The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

Leopardlady

Thank you all for your support, i did not go home yesterday, but the day got easier, it really does help that i see my hubby at work and we had a late lunch together so i could talk to him, he is extremely supportive.

An easish day today and then a mega gig tonight, my hubbys band are playing a leaving do for some very good friends who are land lords of a local pub, so it will be a big night, and i plan on having some fun

I really hope today is a good day for all and that anyone who needs it gets a hug and you are all welcome to my PMA today

nichart20

LL really hope you have a good night, so sorry your back with us

Hi to the new people :wave:

still not got the appointment through, I phoned the hospital we are been refered from and they have said everything is set up apart from the fact they have not employed the person to book appointments :doh:but they say this should not delay the ivf it should still be March/April but I won't stress if it's any later. We did not get a room for hoxton hotel but OH is taking me to Edinburgh instead has anyone been need recommendations

Hope your all well, wont it be nice when the weather gets better

angelavdavis

liloandstitch wrote: »

Dont know if it helps anyone, but I have a code for 10% off at access diagnostics - this is valid on both sites - www.accessdiagnostics.co.uk and www.accessdiagnostic.co.uk - They are the same company, but check both as sometimes things are cheaper on one than the other.

The code is save10

Hope this helps someone - lilo

Thanks for this Lilo - would you believe I have just ordered some Zeta West supplements for me and OH last week! I will keep this in case its still valid for next time.

I am fuming today, after getting new batteries today, I have discovered that my CBFM is now displaying an error and refusing to work - how frustrating! Having read the manual it just says that it requires replacement! So, it has lasted just 14 months. Grrr

liloandstitch

So, you have worn it out Angela, obviously that too is only designed for people that can drop sprogs to order. Only another 12 months for mine then!!!! - I bought mine from Access diagnostics with the 10% off and paid iro £50.

LL, hope you are having the best time tonight.

Im on high still, day 18 - am spotting blood and dbs which is worrying. I really hope it doesnt mean that I have problems 'downstairs' ie Im going to get bad news on Monday. Still, Im trying not to borrow trouble.

Obviously, all these changing tablets are completing screwing up my hormones and I dont know where I am now. Oh, and Ive got a headache.

Now Im feeling thoroughly sorry for myself - its a good job you lot dont know my DH cos I havent hold him about the spotting cos I dont want to worry him ( oh and he'll stop bding, and I cant have that, can I!)

Have a good weekend everyone - lilo

liloandstitch

I shall stay here, all on my lonesome, and talk to myself.

Day 19, still spotting, still high (on CBFM not drugs).

Not looking forward to Monday, but ho hum.

Hope everyone else is having a fantastic weekend - Lilo

jiblets1

Ha ha lilo, chatting to yourself, don't we all sometimes?

Just been out for a lovely indian with hubby. He's so good at making me feel really good about myself. Gotta love a good man...

We had a good chat about ttc tonight. He was saying how he really hopes we manage to fall naturally before getting to the IVF point. I honestly don't care, as long as it happens. I have also realised that I'm completely depending on it being this year. My hopes are high (am I the only one here with PMA intact at the moment - hope I haven't stolen it from you all), but I have realised that it may come with a price. If there's no BFP this year, I have so many hopes pinned on it that I don't think my sanity would last into 2011 without it.

AF is just packing up her bags to leave, so it's on to the next cycle for me. Here we go again...

liloandstitch

Thanks for the company jibs - I must admit I usually have quite sensible conversations that way!

Glad you enjoyed the Indian, and that you have good bonding time with DH. and glad you have good PMA

Lilo

emmzy

Hiya All, Just a quick question before bed, I have my hycosy on Tuesday and AF arrived today, Im assuming they cant go ahead with it now can they? Bloody thing, Also if shes here this time this month theres a good chance shell show up on my wedding day, See they pills you get that stop it for a few days do they cause any problems with TTC?

Night night x

angelavdavis

Hi all,

Quick hi before I go off for my short Birthday break.

emmzie, Sorry I can't help with your queries, but I am sure someone with some knowledge will help out.

jiblets1, losing your sanity TTC is something we have all done here!

I am looking forward to an (almost) week with my lovely husband relaxing.

Have a good week all - lots of love x

liloandstitch

Emmzy, dont assume they wont go ahead - most things still do I find. I would ring on Monday and ask their opinion.

Its the pill which you take back to back (ie one packet straight after the other without break) to avoid having a period. Obviously being a contraceptive, you would be able to ttc whilst taking it. Make an appointment to see your doc to discuss. I dont know if there are any other ways of doing this.

Hope this helps - lilo