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MSE Pregnancy Club IX

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  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    have all you lots OH have super sperm... swimming around with micro capes :rotfl: x
    i know!! I thought we did well getting Chris from a one off risk and this one from getting jiggy 3 times until I came on here!:rotfl:
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
  • searching_me
    searching_me Posts: 18,414 Forumite
    shellsuit wrote: »
    At last someone I can relate to lol

    I don't get how families can be like that. How can you not be happy for your child when they are over the moon??

    My family is huge but we are all very close and would do anything for each other.

    I'm wondering if we will even see his Dad and stepmum when I have the baby, because I've already told Steve that we are NOT gonna take the baby there, if they want to see him, they can come to us. (That goes for my family too by the way!)

    i only speak to 3 people in my family ...
    OH's family is HUGE but he dont speak to many of them mainly on his dads side (his dad was in and out of his life) i get on really well with his sister and brother ...
    his sister is really happy and his bro well you know young lads :rolleyes: but his mum .. nowt... we went down the other week be the last time he'd see his family for awhile (being as they're in london) and i went with him (mainly coz he was worried) and i swear she wasnt there just coz i was :rolleyes: o well her lose as i say i cant be bothered anymore x
    :)Still searching .....:)
  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    edited 22 April 2009 at 9:55PM
    greent wrote: »
    Forgot to say earlier - when I had mine I had the strings cut right off cos of my prolapse - they were just two sharp teeny tufts sticking out (and someties tehy were sticking right out, iykwim!:o) They said it was likely I'd need it removed under anaesthetic - thankfully older v experienced lady doc managed without. Because of my 'p' hubs was aware of the tiny strings that were there - possible food for thought if you do have a p, Sami.......

    Ah, what our bodies go through to have these children......:p

    greent
    x
    ooh don't go scaring me like that :p I've got my physio referral sat next to me on the sofa ready to send off once I've given birth :D

    Shell I'm the opposite, I'll bring baby to them when I'm ready :rotfl:
    I hate people being in my house even my own mum :confused: I'm a bit bonkers

    PS - just to add to my foof probs I nearly cut off the most important bit down there IYSWIM this morning :eek: that's the last time I trim myself - OH is getting that job now!!
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
  • searching_me
    searching_me Posts: 18,414 Forumite
    Sami_Bee wrote: »
    i know!! I thought we did well getting Chris from a one off risk and this one from getting jiggy 3 times until I came on here!:rotfl:

    took me and OH awhile to get knocked up i mean for the last 3-4 years of using nowt since i came off the depo and ive had one ectopic and this little bubs and thats it nothing else x
    :)Still searching .....:)
  • money_maker_3
    money_maker_3 Posts: 9,591 Forumite
    Stoptober Survivor
    We werent trying for either Jasmine or this one !!
    And we were also told because of the medication that Chris was on and my colposcopy, we would find it very difficult to conceive
    The two best things I have done with my life
    :TDD 5/11/02 :j DS 17/6/09 :T
    STOPTOBER CHALLANGE ... here we go !!
  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    My OH was thoroughly smug after the initial shock had worn off. I was concerned that I might be infertile given my history of not getting pregnant. No such concerns were necessary - our main concern now is how to avoid it for the few months after the Bellyfrog's born - I was at the end of my period when I got pregnant.
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  • shellsuit
    shellsuit Posts: 24,749 Forumite
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    i only speak to 3 people in my family ...
    OH's family is HUGE but he dont speak to many of them mainly on his dads side (his dad was in and out of his life) i get on really well with his sister and brother ...
    his sister is really happy and his bro well you know young lads :rolleyes: but his mum .. nowt... we went down the other week be the last time he'd see his family for awhile (being as they're in london) and i went with him (mainly coz he was worried) and i swear she wasnt there just coz i was :rolleyes: o well her lose as i say i cant be bothered anymore x

    Ignorant shower of shoites aren't they ~ your OHs & Steves parents I mean lol

    Sod 'em - like you say, it's their loss!

    Can't wait for our wedding next year....I'll have 100 there, Steve will have 3! (His Nan, Grandad and Brother) :rotfl::rotfl:
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  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    SugarSpun wrote: »
    My OH was thoroughly smug after the initial shock had worn off. I was concerned that I might be infertile given my history of not getting pregnant. No such concerns were necessary - our main concern now is how to avoid it for the few months after the Bellyfrog's born - I was at the end of my period when I got pregnant.
    Have you ttc'd with previous partners? or just been a bit of a risk taker? (fee free to ignore if u don't wanna share)


    I know its a harsh view and my feelings are much more complex than this but I sometimes think that nature wins over and that's why some couples can't/don't get pregnant - at the end of the day we are animals and survival of the fittest, natural selection etc still influences our bodies
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
  • searching_me
    searching_me Posts: 18,414 Forumite
    shell thats my view ... but i use strong words :rotfl: x
    :)Still searching .....:)
  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    shellsuit wrote: »
    Ignorant shower of shoites aren't they ~ your OHs & Steves parents I mean lol

    Sod 'em - like you say, it's their loss!

    Can't wait for our wedding next year....I'll have 100 there, Steve will have 3! (His Nan, Grandad and Brother) :rotfl::rotfl:
    Aww my wedding (although much smaller) was like that, my family can't get it right first time :rolleyes: so I had 3 sets of grandparents, my parents, sister+OH
    Hubby had 1 Nan, 1 granddad, parents, brother+OH my friends had to sit on his side to even out the numbers :rotfl:
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
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