The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

emmzy

Glad the results were ok lilo and my fingers are crossed for you next time too x

Im going to be brave.... Ill be back tomorrow in tears about how awful it was or to laugh at myself for being ridiculous because it was fine..

nichart20

Lilo so glad your getting good results back :T
emmzy I hope all goes well tomorrow

I am on cd27 and have been so silly to build my hopes up thinking ooo maybe it will be this month and I wont need ivf I have been s/s and I just know AF is on her way and I know im going to take it bad and get myself all upset why do I do this to myself :mad:

jiblets1

Do you know nichart, I think maybe we on this thread have let ourselves get a bit too much without hope each month. I've spent many months in my duldrums not even bothering to hope for good news each cycle and I've decided to be more positive.

Don't get me wrong, I'm still going to be REALISTIC, and I'm not going to allow myself anywhere near the state I was in when I first started trying and really got myself wound up each month. But I do think a little hope is a good thing.

I'm going to give us all a little kick up the bum. We've let our PMA slip away from us, and it won't come back if we don't leave ourselves open to it. Come on girls - let's have faith. This will be the year for several of us I'm sure. Maybe it'll be you? or me? Definately some of us. Cross those fingers, chop the feet of all those rabbits, find a four leaf clover and get yourselves early to bed! That man won't BD himself you know!

*P M A P M A P M A!!!*

Sorry, I never had the chance to be a cheerleader. I think I missed my vocation in life...

nichart20

:rotfl:can I join in the cheerleading but I want the outfit and pom poms

yes I think realistic with lots of PMA on top is a good balance this will be a good year for us all

shelly

jiblets1 wrote: »

*P M A P M A P M A!!!*

Sorry, I never had the chance to be a cheerleader. I think I missed my vocation in life...

This bit made me laugh out loud :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Here we all are getting back some P M A!!

jiblets1

shelly wrote: »

This bit made me laugh out loud :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Here we all are getting back some P M A!!

OMG! Cheerleading smilies! Who'd have thought?

Leopardlady

Wow!! I love the cheerleading PMA is good and realism is also useful in this

Lilo, i am so glad everything went ok yesterday, i was thinking of you all day, and little prayers were floating upwards for you. Lets hope that it all becomes clear in a month

I am feeling better, i have stopped bleeding (again!) and hoping this is it for now.

Oh and i are trying to look forward and sort a few things out that we had put on hold due to the pregnancy, so now is a time for enjoying life and making the most of it and seeing what comes around the corner.

Have a great day everyone, and i hope it is something you can laugh about later emmzy

liloandstitch

Hi everyone, its great to see the PMA, and I LOVE the cheerleading smilies.

I am sooooooo confused. I am on day 22, my CBFM is still high, and my period has started. !!!!!!! Has anyone got any ideas, cos I am so totally confused as to what is happening. (cant insert a smilie here cos they have all gone!)

Hurry up and let us know how you got on emmzy. Hope it went well

Go, girls, Go Girls, GO GO GO!!!
(Me cheerleading!)

Lilo

kizmet106

Am loving the cheerleading

Lilo - Glad everything went ok for you, I have absolutely no idea on the day 22 query. I am testing using those lovely ovulation sticks and am on day 21 and no positive as yet..... not sure if I missed it or its still to come or I am not ovulating at all this month - its all soooo confusing :undecided

I am all for the PMA! Its so difficult trying not to get too excited every month just to be disappointed but still keeping that PMA!

Emmzy - hope it went well and LeopardLady glad you are feeling a bit better

nichart20

Hi Ladies CD 1 for me

Had some good news went to see my Rheumatology specialist today and my blood restults came back all good meaning my arthritis it laying low just need it to stay low now

L/L glad to hear the bleeding has stopped, sounds like a good idea doing things you put on hold have you anything nice planned

emmzy hope it went well today