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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 3

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  • barshamhillbilly
    barshamhillbilly Posts: 2,127 Forumite
    Morning Peeps

    Survived a minor catastrophe yesterday - woke up at 5.30 to a couple of inches of water in downstairs. Mrs BHB had accidentally put a goatskin rug in the washing machine with the towels :confused:. The hair came out of the skin and seized up everything in the washing machine. And water started coming out and didn't stop :eek:.

    Now - spot the change - instead of getting angry and stressed as I would have done a month ago, I went back to bed, laughed and said we can sort it out later :rotfl:.

    Eventually got up about 7.00am and decided to go and buy a wet vacuum cleaner (I had money cause I don't drink :D) and spent most of the day mopping up the mess and fixing the washing machine...... (only Mrs BHB could try and drown a goatskin :rolleyes:)

    AND I DIDN'T HAVE A DRINK :j.

    Mrs BHB did and has just said she now regrets it, didn't enjoy it and she is now about to throw the last 1/3 bottle away. :T

    Have a great bank holiday weekend everyone.

    28 continuous days and counting :D

    BHB
    :) Embrace your inner Hillbilly :)
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Morning Peeps

    Survived a minor catastrophe yesterday - woke up at 5.30 to a couple of inches of water in downstairs. Mrs BHB had accidentally put a goatskin rug in the washing machine with the towels :confused:. The hair came out of the skin and seized up everything in the washing machine. And water started coming out and didn't stop :eek:.

    Now - spot the change - instead of getting angry and stressed as I would have done a month ago, I went back to bed, laughed and said we can sort it out later :rotfl:.

    Eventually got up about 7.00am and decided to go and buy a wet vacuum cleaner (I had money cause I don't drink :D) and spent most of the day mopping up the mess and fixing the washing machine...... (only Mrs BHB could try and drown a goatskin :rolleyes:)

    AND I DIDN'T HAVE A DRINK :j.

    Mrs BHB did and has just said she now regrets it, didn't enjoy it and she is now about to throw the last 1/3 bottle away. :T

    Have a great bank holiday weekend everyone.

    28 continuous days and counting :D

    BHB

    Well done.BHB....how casual that sounds (The bit I have put in red).Sounds like you are really getting used to this AF lark.Well done for not getting angry and well done for not drinking at a sressful time.
    Tell Mrs BHB to take yesterday as a Mulligan and start again today....just a blip.
    Have a lovely day...hope its sunny for you so you can go in the pool:D
    Love Mollypollyxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • barshamhillbilly
    barshamhillbilly Posts: 2,127 Forumite
    mollypolly wrote: »
    Well done.BHB....how casual that sounds (The bit I have put in red).Sounds like you are really getting used to this AF lark.Well done for not getting angry and well done for not drinking at a sressful time.
    Tell Mrs BHB to take yesterday as a Mulligan and start again today....just a blip.
    Have a lovely day...hope its sunny for you so you can go in the pool:D
    Love Mollypollyxxxx

    Thanks Molly. Pool it is :D. We have a skip this weekend to get rid of some junk so must do a bit of work before play.
    Eldest daughter is back for a couple of days later too, so would be nice to get the work done first.


    Best Wishes

    BHB xx
    :) Embrace your inner Hillbilly :)
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Well done BHB :T:T:T (what is it with you two and goats :confused:)

    Stroppy, glad the infection has cleared up, hope mine does soon :)

    Nelski, thanks for that, I'll see if they stock them in my local branch, or maybe I'll order them from H&B, I think they do 15% cashback on quidco ;)

    RA, the more the merrier!! Homemade apple and blackberry crumble with either cream or custard for afties :D

    xx
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • Pippilongstocking
    Pippilongstocking Posts: 16,336 Forumite
    Sniff sniff - cough cough

    Morning all - busy on here - new thread - already 6 pages long :)

    AF both days - sorry to not report in before its been chaos - visitors, cello recitals (DD) birthdays (:)) and a horrible bout of something coldy/fluy - again explained to DD wearing pigtails alot - doesn't give you flu.

    OH on great form - kept me on the straight and narrow - told him my AF days in April and he was pretty impressed. He doesnt normally drink - doesnt see the point unless he wants to get Rat**sed - so its all or nothing with him.

    Waves to all - lots of hard stuff going on here - hugs (esp to all having a terrible time)

    Welcome to new folks - bumpy old wagon but a fun one.

    BHB - I thought it was only my houe that enshued so much chaos!!

    Waves to Molly - hello hello hello.

    Will feel more human when head is less boom boom boom ish and chest sounds less like a raking grate.

    On the postiive side - woke up first thing thinking OH GOD - how much did i drink - heads pounding.

    :) NOTHING OF COURSE - :)

    Nothing to apologise for
    Nothing to feel bad about
    Nothing to make up for
    Nothing to hang my head in shame about

    Hurray for you guys - just will say it quietly cos I am very very delicate.

    Wine bells were clanging like beast the past two days - but - used lots of your voices to keep them at bay - and when they were at their worst I went and put on my pjs and thougth - HA - you can't go out now can you...............
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • stroppy
    stroppy Posts: 237 Forumite
    Thanks Jo.....Hope you feel better soon too,nowt worse than feeling ill.
    Im a natural born worrier so everything I get is definitely something serious....:rolleyes: I Inherited that off my mum who is the worlds biggest hypochondriac.....though the MIL is fighting her for the title, Told my OH its no wonder im neurotic.....she actually left me an answerphone message the other day telling me she hopes she doesnt get swine flu....:rolleyes:
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    stroppy wrote: »
    she actually left me an answerphone message the other day telling me she hopes she doesnt get swine flu....:rolleyes:

    Oh my god....I wonder if that's what I've got :confused::p
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • sleepyjo
    sleepyjo Posts: 50 Forumite
    morning all! woke up this morning with a bit of a headaceh, but tablets have sorted that out, have just poured the last of the cider down drain! and NO it didn't make me feel good, drinking it last night, made me feel yuk - you wonder why we all do it, when we don't enjoy it.
    feel in a better mood and not as depressed as i was last night, going to take the dogs out for a walk later while it is nice.
    many thanks for all your concern last night, it really helped me, knowing that i could chat away and someone was listning tome, dh doesn't realise the problems i have - his attitude is - just stop drinking - he never seems to think anything is a problem,
    have a good day everyone, jo-jo
  • stroppy
    stroppy Posts: 237 Forumite
    jo1972 wrote: »
    Oh my god....I wonder if that's what I've got :confused::p
    If it is im sure my mum will have a pill for it in her cupboard/small pharmacy :D I'll forward them on to you......
    Thats when I knew not to take the tablets the other day.....when she said she hadnt heard of them........:rotfl:
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Good idea Jo Jo, get out in the fresh air and sweep the cobwebs away! Do you think if you told OH you need to talk to him and sit him down and explain how you are feeling he might take it more seriously?

    Have a good day :)

    xx
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
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