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Weekly Flylady Thread 5th January 2009

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  • Beccah_3
    Beccah_3 Posts: 213 Forumite
    Afternoon all., hope everyone is having a good day...despite the freezing, skanky weather.
    Methinks my appliances are taunting me at the mo....the TD died a couple of weeks ago and now the fridge seems to be on the blink...deep joy!

    Thursday - Master bedsty & landing

    Level One
    Strip the bedsheets and wash them!Done this morning and bed was remade at 1 am :eek:
    15 minutes floordrobe clearanceNothing to clear as dad keeps it tidy...methinks that gene must have gotten lost somewhere!
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]Vacuum the floor you can see in the bedroom and on the landing!-Going to do in the morning[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Fill a binbag with stuff you no longer need and get rid!-Have to take the christmas deccie boxes downstairs and finish taking everything down[/STRIKE]Still in the midst of doing this....cannot believe the number of baubles and tree ornaments that we put up this year.
    [STRIKE]15 minutes filing (special for Jennybee who has lots!!)Will attack my pile of shredding[/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    Wash any soft furnishing that need it
    [STRIKE]HH doing something that NEEDS doing..study, ironing, exercise.. GO![/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Empty any bins and take any laundry to the wash basket[/STRIKE]
    Extras
    1. Wash dirty windows
    2. d[STRIKE]ust away all the cobwebs and dust[/STRIKE]
    3. [STRIKE]Wipe all the upstairs doors! .. both sides!![/STRIKE]
    4. [STRIKE]straighten the linen cupboard![/STRIKE]
    5. [STRIKE]Finish taking down deccies[/STRIKE]Almost there[STRIKE][/STRIKE]
    6. [STRIKE]Hoover through down stairs[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Plump sofa cushions and rearrange throws
    [/STRIKE]
    Sanity is the playground of the unimaginative!


  • Gryfon wrote: »
    pigpen...some people are so roode!

    Ok tell me if I've over reacted to this. I was clearing our room and in DD2's pillowcase which she had her presents in were some chocolates she hadn't got out. So I got them out and left them on the bed so I could put the case in the wash. Children come home and go upstairs to get changed and I hear DS shouting about chocolate. So up I go to find he'd opened one packet and given something to DD1 who'd already eaten it! I've told them I'm not happy as it was DD2s chocolate and they should know by now to ask, now she has to go without , ok she'll never notice but that's not the point. They've been sent to their rooms whilst I think what to do, any ideas? I'm just so fed up of being ignored, answered back, told no all the time and them completely undermining any authority I have! Ok they're not violent, are polite to people etc but at home it's a nightmare and half the time I dread them coming home and not listening to me.

    Definately agree with only making threats that you will carry out. DD1 went through a phase of lying all the time when she was about 4. After everything else not working we changed tactics. We sat her down and said that everytime she told a lie she would not get pudding at the next mealtime. So this is what happened and she soon learnt. It was better as well because I felt that I didn't have to shout at her for it just say, Ok, no pudding at tea time. It didn't take long for it to stop. But I think you have to find what pushes their buttons. Pudding did it for DD1, might be watching TV, story at bedtime, no computer games. HTH
  • gunsandbanjos
    gunsandbanjos Posts: 12,246 Forumite
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    pigpen wrote: »
    We are having loads of bed time issues at the moment.. I am letting it ride until we are properly back in routine.. then I'm having MAJOR crack down.. starting.. Sunday!
    That is the one thing i am so grateful for, LO loves her sleep! 7pm(sometimes earlier:D ) Not a peep from her after that, unless she is ill. I also have to wake her for school in the morning:p Couldnt be doing with her yo-yoing, evenings are my time, especially when i'm busy at uni.
    The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt.
    Bertrand Russell
  • toochoosey
    toochoosey Posts: 7,371 Forumite
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    Thursday - Master bedsty & landing

    Level Two
    Vacuum the floor you can see in the bedroom and on the landing!

