The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

ginvzt

Oh well, it is Saturday, and it seems a nice day outside.

Still no AF, but I am sure she is just around the corner. Got a bit of spotting yesterday. Had a really bad cramp in my leg tonight, still can't walk properly, terrible headache now, feeling a bit nauseous and don't want to do anything. But, it is our Christmas meal, so need to go and get the pink garlic for rabbit casserole (which we are cooking), and pack the suitcase with duvet, pillows, towels, etc (she wasn't sure if she will have enough for us!)

jiblets1

Did I say AF had arrived quietly? That was the kiss of death... I've only just got out of my pained bed this morning.

plumpmouse

nichart20 wrote: »

aw plumpmouse really hope you get good news on monday, were your eggs a good size the last 2 cycles

Yes they were, both times it had worked by this stage

liloandstitch

Hi everyone, sorry to hear all the newsXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Meercat, Hugs XXXXXXXXXXXX

Sorry havent been around, we went away for a few days, and now we are back. CBFM went up to high this morning, so hubby has a smile on his face in anticipation of the next few days ......................................

Speak soon - lilo

ginvzt

Meercat - I am sorry it was not meant to be this month, but I hope all works out soon.

Jiblets - hope AF eased off, as did the pain... I am still (!!) waiting for mine. It is CD31, and I am sure it will show up, I have been spotting since Friday. It is just I was so optimistic/hopeful/foolish this month. I was sure it was going to work. Of course, it is not!!!!

Lilo - I hope you enjoyed your break!!! Lets hope the smiley face will bring some good luck! I know that miracles happen (just no to me!)

liloandstitch

Hi ginvzt, have you tested again? I know you tested at 27 days (even if you did type it in white!) I will still keep my fingers crossed for you.

I was pleased to see that the body appears to be in full working order. I have another high today, (d11) and expect to get a peak in the next few days.

I am off for my medical today, so hopefully that will go okay. Everyone tells me it will all go wrong, and I will have to fight to get my sick pay back, so this should be fun!

Have a good day - Lilo

ginvzt

liloandstitch wrote: »

Hi ginvzt, have you tested again? I know you tested at 27 days (even if you did type it in white!) I will still keep my fingers crossed for you.

Yes, I did on Saturday morning, and of course, there was no joy. I actually did again yesterday when we got back home, which was not what I wanted to see, but it was not first thing in the morning, etc. I might test tomorrow if still 'no show', but I guess Clomid is just making my cycles longer and my hopes crashed harder.

nichart20

plumpmouse wrote: »

Yes they were, both times it had worked by this stage

plumpmouse really hope you got good results today so you can continue x

ginvzt really hope you get your bfp but just to say without clomid I am always 28 days. This month, my first month without clomid I was 28 days, with clomid I went upto 31 days so it does mess with your cycle a little

liloandstitch hope all goes well with the medical

jiblets1 I forgot to thank you for the cream tea how rude of me!! I also feel 2010 is gonna be a good year for all of us lets get our PMA back for 2010

I have my consultation in the morning at 10.00am I am going to work before then going back to work after, then meeting my mum in starbucks for a hot chocolate with lots of cream on mmmm, for some reason I am worried I dont know why
*TMI*AF is been so mean this month, AF arrived thurs I have had 5 days of heavy bleeding usually I have 2 days heavy 3 at most then light wish she would get lost

meercat71

well we have booked in our follow up for not next Friday but the one after - so get in before Xmas to find out when we can try again... hopefully not too in the future ;-) staying positive ...

nichart20

aw meercat so sorry, I have just seen your post. I am just starting out maybe we could be having treatment around the same time how long do they say between cycles, hope you dont mind me asking but is there any questions I should be asking tomorrow I always think of things to ask an hour after appointments :mad: