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Daughter caught us having sex....

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  • ChIpStIcK
    ChIpStIcK Posts: 86 Forumite
    So when are we meant to have sex? when the kids leave home? or is that part of our live over as we are in our early 30's?
    The only thing she prob heard was the bed squeaking as me and partner kiss alot throughout the rest of the deed, you know when you love someone and want to be one with them, though i might have let out the odd murmur as you do, it certainly wasn't any screaming banshee orgasm type play, she didn't have to stand outside our door , that was her choice to do that.
    If i heard her having sex i'd prob giggle with my partner as long as she was def a few years older.
    We all deserve the SAME respect regardless of however many posts you have to your name :o
  • ChIpStIcK
    ChIpStIcK Posts: 86 Forumite
    Pink_fluff wrote: »
    I don't have kids. I live with my partner. But if there were other people living in my house, then I would make damn sure they never heard me having sex.
    So you are not in our position, pardon the pun, you don't live with others and run the risk of being heard, what do you suggest we do to cope without ball gags etc as i'm asthmatic ( really)
    We all deserve the SAME respect regardless of however many posts you have to your name :o
  • Savvy_Sue
    Savvy_Sue Posts: 47,355 Forumite
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    Of course you could ask her how you're supposed to react when you first hear her having sex ... :rotfl:
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  • littlemissmoney
    littlemissmoney Posts: 1,219 Forumite
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    Maybe she heard "weird" noises coming from your room and was worried about you so decided to investigate? Might she not have realised what was going on until she had opened your door - by which time it was too late?
    :p Proud to be a MoneySaver! :p
  • pelirocco
    pelirocco Posts: 8,275 Forumite
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    Pink_fluff wrote: »
    Why should your daughter have to listen to you having sex? Is it any wonder she wants to move out.


    Another poster who fails to read the op
    Vuja De - the feeling you'll be here later
  • Any
    Any Posts: 7,959 Forumite
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    Maybe she heard "weird" noises coming from your room and was worried about you so decided to investigate? Might she not have realised what was going on until she had opened your door - by which time it was too late?

    She is 14 and she watches stuff like Skins...
    I don't really think that is what happened. I think she is a drama queen and just wanted to be heard.
    I also think she will get over it.
  • pelirocco
    pelirocco Posts: 8,275 Forumite
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    Pink_fluff wrote: »
    I don't have kids. I live with my partner. But if there were other people living in my house, then I would make damn sure they never heard me having sex.


    How , can you explain?
    Vuja De - the feeling you'll be here later
  • Any
    Any Posts: 7,959 Forumite
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    Pink_fluff wrote: »
    I don't have kids. I live with my partner. But if there were other people living in my house, then I would make damn sure they never heard me having sex.

    Once you have children there are "other people" in the house for the next at least 18 years (sometimes as much as 25 years).

    Aren't you the OP's mother??
  • Bronnie
    Bronnie Posts: 4,169 Forumite
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    What do you suppose is the average age for young people to stop thinking parents having sex is Gross / Minging / Disgustin' / Sick / Yeuch etc etc?

    In fairness, maybe Pinkfluff hasn't made that transition yet.
  • Loz01
    Loz01 Posts: 1,848 Forumite
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    How cringey :rotfl: but she is 14, everything seems embarassing at that age! She'll get over it.
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