A new start for Mooloo

floss2

I wish Twin1 could have the same social worker as Twin2 - seems that one is much more willing to help.

Try & have a quiet day - you may be able to get some thinking done

Savvy_sewing

Well good morning.
I slept reasonably well, and didnt have any majorly disturbing dreams for once.
Today I have to go to the Housing Officer in Towcester for twin1's paperwork etc.

Twin2 hopefully can cope without me today.
DGD is still with her aunty so lets hope thats all ok.

I have a backlog of housework that needs attacking, including big laundry bags of clothes, (not to wash this time), but to sort out the baby clothes to put by for the coming months for DGS2, and clothes that Mum no longer wants. To see if I can use any of the fabrics, or if not they can then go to charity.

I would like to find time to sew, but the way my arm is still this morning, I doubt that that will happen.

It is my BF's turn to come to see me, but he did invite me to go down there. I could have gone yesterday but I had too much going on yesterday and this morning.
As much as I really want to go, I am also aware of the impinging mess! So am trying to think about all of the things I need/want/should do here over the weekend. So i am in the middle of the pull between heart and head.

jackieglasgow

You should go, the housework won't be going anywhere. Go and have some good quality couple time without the DGD - and save money on the gas and leccie!

shaz_mum_of__2

jackieglasgow wrote: »

You should go, the housework won't be going anywhere. Go and have some good quality couple time without the DGD - and save money on the gas and leccie!

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I agree! i often go visiting friends especially the elderly rellies as they have the heating up full

Apricot

Go Mooloo, you deserve a break! Cleaning can wait!

candygirl

Try and have a relaxing weekend hun:A:A:AHope baby gets better soon too x:D

Savvy_sewing

Couldnt go.
Social rang me again, asking me to check up on Twin2 this weeknd, as problems there today.! I cannot believe whats happening from day to day.
Have rowed with Twin2 over the phone, lost my temper with her.
Tried talking to my BF and he has told me to re think our relationship.
Doesnt want the same things as me, and was pretty hard really.
So all is not well.
So the go and enjoy myself is me on my own, tonight, and checking up on thefamily tomorrow. With yet another meeting with SocialServices on Monday. Now I am getting angry, frustrated, and sick to death of it all.

candygirl

Awww hun, I know you want to help the twins and grandkids as much as you can, and I can understand that, but surely you are entitled to your own life too:(:(
If twin2 continues to make silly choices with keeping here bf there, does she not realise she could end up losing the kids?:(:(
Your bf is prob wanting to see you this weekend, and frustrated that's all x:A:A

Keeping_Motivated

No wonder you are sick of it all.

I wish you BF was being more supportive for your sake but I suspect he finds it hard watching you being pulled from pillar to post and being quite helpless with what he can do...some men like to 'solve' and if they can't then they get angry/frustrated. Can't be easy for him either.

As for twin2, what are the social worried about that they didn't cover yesterday?

granmadelighted

i think you need a medal mooloo, try to relax if you can tonight you must be exhausted hope all goes well this weekend.
hugs granmadelighted.