Support for people with Depression

shazrobo

geminilady wrote: »

Hi Shaz,Sorry Daniel is playing up,it must be frightening as i think you said they are both big lads.I know Daniel is on medication but isn't there any therapy/anger management sessions available?mabe he will be better tempered over christmas, has that been the case in previous years?

hi gemini lady, how are you hun?
daniel is 6 ft now and very strong, he has therapy and councilling and also does anger manage with youth offending team, he is on two types of meds, and most of the time he manages well, but on days like today, he totally lost it. think the long 2 weeks away from school, will be too much for him, he loves the routine and his friends there. try to do as much as i can at home but obviously school has more staff, at home there only me.
where you hiding tiff, its caturday, hope you are ok
hugs
shaz xxx

Miroslav

jenniewb wrote: »

Maybe shes sad after losing her friends (did they live together?) or could be the change in seasons- know when we had two cats at home we never really seemed to pay much attention to what they ate, jsut how they were together. To cut a long story short we had to separate them and they lived separatly. It was in spring when we did this, and noticed at Christmas they both reduced their food. Not sure why, they did it every year. Could be that they stop moving around as much so just don't eat as much to fuel that.
But I'd keep an eye on the tooth anyway;) hope it turns out ok.

Yes, they have been together all their lives. I think it is her mouth stopping her eating. She seems to be struggling, so it looks like a tooth out on Monday or Tuesday No guarantee that she'll start eating then either. At this rate she won't survive much longer. Fortunately she's bigger than the 2 I have already lost this year, which gives her a chance.

She's never been a big mover. She loves her sleep and less energy used as possible

shazrobo wrote: »

spoke too soon yesterday, daniel has been terrible this morning, was almost about to phone the police, he was so violent. he scares me. not looking forward to him being at home for two weeks.

Sorry to hear about your son. Is there anyone you can call on the weekend that is not the police?

geminilady wrote: »

Miro glad there is nothing major wrong with your cat let us know how he is,as someone said he may be missing your cats that passed if they have spent their lives together.

I'll let everyone know whatever happens. Really don't want to lose another so quickly. Just the thought makes me withdraw even further

shazrobo

there is no one else to phone apart from the police, ian at work til midnight tonight, and daniel is too powerful for my dad, danny is calm now, and not long til bedtime.
hope the cat starts eatign again soon
hugs
shaz x

Tulip

:hello: Everyone,

Morning! Hope all is well,I am off out for the day soon to my boyfriends dads house an I have to travel for nearly two hours.An hour from my home then half an hour to where his Dad lives.I am so looking forward to it and going to help my boyfriend wrap his xmas pressies as well so that will be a very productive day.

I have done half of todays advents and I will do the rest later when I get back but at least some are done.Hope Daniel is better behaved this morning for you Shaz.

Have a lovely day!


love and light,

Katie xxx

Horasio

Been busy shopping and doing Christmas jobs

My mum rang me on Thursday and we made up. She is going into hospital on the 21st so helping her out.

Feel tired with my odd sleep patterns tho.

The sun is out as I am writing this:)

geminilady

CCStar wrote: »

Been busy shopping and doing Christmas jobs

My mum rang me on Thursday and we made up. She is going into hospital on the 21st so helping her out.

Feel tired with my odd sleep patterns tho.

The sun is out as I am writing this:)

So glad you have made things up with your mum especially with christmas coming up.Will she be in hospital over christmas?

shazrobo

evening all, hope you had a lovely day at your boyfriends dad katie.
ccstar, glad to hear you made up with your mum
both kids have behaved today, me and ian took them shopping to meadowhall in sheffield, it was packed. when we came home we decorated the xmas tree, i love the lights on it.
hugs all
shaz xxx

Tulip

:hello: Everyone,

The Visit to my boyfriends dads went well yesterday afternoon thank you Shaz.Had a great time and we all had a nice chat,Not seeing my boyfriend until Saturday as we are both busy,I have a xmas dinner with friends tomorrow so I cancelled boyfriend coming to me today for the day.Hes got xmas dinner with work on Friday so I cant go to see him but I understand anyway and dont mind waiting one more day.

I am off now,

Night! Night!

love and light,

Katie xxx

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Ah friends you need sunshine...
Imagine you are here.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qWpylR22Nns

Hope this gives each and every one of you a lift, however black things feel right now.

According to The Times today, there were 34 million prescriptions for anti-depressants in the UK in 2007.

I am imagining all you lovely people who post here being transported bodily to live on a Carribbean Island, and am wondering whether you would be suffering from depression there.

Will post again soon! Love to all CB2X

Horasio

geminilady wrote: »

So glad you have made things up with your mum especially with christmas coming up.Will she be in hospital over christmas?

I think she is only in for one night and out for Christmas, provided all goes well