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Am i being paranoid?

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  • worriedsik
    worriedsik Posts: 873 Forumite
    linz32 wrote: »
    Thankyou for your replies that was quick, i don't think ive 100% forgiven him for the dating site business that was ages ago, im going to ask him again when i see him and see what his reaction is like, i asked him by text the first time.

    yep wait untill he is with you and with his lap top so there is no warning...then do as i suggested ie telling him you are paranoid and need reasurance
    cant see that being a problem if he cares for you
    Resolve not to be poor, Whatever you have , Spend less.
  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    linz32 wrote: »
    his reply was you can have it when i change my password as its the same for everything

    To me this means "you can have my password once i've deleted the evidence." :o
  • linz32
    linz32 Posts: 29 Forumite
    Tbh with you i only created a facebook account at first because i found out he had one, and i agree it's nothing but trouble.
  • tizhimi
    tizhimi Posts: 457 Forumite
    worriedsik wrote: »
    lol at facebook/myspace/yourface etc

    yes i agree it just causes trouble why are so many people these days inclined to display there lifes / pics etc i dont understand it :confused:

    Me neither! I am rebelling by being a girl NOT on there.

    I know someone who was sacked after posting photos of where her company was putting her up in a flat (hyperdermic needles in stair wells etc)

    But on a more topical note, you can't ever forget what happens but you can forgive, you just have to decide which it is.
    I run an event management company, I put on events, I go to events, if I don't know anything about events - its not worth knowing!
    :j:j:jNegotiate, Negotiate, and Negotiate again.:j:j:j
  • worriedsik
    worriedsik Posts: 873 Forumite
    BeenieCat wrote: »
    To me this means "you can have my password once i've deleted the evidence." :o

    agree :T........................
    Resolve not to be poor, Whatever you have , Spend less.
  • linz32
    linz32 Posts: 29 Forumite
    BeenieCat wrote: »
    To me this means "you can have my password once i've deleted the evidence." :o


    That was my thought's exactly, if and when he does give me his password i will leave it a few days and see if he has changed it to the one he has given me, if he has changed it then he's definately up to no good.
  • The_Banker_5
    The_Banker_5 Posts: 5,611 Forumite
    BeenieCat wrote: »
    To me this means "you can have my password once i've deleted the evidence." :o


    I would say thats about 99.999999% correct.;)
    Nature wants the human race to survive. However, it does not depend on us because we are not its only invention.
  • worriedsik
    worriedsik Posts: 873 Forumite
    tizhimi wrote: »
    Me neither! I am rebelling by being a girl NOT on there.

    I know someone who was sacked after posting photos of where her company was putting her up in a flat (hyperdermic needles in stair wells etc)

    But on a more topical note, you can't ever forget what happens but you can forgive, you just have to decide which it is.

    a mature girl in her 20's then...well done for having your own mind
    Resolve not to be poor, Whatever you have , Spend less.
  • tizhimi
    tizhimi Posts: 457 Forumite
    The_Banker wrote: »
    I would say thats about 99.999999% correct.;)


    Sorry but I think your wrong.... its 99.9999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999%
    I run an event management company, I put on events, I go to events, if I don't know anything about events - its not worth knowing!
    :j:j:jNegotiate, Negotiate, and Negotiate again.:j:j:j
  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Sorry OP if i was harsh just then!

    My boyfriend did this to me too... I was more sly than you though and i managed to get into his email account by answering his "secret questions" which i knew the answers to. I then used the email access to reset facebook passwords so i could log in without giving him any warning.

    Anyway i found all the dirty evidence i needed to, and copy pasted all it to Word as i knew he'd delete it as soon as i confronted him.

    I hope this isn't the case here though, cos it's such a betrayal.
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