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When to start dating again?

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  • Blink_Eden
    Blink_Eden Posts: 255 Forumite
    Can only be a good thing if she hasn't updated yet ;)
  • sarymclary
    sarymclary Posts: 3,224 Forumite
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    I feel a bit like Taye's parent, lying awake in bed until I hear her key in the lock of the front door.... only then will I be able to sleep soundly!
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  • Quackers
    Quackers Posts: 10,157 Forumite
    sarymclary wrote: »
    I feel a bit like Taye's parent, lying awake in bed until I hear her key in the lock of the front door.... only then will I be able to sleep soundly!

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Hope Taye is ok :)
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  • Heath84
    Heath84 Posts: 579 Forumite
    sarymclary wrote: »
    I feel a bit like Taye's parent, lying awake in bed until I hear her key in the lock of the front door.... only then will I be able to sleep soundly!

    :rotfl:
    Feel the same!
    Come on Taye give us an update!
  • BrokeBrunette
    BrokeBrunette Posts: 868 Forumite
    I've given up hope of an update today. Hopefully Taye will spill the beans when she is at work tomorrow. I've logged in about 20 times today - can't wait to hear how the weekend went.
  • NAR
    NAR Posts: 4,863 Forumite
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    As far as I'm concerned no news is good news. :happyhear
  • NOVASTAR
    NOVASTAR Posts: 233 Forumite
    Taye????
    Pllleeeeeeeeeese update ... we need to know how you are x :confused:
  • Taye
    Taye Posts: 473 Forumite
    Goodness,

    Sorry for no update guys my internet went down on Sunday morning and still isn't up yet :mad: stupid Virgin.

    Well the picnic went ok and we had a nice time, played ball with the kids and took them for a walk in the woods which was nice.

    Ended up having dinner together in a local pub with the boys and headed back to Daves. He managed to convince me to stay the night, giving the boy's his spare bedroom which was fine and gave me the option of where to sleep :o he offered to share his bed with me :embarasse which i declined.

    He also offered to let me have his bed while he slept on the couch, but i was kinda nervous about the whole thing and i wanted to make sure the boy's knew where i was, last thing i want is to be a bad example to the lads so i chose to sleep in the spare room with them, so they'd know i'd not spent the night with him.

    Everything was fine sort of, i could tell Dave was really dissappointed id not shared with him and he sulked abit which was abit off putting.

    The next day(monday) we all had breakfast together and Dave played with the boy's, but them me and Dave had abit of a fight, not a "fight fight" but i was in the kitchen making coffee and he tried to kiss me again, i guess i was still abit upset/nervous about his sulking the night before so i pushed him away.

    Anyway he basically got really impatient, asked me how long i was going to make him wait, he just wanted to be close to me. I really didn't know how to reply, and just burst into to tears. He appologised but he just ended up making me feel really guilty about the whole thing.

    Anyway soon after that i took the boy's home and i havn't heard from him since :confused::cry:
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  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    Taye wrote: »
    Goodness,

    Sorry for no update guys my internet went down on Sunday morning and still isn't up yet :mad: stupid Virgin.

    Well the picnic went ok and we had a nice time, played ball with the kids and took them for a walk in the woods which was nice.

    Ended up having dinner together in a local pub with the boys and headed back to Daves. He managed to convince me to stay the night, giving the boy's his spare bedroom which was fine and gave me the option of where to sleep :o he offered to share his bed with me :embarasse which i declined.

    He also offered to let me have his bed while he slept on the couch, but i was kinda nervous about the whole thing and i wanted to make sure the boy's knew where i was, last thing i want is to be a bad example to the lads so i chose to sleep in the spare room with them, so they'd know i'd not spent the night with him.

    Everything was fine sort of, i could tell Dave was really dissappointed id not shared with him and he sulked abit which was abit off putting.

    The next day(monday) we all had breakfast together and Dave played with the boy's, but them me and Dave had abit of a fight, not a "fight fight" but i was in the kitchen making coffee and he tried to kiss me again, i guess i was still abit upset/nervous about his sulking the night before so i pushed him away.

    Anyway he basically got really impatient, asked me how long i was going to make him wait, he just wanted to be close to me. I really didn't know how to reply, and just burst into to tears. He appologised but he just ended up making me feel really guilty about the whole thing.

    Anyway soon after that i took the boy's home and i havn't heard from him since :confused::cry:
    Awwwww hun

    i really dont know what to say:o
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  • wept
    wept Posts: 170 Forumite
    Taye wrote: »
    Goodness,

    Sorry for no update guys my internet went down on Sunday morning and still isn't up yet :mad: stupid Virgin.

    Well the picnic went ok and we had a nice time, played ball with the kids and took them for a walk in the woods which was nice.

    Ended up having dinner together in a local pub with the boys and headed back to Daves. He managed to convince me to stay the night, giving the boy's his spare bedroom which was fine and gave me the option of where to sleep :o he offered to share his bed with me :embarasse which i declined.

    He also offered to let me have his bed while he slept on the couch, but i was kinda nervous about the whole thing and i wanted to make sure the boy's knew where i was, last thing i want is to be a bad example to the lads so i chose to sleep in the spare room with them, so they'd know i'd not spent the night with him.

    Everything was fine sort of, i could tell Dave was really dissappointed id not shared with him and he sulked abit which was abit off putting.

    The next day(monday) we all had breakfast together and Dave played with the boy's, but them me and Dave had abit of a fight, not a "fight fight" but i was in the kitchen making coffee and he tried to kiss me again, i guess i was still abit upset/nervous about his sulking the night before so i pushed him away.

    Anyway he basically got really impatient, asked me how long i was going to make him wait, he just wanted to be close to me. I really didn't know how to reply, and just burst into to tears. He appologised but he just ended up making me feel really guilty about the whole thing.

    Anyway soon after that i took the boy's home and i havn't heard from him since :confused::cry:

    So this bloke has acted like a Saint to you - been really patient with you and the boys. He accepted your wishes of separate beds - then tried to make up and you push him away for the 4/5th time.
    You expect him to then contact you...jeesh sorry what do you expect from a man we do have feelings as well.
    Apologies if this is blunt but you are the one that needs to contact him and understand how he feels about being rejected again.
    Its not just an ego thing but just not very nice to be on the end of rejection no matter what the circumstance.
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