In bed with my creditor ...

Raini

wendz86 wrote: »

That sounds like a right nightmare. if she can't even be bothered to get on contact with you then don't see why you should make the effort.

Hi Wendz, You make a very good point!! The thing is that I genuinely think that they're just bit crap with but that they're hearts are in the right place! But considering I text her yesterday & she still hasn't contacted me ... she works away a lot & does long hours but only 5 days week! Fair enough if we can't meet up at the moment but she's got a bl**dy phone!! Then having said that she got herself into a bit of money trouble too & has a pay as you go phone & has a small budget for it monthly!! But there's always Facebook!!!!

Dinah93 wrote: »

Are you hoping deep down the flights come in as being too expensive?

erm ... maybe ... does that make me bad?

kissjenn

Raini wrote: »

erm ... maybe ... does that make me bad?

Nope human. I think we all like having an "out" for stuff we genuinely just don't want to do.

Raini

I was really excited when it was meant to be in this country but the whole thing just seems like a big fat hassle!

Even the dress is strapless so I have to make sure that I don't get tan lines but I tan really quickly so it would be a pain! OK that's a rubbish reason not to go!!

Raini

I have a 17 hour day today!! :eek: Working in office until 16:30 & then straight to ward for twilight shift until midnight!! LB will be up in Derby tonight for work which is pants but at least I wouldn't be with him even if I didn't work! :rolleyes: I'll get paid more after 20:00 as well as it will be the night rate :T

Got tomorrow off & only got two short shifts over the weekend as it's hotel night on Saturday

Sold two more bits on ebay which I'll have to sort out tomorrow. Then I think I only have one item on ebay!! Must do that tomorrow! The house needs a really good clean too!

Dinah93

Doesn't make you bad, but the fact that you're coming up with excuses not to go should tell you it's your money, and you shouldn't feel guilted into going. Just say you can't afford it, simple. If she doesn't come to your wedding (presuming its in this country) then I'm sorry but thats just petty, and she wasn't a friend to begin with.

Raini

Dinah93 wrote: »

If she doesn't come to your wedding (presuming its in this country) then I'm sorry but thats just petty, and she wasn't a friend to begin with.

It would be abroad (hopefully) so I couldn't blame her!

Just got home from work - that let me go a bit early & I got a free dinner again! Ward was really busy to start with as there was a very disruptive patient so didn't get to talk to LB until about 8.30pm & it feels weird not to talk to him before I go to sleep!

Seriously considering staying up & doing stuff ... I have a really strong urge to cook tomato sauce ... what's that about??!!

Raini

Crap_with_money.com wrote: »

Boo to the sky man! But big well done on the Mortgage OP!! :T:A Just think of all those lovely mortgage-free days getting closer and closer!!

Taking the cash out sounds like a good idea! i've kept threatening to do that with my weekly "spend" allowance - but never quite get round to it!

Well done on the interview! :T it's certainly been an eventful week for you - but you've been working so hard at it, so it's well deserved!

xx

Hi CWM.com :hello: & a very belated thanks for this post! I've only just seen it - think I was posting at the same time!! I can't wait to start on the mortgage properly! Interview is less than a week now!! :eek: xx

Raini

Raini wrote: »

My to do list:

1. [STRIKE]Meal Plan[/STRIKE]
2. [STRIKE]Shopping[/STRIKE]
3. [STRIKE]Sky Man coming to fix the stupid thing![/STRIKE] eventually!
   
4. [STRIKE]Package sales[/STRIKE]
5. [STRIKE]Post Office[/STRIKE]
6. NVQ!! Got some bits to write up for this - If I'm honest I've no idea what I'm doing with this!
   
7. Onepoll Surveys NO! :eek: Must get back into this!
   
8. [STRIKE]Tidy stairs[/STRIKE]
9. [STRIKE]Put washing away[/STRIKE]
10. [STRIKE]Put washing on[/STRIKE]
11. [STRIKE]Washing up[/STRIKE]
12. [STRIKE]Cleaning[/STRIKE]
13. Ebay new items Must do this to!
    
14. Work - Part A Didn't do either of these work bits! :eek:
    
15. Work - Part B

Last week's list didn't go to well!! Right new list:

Fri 3rd - Thu 9th

1. Ebay NEW items
2. Write up NVQ statements
3. NVQ - Read unit summary sheets
4. NVQ - Write description on back of certificates
5. Work - Questionnaiare Boxes
6. Pack bag for LB
7. Pack bag for me
8. Package sales
9. Post Office
10. Cleaning
11. Clean Bathroom Floor - this has just gone down & has grout all over it!
12. Card & pressie for Ma
13. Card & pressie for mates little one - what do you get a two year old which is very cheap but doesn't look it????
    
14. Exercise x 3 sessions :eek::eek::eek:
15. Cook tomato sauce!!
16. Meal Plan
17. Shopping
18. Work - Part A
19. Work - Part B

Hopefully I'll be able to get some of this done :rolleyes:

Swinstie73

Like the plan raini, it means you can see exactly what needs done - me, I have been cleaning the kitchen for the last week and only have the light shade to clean and the floor and have I done it - have I h*ll! I can't help but be lazy in this heat but maybe it will cool down (what an excuse eh)!

Hope you make your decision about the wedding and remember it is YOUR decision,, do what will make you happier!

Raini

So I have secretly packed a bag for LB - had a small hairy moment just now when he was looking for something I've packed! :rotfl:So just a few hours left & I haven't told him. A miracle for me!!


Oh & I'm a red head now!