too afraid to tell hubby

gargrave50

Every penny off a debt counts - better still when they don't come out of your own purse!:D

You have been incredibly strong and we are all really proud of what you have achieved so far. Not only have you faced this dreadful problem that you had been avoiding for many a year (like many of us did!), you plucked up the courage to share this terrible secret with your hubby - and stood firm through the backlash. Now you are tackling it together - you are the example here!:A

gargrave50

Jodan - where art thou?!

Susie54_2

Hey Jordan, I've just read through your whole thread and am sending you a huge hug:kisses3:. I'm in the same position you are when you started and I can't tell you how much stronger I feel at the courage you have shown :T. Hope everythings still going ok
Susie x

jodan

gargrave50 wrote: »

Jodan - where art thou?!

Hi gargrave,

been battling on all fronts at the minute. Mbna won't play nice, are refusing to pay charges and have offered a measly £100 goodwill gesture for mis-selling ppi. Crapital One have offered me £244 for charges (I know I shouldn't turn my nose up) but claim is for £507.68, so feel I want a bit more please (I sound like Oliver Twist), they also are refusing they sold ppi. Lombard are "looking into" ppi claim, so still waiting there. Know altogether it's not going to wipe out debts but would reduce by a couple of thousand. Saw your good news about your AA refund of charges, a big well done you.:D
I keep popping in to check up on everyone but not been posting much as I never seem to be moving forward much these days. I've turned into a lurker. Lol. Hope all is going well with you and will keep checking your diary to see how you are. X

jodan

Susie54 wrote: »

Hey Jordan, I've just read through your whole thread and am sending you a huge hug:kisses3:. I'm in the same position you are when you started and I can't tell you how much stronger I feel at the courage you have shown :T. Hope everythings still going ok
Susie x

Hi Susie,

a big welcome and lots of love and best wishes. This is probably the best place in the whole world, people on here never cease to amaze me. They are so giving of help, support and even a shoulder to cry on.

Will look out for your post and will be in touch to see how your getting on.X

gargrave50

Hey Jodan,

Lurk away, but I know from personal experience that when I lurk I tend to lose momentum:rolleyes:. I know you think that by "not moving forward" there is nothing to report, but sometimes thats the best time to post - because you lose your spark and can really benefit from continuing to plug away. You know the support is great:D! Good luck, please keep posting. We all hit the wall where after initial vigour it starts to fade away, but I did this so many times when I thought I had my lightbulb moment :idea:- it didn't get me anywhere. Now I just post about absolutely nothing (as you well know!!!:rotfl::rotfl:), but you lot keep me going! Keep your chin up - and keep at them. Blue Jeans did well with PPI - don't know if she has any experience with the ones you are dealing with. Don't back down until you get something you are happy with regards credit card charges. I can't wait for the result of this test case, because my bank charges claims are pretty big!:o

Muscle750

End of the day if he loves ya he aint gonna shout and scream for too long. And im sure he will be behind you 101% i would

gargrave50

Anything to report Jodan? Have you saved some for Xmas?

jodan

Hi gargrave, nope not much happening, been off work with the flu. Back in today so normality is resumed. Have managed to save some from xmas and hubby is making up the shorfall (big shortfall). He has no family and mine won't stop breeding. Lol.
Hope all is well with you.
Will make sure to check in on a daily basis now I'm better, don't want to miss out on anyhing.
Love to all. X

gargrave50

Nice to have you back - don't want you spreading your sniffles:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:!

Bleedin Christmas - if only I didn't love to give:mad:!