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  • jackieglasgow
    jackieglasgow Posts: 9,436 Forumite
    Had to share, LegalBlonde has just called this the SCABBY DONKEY saga! What a fantastic name. Title for the story, "Blazing Donkey? More like Scabby Donkey!" Brilliant!
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  • LegalBlonde
    LegalBlonde Posts: 1,183 Forumite
    Why thank you Jackie!

    I came on here to post as I really did read and run earlier, well not so much read and run but read, be exhausted, and watch 3 episodes of 4 weddings in my newly-engaged status....

    OP what can I say, well done, you and your OH really are an inspiration!! As you can probably tell by my name I am in the business, but half way through your thread today there was a stage where I probably would have given in. It really makes me sick that there are people like this out there, and really really well done. I can't really say enough in words for you, so I just hope and pray your special day is the one you deserve, and thanks for sharing your story for the benefit of others x
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  • salesadmin
    salesadmin Posts: 271 Forumite
    Congratulations Beks, I'm so pleased you've got your money back and that hopefully the person who runs The Blazing Donkey, Ham, Kent, will be retiring pretty soon.
    Married 5th June 2010
    1st Baby born 12th April 2011:j
  • Dazi
    Dazi Posts: 1,354 Forumite
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    Another bad review for

    THE BLAZING DONKEY

    whoever said laughter was the best medicine has clearly never tasted wine

    Stopped smoking 20:30 28/09/11 :D
  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
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    edited 31 May 2010 at 9:40PM
    beks A friend of mine has just emailed this to me. I thought you might like it bearing in mind what you and your OH have been going through.

    Two Travelling Angels

    Two travelling angels stopped to spend the night in the home of a wealthy family. The family was rude and refused to let the angels stay in the mansions guest room. Instead they were given a small space in the cold basement. As they made their bed on the hard floor the older angel saw a hole in the wall and repaired it.When the younger angel asked why, the older angel replied"things are not always what they seem".

    The next night the pair came to rest at the house of a very poor farmer and his wife.After sharing the little food that they had they let the angels sleep in their bed.When the sun came up next morning the angels found the farmer and his wife in tears as their cow lay dead in the field. The younger angel was infuriated and asked the older angel how could you let this happen?

    The first man had everything, yet you helped him, the second had little but was willing to share and yet you let the cow die. "Things are not always what they seem" the older angel replied.

    When we stayed in the mansion I noticed there was gold stored in the hole in the wall, since the owner was obsessed with greed, I sealed the wall so he would not find it.Then last night as we slept in the farmers bed, the angel of death came for his wife and I gave him the cow instead.

    "Things are not always what they seem.Sometimes this is what happens when things don't turn out the way they should, you just need to trust that every outcome is always to your advantage.You just might not know it until some time later.........................

    Yesterday is history
    Tomorrow is a mystery
    Today is a gift
    That's why it's called the present!!
  • bubbles0169
    bubbles0169 Posts: 6,230 Forumite
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    oh how very true and moving is that poppy
    i am nearly in tears,im sure my eye sockets are set in stone cos it takes alot with me!
    thanks for sharing that
    I am not bossy I just have better ideas:p
  • hunnycat
    hunnycat Posts: 1,538 Forumite
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    I have been reading this thread from the start but didnt really know what to say to you as everyone seemed to cover all that needed saying, everytime it popped to top i was hoping you got your money back! I have been offline for a few weeks and its great to see you got your money back..

    WELL DONE:j.x
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  • DebAmbury
    DebAmbury Posts: 14 Forumite
    CONGRATULATIONS Beks XX Well done I am so pleased you got your money back of that disgusting little man at The Blazing Donkey, Ham, Kent. Name and shame I say, go to the papers now.

    Had my Brothers wedding on Saturday in Wales but he's from Kent and told all his friends about the venue!!! Most knew of it and we're shocked.

    Beks hope you don't mind me mentioning this but Anyone in South Wales don't bother booking your venue at The Llantrisant and Pontyclun Golf Club, not only did they try and cancel it, but they we're really awkward before hand, didn't set everything up as planned, nibbles on the tables were Chewy sweets, bare in mind I'm 45 soon, so my Aunts are late 60's!! And hardly any food all for a £1000. I'M DISGUSTED.:mad: Thinking of Trading Standards now as nothing like they say on their web site!

    Your an inspiration to us all!!
  • neneromanova
    neneromanova Posts: 3,051 Forumite
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    So......

    What's the name of this place again that we should avoid? I don't seem to be able to see the Name of the venue anywhere here :D :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
    What's yours is mine and what's mine is mine..
  • beks
    beks Posts: 1,098 Forumite
    edited 27 August 2010 at 9:08PM
    Thanks all ... but I dont think I am gonna win the battle with OH to publicise. He just does not want to do it.

    DebA - thank you and sorry to hear that your problems with your venue continued. IF your brother didnt get what was stated then definitely worth a letter to the venue at least and a call to trading standards to see where you stand.

    Thanks hunnycat and salesadmin and congrats legalblonde - scabby donkey??!! I like it!! :o

    And neneromanova ... did you not catch the name of this horrific wedding venue???
    ..... it was
    THE BLAZING DONKEY
    :)
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