The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

sexki11en

Maddie wrote: »

Yay! Lots going on for you too then SK! Good luck with the new job, when will you find out?

For those you've had a lap and dye, how long am i likely to need off? The range of a few days to 2 weeks seems quite broad!

Well I should find out today if I passed the telephone interview I had yesterday. I think it went well. Then there'll be an interview next Mon, Tues or Wed, and i'm hoping to find out by next Friday. Everything crossed for me please girls (only those in the 2WW of course :rotfl:)

Good question regarding the lap Maddie, I was wondering the same thing myself.

SK x

QQuaver

Everything crossed for you Sexki11en, since I won't see DH until the 19th:)

VK-2008

ok i think dh and i are both officially babymad today! we decided to go out a shopping trip today to treat ourselves and it was like baby baby baby everywhere
i have already picked out what pram (wishful thinking at present) and like just about everyone at shops had it and were continually next to us. then hubby kept seeing people that looked like me with a bubba and he sooooooo wnts that too be me. he then decided to tell me for last week everyday hes been dreaming about our family and states hes having visions of it. hes such a gem
think officially i am going baby crazy
been headachy for last 3 days which is not helping.
hope everyone else is doing gd, fingers crossed for all in 2ww.

chickpea

Hi everyone - hmm, cosmic ordering..? Maybe as a New Year's present for moi meme (I've already got a Christmas present arranged!)

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Babies everywhere in town today here too, I thumped one pram-faced breeder who was pushing a buggy, heavily pregnant and puffing away on a fag.

Ok, I didn't really thump her, but I wanted to..

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So yes, re testing I was very patient, I've got to CD26, was going to maybe crack and test today...but the red terror got there first.

chickpea

My neighbour has just announced her pregnancy on Facebook - her third in 5 years.

I might have to commit Facebook suicide. Then firebomb her house.

Good luck folks - I'm out of the game for another cycle, but someone else must have a BFP by the end of 2010..!:rotfl:

VK-2008

well look at positive chickpea, when we get our little bundle of joy we have gone through hell to get there and know we wont take it for granted. not saying folk who get pg quick take it for granted all the time but some do.
im trying to stay positive and just think it will be worth it. my little angel will be cherished and loved soooo much
i seriously have a heart just waiting to love a bubba.
well xmas day will either be a happy one or another day to look back on bad year 2010 has been. trying to keep chin up. got appt on 21st of feb so should it be bad news on xmas at least that will give me a bit of hope and think it will only be 2 months until next appt.
going to be looking forward to weekend, do a supermarket shop in the morning, back home, tidy house, hubby watch the football and then roll on xfactor and casualty and sooooooooooooooo super excited to know who will win on sunday as i cant predict it. GO MATT!!!!!
well join the 2ww tomoz so let hope its a quick one with xmas arriving
oh and quick q? - obv drinking is not recommended for us lot ttc but got work night out on 22th would it be better staying away from demon drink or blitzing it and seeing what happens? im not a drinker so it wouldnt be too much of a bother
mind you =, you know what nights out are like - oh if your not drinking, u must be pg, and then that opens the can of worms to everyone and dont really want to get into that on a night out.
advice appreciated.

gettingthereslowly

Hi Ladies,

Hoping to join you all if I may?

Ive been away from the forum for quite a few weeks due to new job and needing to take my mind off the world of TTC.

Me and hubby have been TTC for #1 since 05/09 but sadly no success.

I have regular periods and getting peak days on my CBFM but not sure if that does actually mean that im in good working order. DH needs a little more convincing to visit the Dr but has promised to visit in the new year if no success by then. We both have been putting it off but think the endless waiting and hoping is not working so off to plan B.

Fingers crossed for everyone. Promise to try to get on as often as i can.

GTS xx

VK-2008

hey gts. just think of going to doc as a positive, they are there to help you and oh.
im the same go through stages where i am not on often but then on for a wee while
i love being able to speak to someone goig through same as myself

sexki11en

GTS, welcome to the thread. Sorry to see you here and hope your stay here is short. You may remember a couple of us from the early days of the TTC thread.

Keep us updated on how you're going.

SK x

chickpea

GTS - I'd get yourself down to GP's in New Year if I were you.

Sometimes the effect of just being seen by a professional can be enough to relax you and help things happen. Allegedly.

Either you have a problem, which the GP will help you identify and work to solve, or else you don't, in which case you can go away (sort of) reassured and keep trying.

I hope you get a result, like us all!