Support for people with Depression

beachbeth

sh1305 wrote: »

I am debating whether I should tell them what's really wrong. How do I do this please? When I originally told my friend, (he actually read it somewhere and then comfronted me about it) he seemed to not understand at all.

So many people don't understand depression and think you are just being self indulgent. You get that "pull yourself together" and "what have you got to be depressed about?" attitude. Perhaps you could say you are seeing your doctor because of stress and you don't want to talk about it?

shazrobo

thought me and ian could stay friends, well we could have on his terms and conditions, eg nights out when it suits him, let him sleep over, told him no chance, and he told me he wont be bothering me again
feel like i been punched in stomach all over again
it hurts

sandy71

Would anyone mind if I joined in, I have said some stupid things on other threads and had some awful things said about me for no reason. I promise to behave in here.

I am feeling a bit lost at the moment and don't know where I fit in, either a lot of people have me on ignore or my posts are invisible:huh:

Hope it's ok.

shazrobo

hi sandy and welcome to the thread, we are a lovely bunch in here.
feeling bit lost in real life myself right now, so i kinda know how u feel
shaz x

sandy71

shazrobo wrote: »

hi sandy and welcome to the thread, we are a lovely bunch in here.
feeling bit lost in real life myself right now, so i kinda know how u feel
shaz x

Thank you for the welcome. I'm totally lost in real life but no one can help with that.
I have read some of your posts and you are having such a hard time, I hope things improve for you soon. x

shazrobo

sandy71 wrote: »

Thank you for the welcome. I'm totally lost in real life but no one can help with that.
I have read some of your posts and you are having such a hard time, I hope things improve for you soon. x

thanks sandy, have an appointment with cpn tommorrow, hopefully she can help me, been a tough few months here. reading your posts, i see you have a son with adhd too, its difficult isnt it?, i have two of them lol
hugs
shaz xxx

geminilady

shazrobo wrote: »

thought me and ian could stay friends, well we could have on his terms and conditions, eg nights out when it suits him, let him sleep over, told him no chance, and he told me he wont be bothering me again
feel like i been punched in stomach all over again

it hurts

((((((((((hug))))))))) Well done for not excepting his terms and conditions,you deserve better, keep telling yourself that and stay strong.I know your hurting but what are you really loosing?from what you have said he gave you none of the support that comes with a relationship and a relationship on his terms is worth less than nothing.Keep posting on here when you are down and i hope you get some help with the boys soon.

shazrobo

hi gemini, how are you hun?
from next week i am getting one night a week respite from the boys, both will be sleeping over at daniel's school. i was really looking forward to it, as me and ian were going to start going out more, turns out not to be the case, but will be nice to have some time to myself, once i get used to being by myself if you know what i mean.
hugs
shaz xxx

geminilady

shazrobo wrote: »

hi gemini, how are you hun?
from next week i am getting one night a week respite from the boys, both will be sleeping over at daniel's school. i was really looking forward to it, as me and ian were going to start going out more, turns out not to be the case, but will be nice to have some time to myself, once i get used to being by myself if you know what i mean.
hugs
shaz xxx

I am ok thanks,not looking forward to work tomorrow the weekend goes too fast.Great news about the respite,you should have a pamper night nice long bubble bath and a dvd with some chocolate, hope the respite i helps relieve the stress a little.

shazrobo

geminilady wrote: »

I am ok thanks,not looking forward to work tomorrow the weekend goes too fast.Great news about the respite,you should have a pamper night nice long bubble bath and a dvd with some chocolate, hope the respite i helps relieve the stress a little.

aww hoping the working week goes especially fast, just for you, and it'll be the weekend again soon xx