MSE Parents Club Part 4

Savvy_Sue

feelinggood wrote: »

Got letter from Mental Health team, have been discharged. Not suprised really, too worried about losing LO to be honest.

Well, I'm going to say it again, you're not going to lose LO. If you need their services, PLEASE don't be afraid to ask for them again.

MrsTine wrote: »

*goes off mumbling about husbands and stupid cats who won't see that going to the vet isn't for MY amusement but his sake*

taking husband to the vet's a bit extreme, MrsT, whatever he's done to annoy you. :rotfl:

searching_me

well i had a cuddle with philip next thing i know its 2hours later ... still tired though x

elle_gee

Savvy_Sue wrote: »

Forgive me if these have already been answered but I'm playing catchup - 10 pages while I've been at work, don't you lot have children to look after?

Mine sleeps a lot

feelinggood_2

Savvy_Sue wrote: »

Well, I'm going to say it again, you're not going to lose LO. If you need their services, PLEASE don't be afraid to ask for them again.

If it were just 'normal' depression, I'd agree, but its a bit more complicated and I don't want to risk it.

i think things are getting better though.

There isn't much they can do if I don't want medication.

redmel1621

Thanks for your replies re kids camps:)

It is actually PGL I was thinking, and in my mind I was thinking Ds1 could maybe do one of their short stays (3nts) next summer? He will be 9 (nearly 10) but I always feel guilty if I consider one of the boys doing something and not the other:o...but you have all only backed up what I was feeling anyway, that ds2 would be too young.......

My Grumpy boy is also in bed, although if the last couple of night are anything to go by - midnight will be the starting point of him waking constantly:rolleyes:

Mel x

searching_me

forgot to say jayden did he first proper chuckle today ... and on the hair washing matter i wash mine every 2-4 days depending how often i leave the house x

elle_gee

redmel1621 wrote: »

Thanks for your replies re kids camps:)

It is actually PGL I was thinking, and in my mind I was thinking Ds1 could maybe do one of their short stays (3nts) next summer? He will be 9 (nearly 10) but I always feel guilty if I consider one of the boys doing something and not the other...but you have all only backed up what I was feeling anyway, that ds2 would be too young.......

My Grumpy boy is also in bed, although if the last couple of night are anything to go by - midnight will be the starting point of him waking constantly:rolleyes:

Mel x

Mel, there is 17 months between me and my younger sister. There were very few things I was allowed to do and my sister wasn't and it caused a lot of resentment from me and smugness from her - call it immature but we were about 8 at the time! (PGL was a school organised thing for all Y6s so she got her turn the following year).

We don't intend to have babies close together, but we always said that if that's the way things happened we would always treat them differently and have a clear distinction between them and what they were allowed to do. You can always treat your younger one to something else at the same time, just not the same thing iyswim else it loses the "special-ness" for the older one

Savvy_Sue

mookiandco wrote: »

The newspaper cutting has been prouddly displayed in a frame on the toilet wall at my mums house for years!!

:rotfl:

redmel1621 wrote: »

Just a quick question to those of you with older kiddies(7yrs+) Or to anyone else who might like to add their thoughts:)

Would you ever send your children away on an adventure holiday/summer camp?

Mine didn't go residential until they were 11 or so, but I did use daycamp type things before that. They were delighted to go and had a whale of a time.

They did cub camps before the age of 11, but not for more than a weekend, as far as I remember.

cazscoob

elle ill send you some fat down and then i will get into the clothes in my cupboard and you can be a size 10 lol!

i have had a grumpy baby today and she is eventually asleep! think im gonna have another early night and i have bedtimes stories on dvd so have to preview it before kids lol!(well thats my excuse!)

emlou2009

our new house is quite cottagey so has old fashioned doors that dont fit doorway bouncers which is a big pile of poop cos seth loved his. in the old argos catalogue they did one on a frame, but in the new one its been replaced by a swing, how annoying! does anyone know where i can get one on a frame?