    Level Three
    HH doing something that NEEDS doing..study, ironing, exercise.. GO!
    Extras
    1. Wash dirty windows
    2. dust away all the cobwebs and dust
    3. Wipe all the upstairs doors! .. both sides!!
    4. straighten the linen cupboard!
    Friday - Spare rooms and kiddies rooms
    Level One
    Strip the bedsheets and wash them!
    15 minutes floordrobe clearance
    Level Two
    Vacuum the floor you can see
    Fill a binbag with stuff you no longer need and get rid!
    HHI .. catch up!!
    Level Three
    Drag all the tat from under the bed and put it in its rightful places
    Straighten books shelves/games etc
    Extras
    1. Wash dirty windows
    2. dust away all the cobwebs and dust
    3. dust shelves and light fittings etc

    Still need to do behind the telly and chair, but my mother is due and I WILL NOT have people walk on my wet floor!!!
  • ZLS1984
    ZLS1984 Posts: 1,246 Forumite
    Hi, I think I have actually finished my list, decided against the kitchen, thanks to poster that pointed out Kitchen is Tuesday.

    I have just made tea it is in the oven cooking, I have made breaded chicken with potatoe chunks. All is seasoned so that it has some flavour.
    :wave: Wins in 09 = A vodka cocktail kit thing lol, £150 Amazon voucher.
  • indigostar
    indigostar Posts: 239 Forumite
    no playstation/computer time works a treat here!
    I also reward great behaviour with what DS likes best as soon as poss, like say he does voluntary work and is a star at it, he'll get comp time, even if it is late at night, cos he's spent what would have been comp time volunteering.
    Normally he would have to wait for a good time later in the week, not late at night!
    smoke-free since Aug 2003 :j JDWilliams [strike]£479.55 [/strike] [strike]£417.92[/strike] [STRIKE]£318.33[/STRIKE] £0.00 :D:T
    NSD in Feb 1 so far Ambrose Wilson [strike]£464.49[/strike] [strike]£422.76[/strike] £405.11
    FLYBABY WANNABE :A Simply Be [strike]£705.74[/strike] [strike]£681.92[/strike] £637.62
  • Gryfon
    Gryfon Posts: 1,304 Forumite
    The trouble with my kids is that you say they won't have something and they say "ok" :mad: :rolleyes: :rotfl:
    Fluttering about an inch off the ground, I may fly properly one day and soar in the clouds!

    SPC2 #571 - trying to get as much as possible
  • indigostar
    indigostar Posts: 239 Forumite
    you have to find their thing they can't bear to loose then lol
    smoke-free since Aug 2003 :j JDWilliams [strike]£479.55 [/strike] [strike]£417.92[/strike] [STRIKE]£318.33[/STRIKE] £0.00 :D:T
    NSD in Feb 1 so far Ambrose Wilson [strike]£464.49[/strike] [strike]£422.76[/strike] £405.11
    FLYBABY WANNABE :A Simply Be [strike]£705.74[/strike] [strike]£681.92[/strike] £637.62
  • indigostar
    indigostar Posts: 239 Forumite
    i think it gets easier as they get older, but then I've yet to go through teenage years.....13 in may, yikes!!
    smoke-free since Aug 2003 :j JDWilliams [strike]£479.55 [/strike] [strike]£417.92[/strike] [STRIKE]£318.33[/STRIKE] £0.00 :D:T
    NSD in Feb 1 so far Ambrose Wilson [strike]£464.49[/strike] [strike]£422.76[/strike] £405.11
    FLYBABY WANNABE :A Simply Be [strike]£705.74[/strike] [strike]£681.92[/strike] £637.62
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    indigostar wrote: »
    you have to find their thing they can't bear to loose then lol

    Like desserts.. or new things.. or birthday parties (theirs or others).. or visits to grandmas.. friends over.. etc.. there is ALWAYS something.

    There is also the coin one..

    They have 5x5p's each day .. every time they are naughty a 5p is taken away, if they do something good they get is back.. at the end of the week what remains is theirs and can buy a treat!
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