Am I too controlling over money?

Emmzi

well done. I send a few peoplee over to read your thread. You show there is always hope.

InaPickle

julliff wrote: »

I am thinking about starting a MFW diary - I want to get my bigger and longer mortgage paid off as soon as I can.

I also have to admit that I find the forums so theraputic - I don't feel so alone and overburdened with responsibility when I come here.

Thank you all

And why not? Get over there and start a thread!

And we like being here to help, so carry on carrying on and post a link to your new thread!

mommame

Hi Julliff I have read from the start but only posted a few times to give you a bit more determination and resolve to grab a better life for you and your girls.
Congrats and well done on getting to the first major change in your ongoing adventure that will be your new life.
I will still keep tabs on you to see you are ok and dont be afraid to holler if you need us.
Good luck
mom

Dinah93

Must be a relief to be able to start a new chapter. Things are only going to get better for you and your girls.

If you start a MFW diray can you put a link on this thread, I'll migrate over there and follow you. We completed on our first house last week, I'm planning to start our overpayments in January, give ourselves a bit of time to make it habitable and pay for the wedding before we start.

Brighton_belle

julliff wrote: »

I also have to admit that I find the forums so theraputic - I don't feel so alone and overburdened with responsibility when I come here.
Thank you all

And Juliffe - it is theraputic for me to come on here and offer support, and maybe make a smidgeon of difference to someone's day. So thanks.(And I also learn alot in the process of following other's dilemma's and journey's).
Look forward to following you on the next stage of your life.

Primrose

Julliff - I suppose Congratulations is the wrong word to use in what you rightly say are rather sad circumstances, but congratulations are nevertheless still due to you for the strength and fortitude you've shown over this whole period. It has been a difficulty journey but the opportunities now ahead of you will enable you focus on your future unhindered by many of the burdersome problems you've suffered in the past.

I would hazard a guess that if we could "fast forward" two or three years we will see you and you Ex in very different circumstances. You will be much further along the track to financial freedom and personal fulfilment, and he will have fallen into debt, heavy drinking and a lack of any self motivation to have learnt a lesson and put his life back into order. I hope I'm wrong, but at least you will no longer be dragged down back his lack of responsibility. I just hope he doesn't let your girls down in the way he has let you down. Best wishes for your future happiness.

vandanfc

Hi J

Good to hear from you.

Here starts the rest of your happy content life. I think having a goal such as MFW is good and will help you stay focussed. Even little OP's can go a long way. They are a friendly bunch too.

Hugs to you all.

Vanda

msb5262

Hi again Juliffe,

Glad you've made it over the final hurdle. Now the rest of your life really begins.
Good luck to you and yours - you deserve it.

love from MsB x

carolan78

Just logged in to catch up I am so pleased there is now an end to your unhappiness and you can now move forward in life Good luck with your future hun and remember this time when life throws rubbish your way. You have got through this with your head held high so I am sure you can get through pretty much anything x

GSXRCarlos

I'm almost a month late, but happy belated birthday hun ;o)