriedsik

I was suspicious off a guy i was with because his mobile phone was never visible so i asked him to either put phone on table or leave ...he was saying ''come on dont be stupid '' i said its your shout..........

he left...yes i was upset but got over it

linz32

BeenieCat that's one way of finding out for certain.

Mme.Hibou

How old are you both?

Does he know it's dangerous to have the same password for everything? That's how fraud occurs, I digress.

You may have reason to be paranoid, he doesn't seem to be doing much to alleviate your paranoia, you've asked him and he's told you his truth, it's up to you whether you want to believe it or not. Relationships are based on trust, if you don't trust him, you should probably call it a day.

BeenieCat

lol tiz, well i learned from his texting beforehand that i couldn't pre-warn him as it would leave me wondering if i was going round the bend!

Linz, now that he's probably got rid of the evidence, you need to act cool and bide your time, it will all come out soon enough but if he knows you're on to him he will make it hard or impossible for you to find out for certain.

BeenieCat

Also, i'm pregnant to the moron now lol, so i never learned my lesson after that :cool: (doh)

He came to visit last weekend and i looked through his phone to find all messages from everyone but me were deleted. He knows i know other people text him so obviously i questioned why he would "tidy" his inbox up. He's gone again and i wish i'd never forgiven him for the facebook lies in the first place!

I've been a mug, so don't be like me!!

property.advert

From a guy's point of view, why do you assume the problem originates with him ? I wouldn't give my passwords to anyone, nevermind a GF. You have already seen him "cyber cheating" and still you stay with him. Why should he change ?

There is something quite sad about all this internet thing. It is ok for information and support to a degree but it is not a life. Life does not exist in cyberspace and if you think it does, then you (anyone) has a serious problem.

If you don't trust him, then break it off. He may be looking for an excuse to get rid of you anyway but doesn't want to be accused of making the first move.

linz32

Were 33, and thanks BeenieCat that's true it will all come out in the end and if i get one bit of evidence he's up to no good he's up the road for definate.

tizhimi

(8) hit the road jack.... and don't you come back no more, no more (8)

worriedsik

BeenieCat wrote: »

Also, i'm pregnant to the moron now lol, so i never learned my lesson after that :cool: (doh)

He came to visit last weekend and i looked through his phone to find all messages from everyone but me were deleted. He knows i know other people text him so obviously i questioned why he would "tidy" his inbox up. He's gone again and i wish i'd never forgiven him for the facebook lies in the first place!

I've been a mug, so don't be like me!!

you havent been the mug you gave a second chance its him thats the mug