Pregnant and Hubby doesnt love me

fitzilian19

hi guys

still waiting to hear back from the solicitor.. he's agreed to pay the fees back to me so thats a little bit easier on my account... the paperwork came through for putting the mortgage on to interest only and he seems pretty keen to get his hands on it.
i'm holding it to ransom until the divorce fee is repaid.

they seem to be going strong - despite her 'not wanting him there'.. they went to italy last weekend. cute...(he's never have agreed to that with me)

her sister contacted me yesterday via facebook and we ended up on phone for an hour... she hasnt spoken to her since she found out cos her hubby did the same when she was pregnant and it resulted in a lot of problems with the pregnancy, including postnatal depression.

she and the family seem to think he is nothing more than a sperm-donor and they wont last.... seems a younger sister who is also a lesbian did the same thing in pursuit of a baby...

also been in contact with her ex.. she's taken it pretty badly and was made worse by an email she got from her telling all the gory details... how can someone be so hurtful?!?


feeling much more positive since been to see solicitor - had a great weekend away with my church and feel like i've made some wonderful friends - ones who dont know me as part of a couple...!

twinklie

Thats fantastic. Wow you sound really positive and happy. Well done you. You are amazing. I'm glad you are taking control of the situation and looking out for you and bean. And I'm glad you had a lovely weekend.

k2tog

Glad you're doing so well Fitz.

jha

fitzilian19 wrote: »

feeling much more positive since been to see solicitor - had a great weekend away with my church and feel like i've made some wonderful friends - ones who dont know me as part of a couple...!

Yay!!!:j:j:j Glad to hear you had a nice weekend:T:T

allIcouldwishfor

You are amazing Fitz - I take my hat off to you for the calm, dignified manner in which you have conducted yourself while you've been dealing with this situation. You are going to make the most fantastic mum! Glad you had a lovely Easter to boost your spirits.

Thriftysaver

Hi Fitzillian,

Not been on for a while. Just want to say well done with the solicitor. DO get that separate bank account. Don't trust him. Wish I was a fly on his wall when he gets your sols letter telling him how much he has to pay. Good luck.

Take care

Thriftysaver

fitzilian19

i got in contact with her ex girlfriend yesterday and she agreed to send me the email 'she' sent justifying what they had done... i'll post it on here 2mo (too late now - up in 6 hours for work) the fact she included her ex in the list of recipients shows her character wonderfully!

thanks for all the support guys.... you've been great

ailuro2

nah, don't do that, that's too much personal information - this is YOUR thread, for you to post when you are in need of support, don't get it closed off by including too much info.;)

aliasojo

I agree with ailuro. As much as my sheer nosiness would like to be satisfied ...it's not actually a very nice thing to do, posting a private email that was never even meant for your eyes, let alone millions of others.

fitzilian19

true... thanks...

i've shown it to a friend and he was very supportive... couldnt have read through it on my own as it made me go cold inside. bought back all the emotion from when he first told me...

it has proved i'm a much better person than both of them together and i know i'm going to be sooo much happier without him around.


spent some cash on baby clothes in debenhams today (extra 20% off reduced prices)... cheered me up a bit... got a little t-shirt that says 'my mummy rocks!' it's hard to find outfits that dont have things about mums and dads... so this was a treat and remind me that i do 'rock' and will be a much better parent to my baby because i can truely be myself and be happy...