MSE Pregnancy Club IX

shellsuit

searching_me wrote: »

no shell i totally get where your coming from its the same with OH mum ... she thought id dupped her darling son (long story about zoe not getting in to) as soon as he starting living with me she kept calling him her number 1 son which is bull coz his brother was and still is favourite ... when he told her he said she had a look at the scan pic and seemed quite happy but theres been nothing but then again never heard anything from her away ive been with OH 10 years (on and off for the the first couple of years but soild since being pregnant with zoe) and never met or even spoken to her but you can mss what you never had x

At last someone I can relate to lol

I don't get how families can be like that. How can you not be happy for your child when they are over the moon??

My family is huge but we are all very close and would do anything for each other.

I'm wondering if we will even see his Dad and stepmum when I have the baby, because I've already told Steve that we are NOT gonna take the baby there, if they want to see him, they can come to us. (That goes for my family too by the way!)

money_maker_3

Mine thinks he has super sperm as I was on the pill both times !!!

greent

Sami_Bee wrote: »

:eek: have they offered to give you a full body x-ray once bubs is here - just in case? I couldn't believe it when my GP said she thought my cervix had grown over the strings _pale_ thank god she was wrong and they had just folded back on themselves! Hubby reckons his 'massive' manhood pushed 'em up there :rotfl:(in his dreams )

Forgot to say earlier - when I had mine I had the strings cut right off cos of my prolapse - they were just two sharp teeny tufts sticking out (and someties tehy were sticking right out, iykwim!:o) They said it was likely I'd need it removed under anaesthetic - thankfully older v experienced lady doc managed without. Because of my 'p' hubs was aware of the tiny strings that were there - possible food for thought if you do have a p, Sami.......

Ah, what our bodies go through to have these children......:p

greent
x

Sami_Bee

searching_me wrote: »

have all you lots OH have super sperm... swimming around with micro capes :rotfl: x

i know!! I thought we did well getting Chris from a one off risk and this one from getting jiggy 3 times until I came on here!:rotfl:

searching_me

shellsuit wrote: »

At last someone I can relate to lol

I don't get how families can be like that. How can you not be happy for your child when they are over the moon??

My family is huge but we are all very close and would do anything for each other.

I'm wondering if we will even see his Dad and stepmum when I have the baby, because I've already told Steve that we are NOT gonna take the baby there, if they want to see him, they can come to us. (That goes for my family too by the way!)

i only speak to 3 people in my family ...
OH's family is HUGE but he dont speak to many of them mainly on his dads side (his dad was in and out of his life) i get on really well with his sister and brother ...
his sister is really happy and his bro well you know young lads :rolleyes: but his mum .. nowt... we went down the other week be the last time he'd see his family for awhile (being as they're in london) and i went with him (mainly coz he was worried) and i swear she wasnt there just coz i was :rolleyes: o well her lose as i say i cant be bothered anymore x

Sami_Bee

greent wrote: »

Forgot to say earlier - when I had mine I had the strings cut right off cos of my prolapse - they were just two sharp teeny tufts sticking out (and someties tehy were sticking right out, iykwim!:o) They said it was likely I'd need it removed under anaesthetic - thankfully older v experienced lady doc managed without. Because of my 'p' hubs was aware of the tiny strings that were there - possible food for thought if you do have a p, Sami.......

Ah, what our bodies go through to have these children......:p

greent
x

ooh don't go scaring me like that I've got my physio referral sat next to me on the sofa ready to send off once I've given birth

Shell I'm the opposite, I'll bring baby to them when I'm ready :rotfl:
I hate people being in my house even my own mum I'm a bit bonkers

PS - just to add to my foof probs I nearly cut off the most important bit down there IYSWIM this morning :eek: that's the last time I trim myself - OH is getting that job now!!

searching_me

Sami_Bee wrote: »

i know!! I thought we did well getting Chris from a one off risk and this one from getting jiggy 3 times until I came on here!:rotfl:

took me and OH awhile to get knocked up i mean for the last 3-4 years of using nowt since i came off the depo and ive had one ectopic and this little bubs and thats it nothing else x

money_maker_3

We werent trying for either Jasmine or this one !!
And we were also told because of the medication that Chris was on and my colposcopy, we would find it very difficult to conceive

SugarSpun

My OH was thoroughly smug after the initial shock had worn off. I was concerned that I might be infertile given my history of not getting pregnant. No such concerns were necessary - our main concern now is how to avoid it for the few months after the Bellyfrog's born - I was at the end of my period when I got pregnant.

shellsuit

searching_me wrote: »

i only speak to 3 people in my family ...
OH's family is HUGE but he dont speak to many of them mainly on his dads side (his dad was in and out of his life) i get on really well with his sister and brother ...
his sister is really happy and his bro well you know young lads :rolleyes: but his mum .. nowt... we went down the other week be the last time he'd see his family for awhile (being as they're in london) and i went with him (mainly coz he was worried) and i swear she wasnt there just coz i was :rolleyes: o well her lose as i say i cant be bothered anymore x

Ignorant shower of shoites aren't they ~ your OHs & Steves parents I mean lol

Sod 'em - like you say, it's their loss!

Can't wait for our wedding next year....I'll have 100 there, Steve will have 3! (His Nan, Grandad and Brother) :rotfl::rotfl: