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  • absolutebounder
    absolutebounder Posts: 20,305 Forumite
    robwend wrote: »
    a question for you guys, when you feel suicidle, what stops you from carrying out your wishes? and when you dont follow it through for what ever reason you talk yourself out of it, do you regret not being brave enough to do it?
    Your unconcious mind stops you because one of its jobs is to protect you. However when that part of the mind sees suicide as protection from something worse or suffering more then you have a real suicide on your hands rather than a cry for help or attention.
    Who I am is not important. What I do is.
  • La-Cara
    La-Cara Posts: 915 Forumite
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    so quiet on here today! hope everyone is as well as they can be.

    I've spent most of my weekend crying and alone, but what's new :cry:

    xx
  • absolutebounder
    absolutebounder Posts: 20,305 Forumite
    La-Cara wrote: »
    so quiet on here today! hope everyone is as well as they can be.

    I've spent most of my weekend crying and alone, but what's new :cry:

    xx
    It is quiet isnt it. What makes you cry?
    Who I am is not important. What I do is.
  • La-Cara
    La-Cara Posts: 915 Forumite
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    absolutebounder wrote: »
    It is quiet isnt it. What makes you cry?
    just knowing that I'm completely on my own, with no-one to try and help me through this. Used to have loads of friends now I have none. I have nothing to do at weekends because I don't enjoy doing anything any more
  • absolutebounder
    absolutebounder Posts: 20,305 Forumite
    La-Cara wrote: »
    just knowing that I'm completely on my own, with no-one to try and help me through this. Used to have loads of friends now I have none. I have nothing to do at weekends because I don't enjoy doing anything any more
    Are you saying there is absolutely nothing you would like to do at the weekend?
    Who I am is not important. What I do is.
  • Sssssss
    Sssssss Posts: 1,094 Forumite
    La-Cara wrote: »
    just knowing that I'm completely on my own, with no-one to try and help me through this. Used to have loads of friends now I have none. I have nothing to do at weekends because I don't enjoy doing anything any more

    Hi, hope today is a better day for you. I felt just like this a few years ago and really thought it would never get better, but it does and it did. Yesterday the sun was out maybe that's why it was so quiet.

    Hopefully you won't feel like this again but if you do I find a nice hot shower helps, I see it as washing away all the depression and then maybe a walk to get some fresh air.

    I also went through the stage where I had no friends, but you don't need loads just one or two who are close and care and understand.

    Take care Sssssss.
  • upsetonerightnow
    upsetonerightnow Posts: 100 Forumite
    Morning everyone!

    I was out all day yesterday paint shopping with my mum and last night I went to see Michael Mcintyre in manchester.

    I felt really down last night thinking it was a week since I've seen my ex and how it would of been an even better night with him instead of the friend I took with me. I still feel down this morning and I really want to txt him but I'm not going to. I managed to eat a sausage yesterday thats been it since last saturday I've lost over a stone in weight in a week. I just want him back even though he has really hurt me. I feel so stupid.

    I hope your all ok today and have a nice day

    Love hugs and kisses

    xxxx
  • absolutebounder
    absolutebounder Posts: 20,305 Forumite
    upsetonerightnow wrote: »
    I felt really down last night thinking it was a week since I've seen my ex and how it would of been an even better night with him instead of the friend I took with me. I still feel down this morning and I really want to txt him but I'm not going to. I managed to eat a sausage yesterday thats been it since last saturday I've lost over a stone in weight in a week. I just want him back even though he has really hurt me. I feel so stupid.

    I hope your all ok today and have a nice day

    Love hugs and kisses

    xxxx
    How would going to a show with someone who no longer wants tio be with you be better than going with your friend?:confused: . What you are fearing is change buit whether one likes it or not change happens and those who accept it get on best.
    I know you miss him but he is in the past, happened etc It takes two to make a good relationship and if one doesnt want to be there then you have to accept its not going to be good.
    Instead of thinking about the past why not think about the nice bloke you will meet this week
    Who I am is not important. What I do is.
  • rosepink1984
    rosepink1984 Posts: 2,753 Forumite
    Upsetrightnow, please go and eat something as soon as you see this message. You really need to look after yourself. Starving yourself won't bring him back. Please eat sweetheart, I'm really worrying about you.
    "Snowflakes are one of nature's most fragile things, but just look what they can do when they stick together."
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    Weight lost since 9 June 2009: [STRIKE]5.5[/STRIKE] 6 lbs
  • La-Cara
    La-Cara Posts: 915 Forumite
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    just found this thread on another board- made me so angry!! :mad:

    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=1542647
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