A new start for Mooloo

candygirl

Sorry the hols wasn't up to scratch hun:(:(

tired_mum

Glad you got away with BF sounds like a holiday to remember:D
Twin 1 sounds like she is doing well how is DS?
As for twin 2 it seems like she will always put herself and men before her boys which is sad but her choice it looks like this maybe 1 fight you cant win maybe better to concentrate on twin 1 who wants and will benefit from your help in getting her daughter back.

Savvy_sewing

tired_mum wrote: »

Glad you got away with BF sounds like a holiday to remember:D
Twin 1 sounds like she is doing well how is DS?
As for twin 2 it seems like she will always put herself and men before her boys which is sad but her choice it looks like this maybe 1 fight you cant win maybe better to concentrate on twin 1 who wants and will benefit from your help in getting her daughter back.

I am still not sure what DS is really upto. Spoke to him on the phone but I really wasnt getting the responses I wanted to hear out of him.

I think you may be right about twin2. Molly and I were talking about it over our cup of tea in the garden, and I said that I dont have the fight left in me to fight for someone who is not willing to show any fight for themselves.
I still finding it hurting me to admit it, and I feel like I am a failure, but thats something that I will just have to learn to accept. I cannot help her if she doesnt want to be helped.

shaz_mum_of__2

i am sorry you had such a rubbish time where was it you went again? I have been looking at coach hols in Italy, tuscany is my dream destination ....theres a last minute deal next month for 8 nights half board £189 inc flights !! tempted to book it as a post exam treat but not sure they allow kids and not sure my mum would look after Ds (9yo) for so long as she and my dad find it hard to deal with him at times although now he is medicated he is much better but unfortunately the school get all the benefit of it

I agree with tired mum save your energy for those that want to help themselves , your only human ...........well when you don't look like elephant man ...:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Savvy_Sue

Mooloo wrote: »

I am still not sure what DS is really upto. Spoke to him on the phone but I really wasnt getting the responses I wanted to hear out of him.

Have you told him very clearly that the rent at his 'friend's' house is not your responsibility, so he needs to sort that out pronto?

I wonder if that's why he moved on ...

Savvy_sewing

Savvy_Sue wrote: »

Have you told him very clearly that the rent at his 'friend's' house is not your responsibility, so he needs to sort that out pronto?

I wonder if that's why he moved on ...

Oh I have told him. He has trouble with time keeping, filling in forms due to his dyslexia, and is evasive over everything at the moment. But he is going to end up coming down to earth with a big bump, as he has no money anymore, and the council have not paid his housing benefit, becuase he didnt take proof of his beneifts back to them in the correct time period.

Savvy_sewing

Shaz we went to Trapani, in Sicily. Ryan Air cheap flights, the second hotel was lovely, so maybe it would have been less of a problem if we had been there, and the wind was less, and the rubbish was not swirling all around. Maybe it would be also better to go during the week, as on a Sunday it all shuts up except for the florists and the greengrocers. But it still shuts at 1pm for lunch and doesnt reopen till between 5pm and 6pm. until 8pm. So there is a big part of the day where there is nothing to do, and the beach was not very good. Obviously man made, and dangerous signs about DO NOT SWIM due to danger. mmmm was that the jellyfish??

shaz_mum_of__2

The one i was looking at is Florence, venice and rome very romantic.....well maybe not if sharing aroom with a 9yo boy who's "bored"...

Savvy_sewing

Shaz, when you are away, its often easier with the children, as they do find different things to amuse themselves. But sharing the room is definitely not so romantic at all!. Can you see if there is somewhere that has Babysitters and at least get out for a meal elsewhere together.?

Today I have my ESA, working links back to works interview. That will be interesting as I have to take DGD with me.!
I have to check what happens about my ESA if I am caring for her on a more formal basis.

DGD is wreaking havoc in the dining room. Playing the drum kit already.

I have been awake since 4.15am! Brainstorming in my diary and trying to get things off of my mind, to try and make things clearer.

Well its as clear as MUD!!

Molly41

Hi Mooloo,
Ive been up since 4 too. Hope you get on ok today x