Negative Paternity Test

monicaj

rachelle60 wrote: »

i have read on the csa website that if your husband has not contested paternity before then the money he has already paid to the csa, he will not get any of this back what they will do is cease the payments immediately until paternity is either confirmed or denied

We also understood that to be the case however we now understand differently from other cases and our discussions with the CSA. Of course time will tell.

steve9uk

It is a sad case, but to be honest, he needs to claim the money back.
Set up a DEO and see how they like it!!!

Sad still, good luck

monicaj

We have received a letter from the CSA this morning confirming their receipt of the DNA Report and that the case has now been closed.

Dancing_Shoes

MonicaJ - I really hope this can be the start of your healing process. What an awful wicked woman to decieve a child and the "father" for so long. It is my view that in these circumstances there should be very serious consequences and she should be made to pay back all the money owed to the CSA even if she can't afford it. After all that is the rule they apply to NRP's.

What an awful situation to be in I hope it gets better for you all (except the pwc) from now on;)

Blonde_Bint

Well said Steve, set up a DEO on the CSA and see how they like it. It should be done. And a ducking big monthly lump at that.

Dont worry about the PWC in this case shes getting hers right now DS. No more monthly maintenance for a start and no more yanking the contact strings. b*tch. plus sadly a child wanting answers.

I'm sorry monicaj this thread makes me really really mad. shes been theiving from you for years:mad:

monicaj

Sadly, right now I don't think this nightmare will ever end. I met with a friend today who told me that she had seen SS at the weekend. We are still finding it very difficult to handle that we have not seen him for over 5 months and he was not with us on holiday. I am embarrased to admit this, but whenever we go into our local town or any of the local supermarkets we now drive around the car park to see if "her" car is there - if it is, we promptly leave as we don't feel ready for a cold face to face encounter - both for ourselves and SS. I understand that one day we will no doubt unexpectedly meet and I guess we will just have to deal with it .................. horrid for my husband, his "son" ,DD and all his "family".

Apologies again, this post is not directly relating to Child Support, but more on the emotional side of our journey - sometimes we think everything will be ok, other days it completely overtakes us.

monicaj

Received a call from the CSA today asking for bank details to refund the monies. They have made their calculation and the refund will be made in 2 payments. First payment will be what was paid to the SOS (33%), approx 10 days later second payment will be what was paid to the "mother" (67%).

DUTR

monicaj wrote: »

Received a call from the CSA today asking for bank details to refund the monies. They have made their calculation and the refund will be made in 2 payments. First payment will be what was paid to the SOS (33%), approx 10 days later second payment will be what was paid to the "mother" (67%).

That is good news! The money and child issues are separate and it is the right thing to do to apply and take the refund.

hamilet

DUTR wrote: »

That is good news! The money and child issues are separate and it is the right thing to do to apply and take the refund.

Totally agree.

pd001

DUTR wrote: »

That is good news! The money and child issues are separate and it is the right thing to do to apply and take the refund.

Damn right it is!
Get it back in your bank asap