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How long were you together before getting Engaged?

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  • LameWolf
    LameWolf Posts: 11,238 Forumite
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    LameWolf wrote: »
    Met for the first time 2nd Jan 2002.

    Started "going out" (if that's the correct term) 3rd May 2002.

    Moved in with him 27th May 2002.

    Engaged 13th Sept 2002.

    Married 13th Sept 2003.
    If we're going with putting ages in, I was 42 and he was 52 when we got together. We're both "recycled" so to speak.:D
    If your dog thinks you're the best, don't seek a second opinion.;)
  • I moved in with my husband 3 month after going out with him,got engaged 5 month later and got married in may this year (with two kids in between!)
  • Threebabes
    Threebabes Posts: 1,272 Forumite
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    Started going out June 93
    bought our 1st house & engaged dec 94
    Had our son dec 95
    got married june 97

    we have now also got 2 daughters

    :-)
  • smartie12
    smartie12 Posts: 7,658 Forumite
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    We started talking on here end of November 2007.

    Met up end of December and became a "couple"

    He moved in with me end of May 2008

    Engaged end of June.... so 7 months after meeting.

    Married Christmas Eve 2008

    Now trying for a baby!!:D
    BLOWINGBUBBLES:kisses2: SMARTIE12
  • MandyLou66
    MandyLou66 Posts: 254 Forumite
    We met September 1979
    Got engaged Valentines Day 1980
    Married August 1980
    Pearl Anniversary next year!
    'Neither a lender nor a borrower be'
    Now why didn't I take any notice of the
    second part of that quote!!???
  • MinniMe_2
    MinniMe_2 Posts: 1,611 Forumite
    clarence83 wrote: »
    I went through this phase, but you will get over it I promise. You would much rather him do it when he really wants to, rather than being forced wouldn't you? I know I would. Nagging him into a proposal is not the way to have a happy and healthy engagement/ basis for marriage. Give him time, 3 years is nothing :)


    Thank you clarence!! I don't nag him, we talk about it sometimes but its more in my own head than anything, i daydream about how he would do it etc but would never push him - just wish I could get it out of my head sometimes!!
    New surname New start!
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  • fernliebee
    fernliebee Posts: 1,803 Forumite
    We were together for 9 years and have now been married 2 years! We always knew we would get married as we spoke about it quite early on, but didn't want a long engagement, just when we were ready we would get engaged then married in quick succession. We have been together since we were 16 though so maybe our age meant we waited. We were busy with uni etc, and then once we were ready to settle down and have children that was when marriage became our priority.
  • We met in March 2008, and were engaged in July 2008. The wedding is set for 3 weeks time!

    ~The Next Verse
    :jHappily Married 12/09/09:j
    :jDS1 born 22/08/10 7lb 6oz:j
    :jDS2 born 08/09/12 8lb 7oz:j

  • xmaslolly76
    xmaslolly76 Posts: 3,974 Forumite
    This si a good thread i met my ex when i was 16 we were engaged when i was 17 living together at 18 first child at 21 but we didnt get married until we had been together for nearly 12yrs we split 2 yrs later. New fella i have known for two years been together officially for 18months we cant get engaged yet as we are both still married to our previous partners due to financial constraints but we do plan on getting engaged and married in the future we are expecting our first child in 3 wks time :-)
    :jFriends are like fabric you can never have enough:j
  • First met DH at works do in Aug 2002, started seeing each other Sept 28th, moved in together end Oct 2002. Eloped to Gretna Green 06th Dec 2002. Married 7 years in Dec:j
    No engagement, first baby born Oct 2003! Decided to start family straight away, not honeymoon baby thou :p
    BR date 18/11/09
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