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  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    I don't know why I post on this site

    It is riddled with people who gang up on people when you talk about things that upset you or you get ignored.

    It really gets me down.

    This world sucks:(
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    CCStar wrote: »
    I don't know why I post on this site

    It is riddled with people who gang up on people when you talk about things that upset you or you get ignored.

    It really gets me down.

    This world sucks:(
    nobody gangs up on you, on this thread, everybody is nice to each other and tries to help. i haven't any good advice to give right now, as i am in a bad place yet again, tonight me an ian split up, and i'm heartbroken, still love him so much, but i will never ignore you and always here to listen

    shaz xxx
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    Tulip wrote: »
    Meet my adopted Monkey Cheeky

    1847-Small.ashx

    Adopted him from my Kelloggs cereal :) I had one code but let me put it in another two times,I notified Kelloggs but they said it was ok anyway so I am happy,my first animal Adoption :) got him from today till 5th November.


    *hugs* CCStar and Shaz.

    Katie
    hi katie, how are you?
    love the monkey, he's so cute

    shaz xxx
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    shazrobo wrote: »
    nobody gangs up on you, on this thread, everybody is nice to each other and tries to help. i haven't any good advice to give right now, as i am in a bad place yet again, tonight me an ian split up, and i'm heartbroken, still love him so much, but i will never ignore you and always here to listen

    shaz xxx
    I wasn't digging at you or anyone in particular

    I was referring to a thread I wrote about upping your income and asking why I had been sacked for no apparent reason.

    What is really bugging me is my OH - he is doing my head in

    I am sorry to hear about your break up but from what you wrote, he wasn't making you happy some of the time.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Tulip
    Tulip Posts: 29,324 Forumite
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    shazrobo wrote: »
    hi katie, how are you?
    love the monkey, he's so cute

    shaz xxx


    I am fine thanks Shaz,so Sorry to hear you and Ian have Split up.

    *hugs*

    Katie
  • Jo_R_2
    Jo_R_2 Posts: 2,660 Forumite
    Shaz

    So sorry to hear that - up to talking about what happened?

    Hugs
    Jo
    xxx
    Dealing with my debts!
    Currently overpaying Virgin cc -
    balance Jan 2010 @ 1985.65
    Now @ 703.63
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    I hate the cliques on this forum (not this thread)

    You ask for help, they are rude to you, then they gang up on you, just like school

    It makes me want to give up on life and die.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • geminilady
    geminilady Posts: 1,922 Forumite
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    Miroslav wrote: »
    I guess their is more than one sort of lonely.

    I have my flatmate to talk too about every day things, but the loneliness we talk about here is something which only a person you are in a relationship can offer.

    In my 2 previous relationships since my partner passing, I have felt very lonely in them.

    Forgive me for asking, but what became of the chap you used to text?

    Wow you have a long memory.We are still in touch but only occasionaly these days.Have excepted the fact that it is never going to be anything more but cannot bring myself to stop contact.He tends to text more when things go wrong,for example his last text was to tell me he had been made redundant.I suppose most people would say he is using me but it makes me feel needed and it is not in me to turn my back on him.
  • geminilady
    geminilady Posts: 1,922 Forumite
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    CCStar wrote: »
    I hate the cliques on this forum (not this thread)

    You ask for help, they are rude to you, then they gang up on you, just like school

    It makes me want to give up on life and die.

    CCStar The problem with other threads is unlike this one they are not a support thread so as in the the "real" world you will get people you percieve as rude and unhelpfull.Sorry you are so unhappy with your oh.I was in an unhappy marriage for twenty years which only ended when he met someone else.I stayed in the marriage for the same reasons as you partly financial but mostly because i wanted my children brought up by both parents but realise now that apart from the children i wasted twenty years and could have ended up wasting another twenty.Yes i am lonely but i was also lonely in the marriage and if i am honest i am happier now than i was in the marriage.
  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    Jo_R wrote: »
    Shaz

    So sorry to hear that - up to talking about what happened?

    Hugs
    Jo
    xxx
    told him face to face how i was feeling, he was silent and didnt say anything, there was an atmosphere, and i felt talking was getting nowhere except gettign myself upset, so i said is there any point, and he said no., so we parted ways
    we have texted since, so we'll see wat happens

    shaz xxx
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
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