Depression Support Thread

upsetonerightnow

whitevanwoman wrote: »

Thanks for the choc - mmmmm!:j Did they come from him?

No I bought them I wouldn't poison you with stuff off that f****r. This morning I'm trying to be strong one minute I want him the next I don't. I didn't sleep too good either I just feel so sick

Thanks for all of your messages.

How are you all this morning?? :beer:

Sugar_Coated_Owl

Enjoy your day katie

beachbeth

So sorry to hear about whats happened, upsetonerightnow. I think you need a proper talk with him to find out what has gone on. It is hard to come to terms with if you don't understand why he feels this way.

Hugs for you - :grouphug:

upsetonerightnow

I went to the doctors this morning because I needed another prescription for my pill. The nurse weighed me and I've lost half a stone in 5 days

He doesn't want to see me or talk to me I guess thats because he's lying and is feeling guilty. It's lying that got us here in the first place. So I guess I just have to keep on wondering. I know if I don't txt him or ring him that he will txt in a few days to see how I am well thats what normally happens

rosepink1984

Upsetrightnow, I'm so sorry to hear your news. It really sounds like you are better off without him. I'm sure he did love you during your time together, people say things they don't mean during an argument, especially if they are embarrased or feeling guilty. Keep strong, you can get through this.
Please try to eat something, if you neglect your body it will make you feel a lot worse emotionally. Try to have something like banana on toast or something you fancy. It will make you feel a bit better to eat something.
Maybe it would be a good idea to see your GP and let them know you are going through a tough time.
Keep in touch with us all, we are here to support you

beachbeth

rosepink1984 wrote: »

Keep in touch with us all, we are here to support you

Definitely. I second that! Just offload here - there are plenty of sympathetic people here.

Im a bit tearful. I keep thinking about my lovely dog that died at the end of January and Im beating myself up about the fact that I couldn't be with her when she died. It was unexpected that she died at the vets and I thought I would be going to see her the next day. It absolutely kills me that she died there on her own and not with me.

Im having a glass of red to perk myself up and will be alright in a bit but she was such a special dog and didn't deserve to die on her own. I keep telling myself that these things are often taken out of our hands and I didn't do it on purpose but I really miss her.

upsetonerightnow

beachbeth wrote: »

Definitely. I second that! Just offload here - there are plenty of sympathetic people here.

Im a bit tearful. I keep thinking about my lovely dog that died at the end of January and Im beating myself up about the fact that I couldn't be with her when she died. It was unexpected that she died at the vets and I thought I would be going to see her the next day. It absolutely kills me that she died there on her own and not with me.

Im having a glass of red to perk myself up and will be alright in a bit but she was such a special dog and didn't deserve to die on her own. I keep telling myself that these things are often taken out of our hands and I didn't do it on purpose but I really miss her.

Oh hunny I'm so sorry to hear about your dog Thats made me feel worse about me sprouting on about random tripe.

Don't beat yourself up about it she probably did it to stop you from hurting as much. I know of a woman who was dying from cancer her husband sat by her side 24/7 for weeks the nurses eventually persuaded him to leave for a hour to get a shower ect ect by the time he got home he had a phone call from the hospital that his wife had just died. I think she held on until he had left.

She wasn't on her own she probably had a doggy spirit come for her. I'm sure she is sat with you right now thinking cheer up just because you can't see her doesn't mean she isn't there.

Hugs and kisses :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:

beachbeth

Thanks for that reply, upsetonerightnow. I don't think what you have been talking about is tripe - all these things upset us in different ways, whether its an actual death or death of a relationship. I don't think that how I feel is worse than how you feel, its just different.

Hang in there - there are lovely people here on this board and I won't be the only sympathetic one for you too.

Thank you for your words about her doing it to spare my hurt - this has crossed my mind too because she was that sort of dog! Its comforting for someone else to say the same thing. Hopefully she is being treated like a queen wherever she is and can just wait for the day when I can join her.

Sorry if thats soppy to some people but its a comfort to think they have gone to a better place.

upsetonerightnow

beachbeth wrote: »

Thanks for that reply, upsetonerightnow. I don't think what you have been talking about is tripe - all these things upset us in different ways, whether its an actual death or death of a relationship. I don't think that how I feel is worse than how you feel, its just different.

Hang in there - there are lovely people here on this board and I won't be the only sympathetic one for you too.

Thank you for your words about her doing it to spare my hurt - this has crossed my mind too because she was that sort of dog! Its comforting for someone else to say the same thing. Hopefully she is being treated like a queen wherever she is and can just wait for the day when I can join her.

Sorry if thats soppy to some people but its a comfort to think they have gone to a better place.

I know what you mean though I have a dog and just over a year ago she had cancer I cried my eyes out when I found out. But she is still alive I'm scared of that day coming where she leaves me. Sometimes I feel like she's the only one who understands me

Sugar_Coated_Owl

Awww beachbeth what about the times you were there for her, you gave her food, water, walked her, cared for her I'm sure she was a very happy dog and pleased she got you as her owner. I know it's hard but try to remember happy times xxx