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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 2

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  • 17/23 for me NTC.
    ...nothing to see here...
  • noynoy
    noynoy Posts: 380 Forumite
    fedup..id offer to be the non drinker and drop people off..that way you wont drink but the next day you will have the pleasure of waking up fresh as a daisy no hangover and having a wonderful weekend to look forward to whilet you colleges wake up feeling rough as a badgers armpit , queasy wasting what hopefully will be a wonderful weekend wether wise..trying to remeber (and probobly failing )if the embaressed themsleves in frount of co workers last night or not..and you can sit there smug like knowing exactly what they did get up to ha ha ha good luck whatever you decide

    is it odd now im starting to actually go off alchol? like i dont want a glass of wine anymore?

    so another af day for me 10/31 thanks x

    hope you all have a smashing day xx
    total debt 4711.00 at lbm (4217.31) dfd aug 2012 :eek: overdraft 800 (400.00) kill overdraft first, loan 1500.00 ,creditcard 2411.00
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Good Morning Everyone,
    Hope you are all ok.

    Fedupandskint ...Go for number one on your list.You really can have a good time without getting drunk.Just keep in mind the hangover you are avoiding.It is nearly a year now since I had a drink but I can still remember the last hangover very clearly.......it was during this that I made the decision never to drink again.
    Waking up with a clear head and a lovely sunny day ahead of you is a much nicer feeling than drinking alcochol!!!!

    Welcome to the thread barneydee and good luck with cutting down/giving up.

    Budgetbabe ...thanks for your posts..you put alot of time and effort into them, and always seem to remember everyone in them....dont know how you do it;)

    Jo ......Hope you are ok and still hanging in there.

    Lots of peeps missing on here...Lurky,BHB,GP, YM,Shoppy etc....Where are you all:confused:

    Take care everyone and have a good day.
    Love Mollypollyxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • fluffyb
    fluffyb Posts: 1,025 Forumite
    Hello and welcome barneydee :D

    I am sure you will find this thread helpful. I am quite new myself and never thought I would manage even 1 day AF on my first month joining the challenge [this month] I envisaged myself quietly scurrying away with my head hanging in shame never to be heard of in here again :rotfl: But, I have exceeded my low target I set for myself because my pride wouldn't let me fail :D :rolleyes: ;)

    I understand what you are going through with your daughter and it doesn't help at all and makes you need a drink sometimes!!! One of my three was what I called 'a wild child' for want of a better expression. He put us through years of hell and stress, but is now 25, got a mortgage, a dog and cat, got engaged recently, and is happier in B&Q buying things to do his little house up with than going out on the tiles all night :T The light at the end of the tunnel is there but sometimes it feels as if it is a long time coming :confused:

    Good luck with the cutting down :D
  • The Mad as March Hares AFM Challenge



    Day 24 in the AFM House.

    Who succeeds? We decide:D


    115k 15/31 8/31
    ad1jnl 25/31 18/31
    betty_blue 15/31 5/31
    bismarck 31/31 23/31
    boysma 25/31 8/31
    budget babe 31/31 23/31
    eselt 31/31 23/31
    esther mcvittie18/31 10/31
    fayjmck 26/31 16/31
    fedupandskint24/31 16/31
    fluffybishop 8/31 12/31 Target exceeded :j
    glasgowgirl 19/31 9/31
    happyshopper20/31 17/31
    jo1972 31/31 19/31
    lurkio18/31 12/31
    maman 12/31 9/31
    miss piggy31/31 22/31
    mollypolly 31/31 23/31
    ms_london 31/31 11/31
    needstochange 16/31 12/31
    nessa 56 15/31 1/31
    noy noy 26/31 10/31
    ophelia_10 24/31 12/31
    Sea78 20/31 9/31
    stroppy 10/31 3/31
    the rugby coach no target set 8/31
    **upsydaisy** 13/31 6/31
    wannabefree 16/31 4/31
    winebox 16/31 4/31

    No of days pledged = 558
    Actual = 357
    29th Feb Quit Day :j
  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite
    mollypolly wrote: »
    Lots of peeps missing on here...Lurky,BHB,GP, YM,Shoppy etc....Where are you all:confused:

    :hello: :hello:

    Reporting in..... 12 and 10 please, sis ;) We're threatening to hit the jumpy target this month :D:D

    Welcome barneydee - you will find good support and advice from this lot (and a load of old nonsense from me :))

    fuas - Number 1..... Think of something to tell them why you HAVE to drive if you need to.... but you can have a good time without the demon drink ;)

    I will echo what molly and gc say, budgie. you take a lot of time to mention (and keep up with) people on here. well done! Always a kind word for everyone. Thanks x

    Hi to everyone else :wave: - hope you are all doing well :D

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
  • spider125
    spider125 Posts: 118 Forumite
    sorry to jump in here, I found I was drinking about 1-2 botts of wine after work each night!!! stress of work and habit (excuses) then one evening i dint have enough and no wine in house so I drank orange cordial in my wine glass and realised it wasnt wine i wanted just a drink(?) I havent touched wine now for 6 weeks despite a bttl in fridge, the odd can of lager at weekend now gives me a hangover!! am I on the verge of TT ( also lost 1/2 stone in weight so I am happy!!!!!!)
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    :hello: :hello: Hiya Lurky...well done....go for the jumpies;)

    Welcome spider and well done on cutting down...and the weight loss:T :T

    Keep forgetting to say...NTC ...you are doing a grand job with the scoring:D

    Love Mollypollyxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • Welcome BarneyDee and Spider :hello: :hello:

    Hi to everyone else - am being overlooked at work so have to read and run

    Another one in the bag - now up to 6 AFD's

    I'll try to get back on later

    UD XX
    Total debt at 01/01/2010 £34,262 (Excludes mega mortgage) Daily interest £12.42
    02/10 Now £3.12 due to repayments, BT and :money:
    Olympic challenge £5081/£28,000 (18.15%)
    Aim to lose 35 lbs from 01/01/2010 to 30/06/10 9.5/35
    1 debt in 100 days £2886/£3839
  • Just wanted to nip on and echo what everyone is saying about you Budgie I love reading your posts you are so thoughtful and caring. Hope amist all of the care for others you take care of yourself too. I believe we have a BBBB birthday coming up? Ginger beer party specially for you;) ;) (btw my mum loved her lunch thank you it was hard work but very very worthwhile:D )

    Ta mollypolly :A bet you are excited about your anniversary now

    Welcome to all the new faces. Good to hear some real success stories.
    29th Feb Quit Day :j
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