Support for people with Depression

shazrobo

i agree sazzy, christmas has become far too commercialised, i've really cut down on present buying this year, have hand knitted a few gifts too.
beginning to think wants to lead a single life as well as one of a couple lol
just taking it one day at a time, and see what happens. we are hoping to go to the coast on 21st this month, just for the night, as both boys on a school camp, so we can have a bit of quality time together.
he has said in a text today, that we dont seem to have fun together anymore, i pointed out it takes effort on both parts, and shopping this time of year, which we have been doing, does not appeal to me. i like the peace and quiet of the coast, i find it relaxing.
hugs all
shaz xxx

Tulip

:hello: Everyone,

Hope all is well,I am fine,went to see my boyfriend all day today and had a lovely day.Had coffee in cafe,then had a nice lunch together.Went to his place to decorate the xmas tree and had some time together and then I Went home.Hope you and Ian manage to sort things out Shaz.Its important to share the load.I have been travelling to see my boyfriend for last few weeks and now its his turn to do some travelling to see me

My relationship is going well as now its been 3 months We are just so happy together and I am still glad we met etc


Have a nice evening!

love and light,

Katie xxx

Sugar_Coated_Owl

Sorry I haven't been around much. Things have been very up and down with a couple of overdoses, hospital, crisis team, it has been a lot to deal with.

So how have you all been?

Shaz, I'm sorry to hear that things aren't going too well with you and Ian at the moment. I hope he starts treating you better and that things begin to improve. You deserve the best.

Katie, I'm so glad to hear you've found a nice man. It sounds like he makes you happy and you have a lot of fun together Where did you meet him?

Saz and Gem, how are you both?

*waves* to everyone else.

geminilady

razorbladekisses wrote: »

Sorry I haven't been around much. Things have been very up and down with a couple of overdoses, hospital, crisis team, it has been a lot to deal with.

So how have you all been?

Shaz, I'm sorry to hear that things aren't going too well with you and Ian at the moment. I hope he starts treating you better and that things begin to improve. You deserve the best.

Katie, I'm so glad to hear you've found a nice man. It sounds like he makes you happy and you have a lot of fun together Where did you meet him?

Saz and Gem, how are you both?

*waves* to everyone else.

RBK:hello: Hi,lovely to see you posting was wondering how you were,sorry you have been up and down hope things are looking better now.I am ok at the moment but had a few low times,bad mood swings which i think may be down to the menapause anyway i seem to have settled down for now and am looking forward to the christmas break.

shazrobo

hi rbk, lovely to see you posting, been wandering how you were. sorry to hear things been so up and down, hope you get the support you need, and things improve for you soon
big hugs
shaz xxx

Sazbo

Good morning everyone :hello: Well... I say good morning... I'm sat at my desk still trying to thaw out! It was so cold out first thing, and the tube driver hadn't put the heating on, so it was no warmer on the train either:rolleyes: Anyhoo - on the plus side this is the last horrible monday morning I'll have to do for 2 weeks! :j Just need to get through this week and then no work till 2010! Woop! :beer:

RBK - good to hear from you and big hugs xxx If it helps at all, I hope you know that you can post here anytime hun. We do care about you :kisses3: I'm not too bad, thank you for asking xx Looking forward to the xmas break, as you might have gathered! lol:o

Shaz - how are you today? FWIW, I think you were right to say to Ian that it takes effort on both parts. Who doesn't want to have fun in life, we all do, but relationships take work don't they, and committment from both sides. I know he's had problems with relationships in the past, but he needs to understand that it's not just about taking the fun stuff and leaving the rest. He can't cherry pick. He's not a kid anymore. Sorry Shaz hun if I'm speaking out of turn but it's just I want you to be happy. Feel free to ignore me, I don't mind:)

Hope everyone's doing ok.

Much love to all, have a good day
Sazzy xxxxxxxxxxxx

Miroslav

Just a quick hello.

I'll catch up when i'm in a better mood. Flatmate is being a pain and apparently i'm being unreasonable, but I think i'm not.

I hope you are all well and you are all set for Christmas, if entertaining the event.

Sazbo

Miroslav wrote: »

Just a quick hello.

Quick hello back :hello:

Sx

Sugar_Coated_Owl

Gem, Thank you Sorry to hear that you've been having a bad time too (((HUGS))) Hope things pick up for you. Have you got much time off over Christmas?

Shaz Thank you hun How are you feeling today?

Saz You're sounding far too happy for a Monday lol jk hun it's lovely to see you happy. I'm glad to hear you've got a nice break over Christmas and New Year. Are you going to be busy or will you have time to relax?

Hello Miro, hope to see you back here soon (((HUGS)))

shazrobo

afternoon all, feeling very tired and drained today. seen my cpn, we've spoken about a lot of things, and basically she thinks ian is taking me for a ride.
dont know if i've mentioned it on here before, but i told her, how i pay for all the holidays, days out, petrol, parking etc. and how he has his money to spend as he likes once his mortgage is paid every month.
anyway ian's reasoning, is it costs same wether he goes or not there are three of us(me and kids) and just one of him.
i'm on benefits, and he works, she thinks he should be contributing financially. my head feels really messed up, and i dont know what to think anymore. will try and get thru xmas and new year and see if anything changes. gotta go back and see her on thursday, as she is concerned about my state of mind right now.
how can you tell if a man is using you???
sorry for moaning, i do try and bottle up a lot, but then it just all comes out.
hugs all
shaz xxx