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MSE Parents Club Part 7

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  • mookiandco
    mookiandco Posts: 1,294 Forumite
    Ooh, that would be fantastic, what do you need to know?




    your gross monthly income for each of the last 3 months
    Your NI and tax conribution for each of the last 3 months.
    value of any property you own + outstanding mortgage
    amount of mortgage or rent payment each month
    amount of any savings and value of any other assets like shares
    amount of any monthly maintenance payments you receive for children (or yourself)
    amounts of monthly child benefit and tax credits
    amount of monthly payments for child care.
    How many children you have and how old.

    If you are receiving benefits:

    What benefits you receive and how much.

    If you have a partner:

    All of the above for them too.

    That should be enough to do a rough calculation. Although I appreciate some of the info might be kinda personal!


    Alternatively, you can cut out the middle man (or woman!) and use this calculator here:

    http://www.communitylegaladvice.org.uk/en/legalaid/calculator.jsp
    Proud Mummy to Leila aged 1 whole year:j
  • money_maker_3
    money_maker_3 Posts: 9,591 Forumite
    Stoptober Survivor
    tiamai_d wrote: »
    MM, he is doing very well, some things will take longer than others and I know it's so hard to have patience but it will happen. If he has high tone he may be offered botox injections when he gets older (they are thinking about it for Christopher's ankle) and apparently it is amazing, so there are things out there that can help when he is a bit older.

    You know where I am if you need me ;)

    Thanks darlin :o Hope the botox works for Christopher :)

    Can I just say, I giggle every time I see your avvy :rotfl:

    Sami, not sure hun, I had childhood asthma, but grew out of it long before I was doing strunuous walks, and Jasmines is usually only bad when she gets a cold, however sudden changes in temperature makes her get really bad !!
    I would ask your doc anyway, they might give you an inhaler to take when you get short of breath
    The two best things I have done with my life
    :TDD 5/11/02 :j DS 17/6/09 :T
    STOPTOBER CHALLANGE ... here we go !!
  • pinkpig08
    pinkpig08 Posts: 2,829 Forumite
    Can someone please send some sleepy vibes to my baby?! I want to clean my bedroom window upstairs to get rid of Josh's fingerprints but a certain little lady seems to be adamant that I won't!!
    Sealed Pot Challenge #817 £50 banked :)
  • Mazcabs
    Mazcabs Posts: 2,108 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    pinkpig08 wrote: »
    Can someone please send some sleepy vibes to my baby?! I want to clean my bedroom window upstairs to get rid of Josh's fingerprints but a certain little lady seems to be adamant that I won't!!

    Funny enough Henry doesnt want his normal nap today either
    Mum to 2 lovely boys who keep me busy.
  • money_maker_3
    money_maker_3 Posts: 9,591 Forumite
    Stoptober Survivor
    awww sleepy vibes to non sleeping babies *****
    The two best things I have done with my life
    :TDD 5/11/02 :j DS 17/6/09 :T
    STOPTOBER CHALLANGE ... here we go !!
  • keelykat
    keelykat Posts: 3,341 Forumite
    Elliot's gone down for his nap-just got myself a coffee :)
    Mommy to Elliot (5) and Lewis (born xmas eve 11!)
  • tiamai_d
    tiamai_d Posts: 11,987 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I needa go get DS1 and pop to the post office. Then come home and hoover and make dinner.

    Anyone tell me an easy recipe to use meatballs that is not tomato based and served with pasta?? :D Thinking meatballs and mushrooms on kebab sticks? With reggae reggae sauce or red wine? DH is bored of spaghetti and meatballs (so am I).

    Served with chips or baby potatoes.
  • money_maker_3
    money_maker_3 Posts: 9,591 Forumite
    Stoptober Survivor
    we would have meatballs in an onion gravy with mash or chips
    The two best things I have done with my life
    :TDD 5/11/02 :j DS 17/6/09 :T
    STOPTOBER CHALLANGE ... here we go !!
  • SusanC_2
    SusanC_2 Posts: 5,344 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I'm back from the dentist and quite cross with myself!

    He suggested taking the tooth out, or some root canal work which would take several visit, and may not work in the end! So I opted for the tooth out - its the very back.
    He numbed me so I could feel nothing at all - but I still paniced and couldn't let him do it! I was shaking and sick and felt like an idiot! :mad:
    So now the numb has worn off, and my mouth is aching from the three atempts I let him have of pulling it.........and i've got to wait for a hospital referral to come through to have it out under sedation.
    I'm such a silly wimp! :o
    I must be weird - I'd much rather have a tooth out awake. I refused to have a wisdom tooth taken out because they would only do it with me asleep (and it was going to cost about 4x the amount of the one I had done awake).
    Sami_Bee wrote: »
    on that subject does anyone know much about asthma?
    I live at the top of a big hill and when I've walked down to the highstreet the trip back up the hill kills me!
    its much worse when its cold and basically my chest feels tight like I can't take a big breath and I get a bad cough that lasts for an hour or two after I'm home.
    Does that sound like asthma? do you think the GP would do anything if its only affecting me like that? (I'm a 'risk' of asthma I think, coz I have eczema, hayfever and many allergies :rolleyes:)
    Is there a lot of traffic because I've always found running or walking uphill on busy roads (especially with standing traffic) affect me.
    Any question, comment or opinion is not intended to be criticism of anyone else.
    2 Samuel 12:23 Romans 8:28 Psalm 30:5
    "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die"
  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    Tia - squish 'em into burgers?
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
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