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  • monicaj
    monicaj Posts: 216 Forumite
    My husband lost his mother last night - a dear dear lady who adored her son and grandson. She was admitted to hospital on Thursday, diagnosed with terminal cancer at 3pm yesterday and passed away peacefully 6 hours later. Apologies for going off topic but just thinking how cruel life can be .....................
  • whitewing
    whitewing Posts: 11,852 Forumite
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    monica,

    So sorry that you and your husband have to contend with the loss of his mother, especially with everything else you're going through at the moment. Keep strong both of you, and remember to take time to grieve, and try and ensure you get the proper support. We're here too if you need anything x
    :heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.
  • wendy+5
    wendy+5 Posts: 342 Forumite
    I'm not in this situation, thankfully, but I just wanted to post and say how sorry I am. You and your husband really don't need this on top of everything else.

    Lots of love and strength.
  • Mips
    Mips Posts: 19,796 Forumite
    Scheming witch - very sad for all involved.

    Of course I would be furious and would want the money returned, but then if someone were to tell me my child was not really mine and I could face the prospect of never seeing the child again.... I would feel like my heart had been ripped out :(

    Sadly, I wonder how long it is before DNA tests are done before birth certificates can be signed!

    And sorry to the loss of your husbands Mother... at such a low point in his life :(
    :cool:
  • Blonde_Bint
    Blonde_Bint Posts: 1,262 Forumite
    Scheming witch - very sad for all involved.

    sorry to the loss of your husbands Mother... at such a low point in his life

    Monica, this is my first post and I would just like to say that I echo the above sentiments 100% please try to keep it together when you get the results and remember at the time you wont feel up to the job but for me you must hound the CSA for every penny that they owe you. IT IS YOUR MONEY NOT THE CSA's

    I want you to know that there is someone out there hoping the best for you x

    btw everyone I have an interest in matters CSA and contact etc I am a NPRR dont know if thats right initials lol my husband has a child with his ex girlfriend so what does that make me:confused: we had very rough years all is quiet for now touch wood. just so you dont think i'm some weirdo or something:o
  • Zara33
    Zara33 Posts: 5,441 Forumite
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    btw everyone I have an interest in matters CSA and contact etc I am a NPRR dont know if thats right initials lol my husband has a child with his ex girlfriend so what does that make me:confused: we had very rough years all is quiet for now touch wood. just so you dont think i'm some weirdo or something:o
    NRPP=Non Resident parent partner
    Hit the snitch button!
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  • Blonde_Bint
    Blonde_Bint Posts: 1,262 Forumite
    Thank you

    whats OP?
    and how do you get the piece of text you copied from another post to look different to the text you are typing. when I copied it, it just looked like I had typed it myself. lol.
  • Zara33
    Zara33 Posts: 5,441 Forumite
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    Thank you

    whats OP?
    and how do you get the piece of text you copied from another post to look different to the text you are typing. when I copied it, it just looked like I had typed it myself. lol.
    ;) Press the quote button right hand corner of the post.

    OP = other poster or opening post.
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  • kelloggs36
    kelloggs36 Posts: 7,712 Forumite
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    i thought it meant original poster
  • hamilet
    hamilet Posts: 23 Forumite
    monicaj wrote: »
    My husband lost his mother last night - a dear dear lady who adored her son and grandson. She was admitted to hospital on Thursday, diagnosed with terminal cancer at 3pm yesterday and passed away peacefully 6 hours later. Apologies for going off topic but just thinking how cruel life can be .....................

    My thoughts go out to you, your husband and stepson at this dreadful time. Best wishes.
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