MSE Pregnancy Club XIII

jha

thanks krystaltips - i have had to hand other peoples babies back before but i am sure it wont happen with my own - thank you for the reassureance.

jennynoo

Oh yeah, was also going to say Hugs to Lou - my nan had alzheimers as well so I know how horrid it is and thanks Jvic for your birth story, it was really interesting - no two are ever the same!

jha

jennynoo wrote: »

Welcome Sarah and Storm and someone else who joined at the weekend - sorry can't remember .

I've had loads of random bleeding, most undiagnosed and not at times when I would have expected a period although I hear that is quite common. My one diagnosis was cervical erosion which is apparently nothing to worry about but there are so many causes of bleeding that you should always get it checked out just in case it is something serious.

Yeah sorry jennynoo i should have said that any bleeding should be checked by doc or hosp - sorry:o

nancmat

Afternoon all!!

Just a quick one, i've hada stitch like pain in my right hand lower ab, esp after ive been walking for 5mins so..it really hurts I've got midwife on Thursday so will mention it then, but wondered if anyone else had experienced this..

I'm also paranoid about being too small to get anything out down there argg..

Had some bits arrive from e-bay, so cute ive been lucky with clothes ive bought so far, all in good nick and nice brands.

x

workinmummy

;)Debates too much for my tired brain to handle a the minute. I'll hold my hands up its give me the best drugs you have or an elective C-section.

Have had worst weekend ever. Absolutely detest OH. Fell out big time on saturday. A big mix up, all his dads fault not mine. Then he proceeded to tell me that he is sick of doing all the cleaning. He doesn't even know what a washing machine or iron is or bathroom cleaner. Only thing he does is brush up and wipe kitchen down. And he's sat on his backside at home all day, whilst still off sick. I work full time, am 6 months pregnant and am the only one who does anything for DS or the dogs.

I'm absolutely knackered, have not had a day off all year, apart from the weekends and bank holidays, which are mostly spent doing the shopping and cleaning. (This is because i have been told i can add all holidays onto the end of my three months maternity).

Anyway, for those of you who saw me moaning on friday night. I did go to the bodyshop party on saturday. Despite OH being in a mood and DS crying because mummy had darred to go out of the house. Just got dressed and went. Was out for a grand total of 2 and half hours. And bought some scrummy body butters to deter the stretch marks.

Fathers Day and Mothers Day, aren't they about family? Not in his book.
DS was all excited to give him the cards he had made, and the present i had bought. He then went off to visit a friend.
Have only spoken to OH when asked something and that has only been a bedruged one word answer. He can get stuffed. Spent all evening upstairs catching up on Greys Anatomy, Private practice, House and all the other American "carp" i apparently watch. Then took myself off to my new home in the spare bedroom. Have to say bed seems much comfyer and i seize up less. Think it may be because the mattress is softer. So am quite happy to stay there, well away from him.

Next Sunday is Take That. And have asked my mum to have DS and keep him overnight, because no doubt vindictive OH will try to pull some stunt to prevent me from going- like !!!!!! off out. But I have made my pre-emtive strike and there is no way i am missing it. Also getting DS taken to school by grandma, will give me another hour in bed, to help recover from the day/night before;)

Glam- Sending good vibes for your OH
Claire- That is scandalous, hoping to get my form next week. Will be 29 weeks
SM- Hope you get some money from work asap.
Tia - Hope you start to feel better soon
MM - Sorry you can't be with Dylan. But hope the feeding is going well.
Welcome to the newcomers and sorry can't remember much else.
Too stropey to retain information.

Sarah_Joanne

Thanks guys. Well I had 2 episodes of bleeding after sex (sorry if tmi) seemed to be a lot of blood immediately after the event (again sorry if tim!) but nothing afterwards.

The hospital scan seemed to show everything is fine for as this will be my first baby I was really shocked when I saw all the blood!!

SugarSpun

That happened to me too Sarah Joanne, and apparently it looks like a lot more blood than it actually is because it's mixed with, um, other fluids.

tiamai_d

I bled on and off right through with DS2. Was put down to cervical bleeding and never did any harm. Usually happened if I had done too much (like hoover :cool:). This time I have only had one strange discharge incident that didn't worry me and I didn't bother going up to have it checked out, I think it was just some fibery bits of the plug coming away.

I feel sicker than ever now and the headache is worse so I'm not amused. Got to go get DS1, milk and post off a DSlite for repair. Then home, tablets and lie back down on the sofa while the kids run riot.

lou66_2

Hi
Sarah Joanne i had spotting after sex at about 6 weeks and shouted at my oh because of it !! It put me off having sex for about two - three weeks after then spoke to a mate that had the same thing and made me feel better so we had another go and since evrything has been fine.

jha

I was feeling like carp (having had cramps for two nights running and yesterday) and persuaded myself that i was loosing the baby again:rolleyes: but chatting to you guys has made me feel so much better so thanks:T

i am off to do a bit of cleaning