Depression Support Thread

upsetonerightnow

I gave 110% to the relationship and I feel like I have got nothing back

I can't face anything I've got easter eggs sat there that I've not touched and that is so not like me!

I wonder what I've done so wrong for me to be treated like this but I can't think of anything!

I've been hurt like this before and got over it but that relationship wasn't as long as this one has been.

I don't see how you can be with someone for 2 years and not love him

Thankyou for your kind reply it's made me feel a little better

xxxx

BlueAngelCV

upsetonerightnow - I am sorry things aren't working out but from what you've said in another thread I honestly think you're better off without him.
I know it seems hard now and nothing we say is really going to make you feel any better but you are young and you will find somone who is right for you (and probably have some fun trying to find him!)

upsetonerightnow

I did honestly think he was Mr Right but now he's treated me like that he isn't the person I thought he was. I think I should be on my own for a while. I'm trying to get on with things, My mum keeps saying he will come back but I'm not so sure. So in the mean time I'm getting on with it and if he gets in touch he gets in touch, if he doesn't he doesn't

whitevanwoman

upsetonerightnow wrote: »

I gave 110% to the relationship and I feel like I have got nothing back

I can't face anything I've got easter eggs sat there that I've not touched and that is so not like me! Where?! Let me at them! I would murder for some chocolate right now!
:EasterBun

I wonder what I've done so wrong for me to be treated like this but I can't think of anything! That's probably because you haven't done anything wrong. The way people treat you is a reflection on them, not on you. Hold your head up high - it sounds to me like you're better out of this relationship, and by walking away with your head held high, it's demonstrating just how strong you are. And you are!

I've been hurt like this before and got over it but that relationship wasn't as long as this one has been. You will get through this too, although it might take longer than last time.

I don't see how you can be with someone for 2 years and not love him Like I said before, I'm no relationship expert, but I do believe that people can love each other but just not be able to be together. And sometimes what people think is love turns out, much later in life, never to have been the real thing. And even truly broken hearts do mend - mine has, OK - it's taken a good few years but I got over my ex (eventually).

Thankyou for your kind reply it's made me feel a little better

xxxx

Glad you're feeling a bit better
:grouphug:I hope everyone else joins in with this group hug for you x

upsetonerightnow

You can have the easter eggs if you want they are no good to me at the moment its a cadburys buttons one and a kit kat chunky one

He had said to me on friday that he was in love with me how could he say that if he didn't mean it. In his valentines card he put "I love you all of it and more all my love"

xxx

whitevanwoman

upsetonerightnow wrote: »

You can have the easter eggs if you want they are no good to me at the moment its a cadburys buttons one and a kit kat chunky one

Thanks for the choc - mmmmm!:j Did they come from him?

upsetonerightnow wrote: »

He had said to me on friday that he was in love with me how could he say that if he didn't mean it. In his valentines card he put "I love you all of it and more all my love"

xxx

I don't know sweetie but then I never did understand men very well. Perhaps he was just not strong enough to be honest with you.

Sugar_Coated_Owl

upsetonerightnow, I'm sorry to hear about what has happened. I don't know the ins and outs of it all but I'm sending you a (((HUG))) feel free to rant. There are lots of us here willing to listen and offer advice. I hope you manage to get some sleep tonight. xxx

Tulip

:hello: upsetonerightnow,

I am so sorry to hear about your news,thinking of you,sorry cant advise much *hugs* Just be strong and come here often,we are all here for you.

Katie

Tulip

:hello: Everyone,

Morning! hope all is well,I am fine today,I am off to see friends in Exeter because today is Comic Relief day where we have fun and raise money at the same time.It will be great and I will have my new t-shirt on,my red wig,facepainted face and red nose.Have a lovely day everyone.

love and light,

Katie xxx

shazrobo

Tulip wrote: »

:hello: Everyone,

Morning! hope all is well,I am fine today,I am off to see friends in Exeter because today is Comic Relief day where we have fun and raise money at the same time.It will be great and I will have my new t-shirt on,my red wig,facepainted face and red nose.Have a lovely day everyone.

love and light,

Katie xxx

sounds like fun katie, have a brilliant day, and hope you raise lots, for a very worthwhile cause

hugs
shaz xxx