The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

ginvzt

nichart20 wrote: »

plumpmouse really hope you got good results today so you can continue x

ginvzt really hope you get your bfp but just to say without clomid I am always 28 days. This month, my first month without clomid I was 28 days, with clomid I went upto 31 days so it does mess with your cycle a little

liloandstitch hope all goes well with the medical

jiblets1 I forgot to thank you for the cream tea how rude of me!! I also feel 2010 is gonna be a good year for all of us lets get our PMA back for 2010

I have my consultation in the morning at 10.00am I am going to work before then going back to work after, then meeting my mum in starbucks for a hot chocolate with lots of cream on mmmm, for some reason I am worried I dont know why
*TMI*AF is been so mean this month, AF arrived thurs I have had 5 days of heavy bleeding usually I have 2 days heavy 3 at most then light wish she would get lost

nichart - I know clomid is messing up my cycle... But this doesn't help with wanting to get to the other end of the bridge!!! Still no AF, had a bit of cramps/something earlier, but it was gone within half an hour. Every time I go to the loo I expect to see the red, but so far, it is keeping at bay. Anyone got the key that I can use and then just throw in the ocean so it can't show up? Well, I stocked up on ice cream for when AF shows up, to drown the sorrows in the sweetness and cold of it... So, I geuss, I am not losing the weight this month either.

plumphouse- hope all was well today!

meercat - well done with the appointment. And jsut hope for the best. You never know what is around the corner, and you might get good news just before Christmas!

Legacy, it is my 3rd Christmas on 'the other side', and it is hard. I have my godson visiting us just after Christmas, so I keep looking at all the nice bits and wishing I could get them for our child. And it is not getting easier...

plumpmouse

nichart20 wrote: »

plumpmouse really hope you got good results today so you can continue x

Hiya

Thanks for remembering. Well my eggs aren't as big as usual. 16cm at the minute but she has said this is big enough to stand a chance as they will grow a bit more over the next 24 hours. So I was given the injection to make me ovulate and will just have wait and see.

My Gp has signed me off work for 2 weeks and wants me to goback for another 2 weeks so I have te to adjust whatever happens. Told work today also, everyone has been really supportive which has helpe a bit. Have spent most of the day in tears though so will be glad when tomor
row comes.

Thanks everyone for you support, hoping we all get our wish granted soon!

nichart20

I am so pleased you got good news, and glad you have the support at work it makes a big difference to the stress levels, spend the whole time looking after yourself over next 2 weeks I really hope all goes well x

liloandstitch

ginvzt, get those white pants on - you know it makes sense!

Plumpmouse - good luck for tomorrow, I hope all goes well, and remember you are PUPO (pregnant until proved otherwise!)

Meercat, good luck with the follow up - will it be with Geeta?

Legacy - I think you summed up how we all feel at this time of year, and how unfair things are, there is a lovely post a couple of pages back which was really apt about other people and their kids - Useless at posting links, but it really was good.

Nichart thanks for the good wishes, the medical went well, and the Doctor seemed to think that I wouldnt have any problems - although she wouldnt be making the decisions, so hopefully nothing to worry about. Dont find out for 3/4 weeks though so not put out of my mind yet!

The monitor is still safely on high, DH has advised that he is ready for another night of bding!!! (TMI) so we're on a roll!

Lilo

ginvzt

Lilo, I am so glad the medical went well!!!!

Plumpmouse - best of luck for tomorrow!!!! Fingers crossed all goes well!

I still haven't got any white pants. I am not holding my breath for any happy news from me - I know Clomid messes things up. I am sure AF is on the way, there is nothing to indicate otherwise (other than the absence of it!). One day, AF won't show up for the right reason! I am sure of it! (well, at this minute...)

meercat71

hi there
Yes it's with Geeta ;-)

liloandstitch wrote: »

ginvzt, get those white pants on - you know it makes sense!

Meercat, good luck with the follow up - will it be with Geeta?

Lilo

liloandstitch

Hi meercat, hope it goes well. Geeta is lovely, and I have always found her to be very straight and direct. I hope she gives you the go ahead for when you want.

Lilo

angelavdavis

Meercat, sorry about your news xx

Plumpmouse - good luck this week.

Legacy - sounds like you have the blues - we have all been there so rant away! Hope things pick up for you soon.

Hi all, nothing much to report from me, I am off on my training this Friday for my (hopefully) new job. JSA stops paying out in two weeks so it couldn't arrive at a better time.

Have a good week all, will check back in later in the week. xx

ginvzt

How are we this morning?...

Nothing new here. No AF, not BFP. Just more pains and aches, and the feeling that AF is just about to show up. I am on CD32, so it is time!!!!! I might be wrong, but I think I am 17DPO going by Clearblue monitor and temp hike. Since it was still BFN this morning, I don't think there is any hope of getting BFP this time, it is just a case of waiting for AF to show up. Maybe next time...

Just an update - it didn't took long, and AF has showed up... I still have 3-4 hours at work, but not sure if I will be able to do it. I might just have to pack up and go work from home for the rest of the day...

liloandstitch

Sorry to hear that ginvzt, I hope you are not suffering too much. I am not sure if it is better to turn up like clockwork, or at least have the am I/arent I feeling for a few days.

Hope you are okay - is that your last month of clomid?
Lilo
PS, still high here, I think I should peak tomorrow, which would place ovulation at day 14 (it says ov 24 - 36 hours after peak and tomorrow is day 13) Have placed hubby on red alert, and am 'visualising' like mad!!!! (You would be amazed at what my mind thinks sperm and an egg look like!)