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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 2

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  • ad1jnl
    ad1jnl Posts: 111 Forumite
    Whoops - ended up going out last night so no AFD yesterday - daft thing is I didn't really enjoy it and wish I hadn't bothered. Still I got plenty exercise in and drank less than I normally would. Starting to really believe I'd be better of going Teetotal though

    Jon
    DMP mutual support thread member: 275
    Total Unsecured debt = £18,835
    A & L Personal Loan - £10,000, Student Loan - £6500, Parental Loan - £2335
  • boysma
    boysma Posts: 828 Forumite
    Hi NTC and everyone

    Can you put me down for 7 AF days please (Saturday & Sunday). Was out on Friday night with a friend and had far too much to drink so felt really poorly yesterday. Going to try for AF days for the rest of this week now as am totally mortified, even started a row with my best friend because she wanted to get me home safely!:o I suppose i'm not used to going out as DH and I normally just have a drink in front of the telly but its a very poor excuse really.
    Payment A Day £15 (started 17/5/14) :j
  • boysma
    boysma Posts: 828 Forumite
    Me again NTC - sorry that should be 8 AF days altogether - just checked my signature.
    Payment A Day £15 (started 17/5/14) :j
  • budget_babe
    budget_babe Posts: 1,633 Forumite
    Hi everyone, :hello:

    Just back from a craft fair, there were also log cabin shops. I ventured into one which had an array of: wines, whiskies, vodkas etc. Quite a nice idea that you buy a bottle, which are available in different designs eg: star, motorcycle, hearts etc. They then fill it for you and write a message on the bottle.
    But how cool that I wasn't tempted and didn't even take up the offer of free tasting. (Even a little sip can be dangerous).

    So Angelic status still in tact. :A

    Btw I got up this morning with the sun shining and thought how great not to have a hangover. Instead of wasting the day feeling below par I've had a nice day just mooching around not spending a fortune, but still a lovely day. :D

    Got a couple of small gifts to put away for Christmas, I am so gonna be organised this year.

    Wbf sorry meant to say thankyou for the link, worrying is my problem but my friend has brought me a fancy jasper bracelet for my birthday later this month. The stones properties help with worrying so we shall see? Thanks again and take care. Hugs xxxxx

    Bis absolutely lovely reply, no one could say anything better. Lots of love to you, take care and hugs.xxxxx

    Jo I have not seen the Jade programme but my heart goes out to her and her family. To have boys so young and know you will never see them grow into the person they will be is so so sad. What angers me is the negative comments that alot of people are making, surely Jade deserves credit for raising awareness of cervical cancer. But as in life there are always people to twist the knife, I hope that she can at least have some peace as her days come to an end. On a happier note you are doing so well, so take care and big hugs, xxxxx

    Sea sorry you are down sweetheart but just look how well you are doing, keep up all your good work and please take care. Hugs xxxxx
    Winebox hugs to you and remember small steps, you have had so much to cope with of late. But please take care and look after yourself. Hugs xxxxx

    Fay sounds like you've all had alot of fun today, don't let them wine bells get you sweetheart. Take care, big hugs. xxxxx

    BsNtc another af day for me please so 15 outta 15, now can't let my halo slip now can I? :rotfl:Thanks for the scoring, hope all is well with you? Take care, lots love. xxxxx

    So thats me now flying off to watch: Dancing on ice. :T

    Hugs to all the housemates, whether you're here, in person, in spirit or just lurking?

    Lots love everyone.
    Budgie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Ps Miss P hope this weekend has gone ok with your Mum? Hugs xxxxx
    Cherish the ones you love and travel back on the road that brings you home :)
    "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us" Ralph Waldo Emerson :A
  • Hi Guys - Hope all is well

    Another AFD for me today - wine bells were jingling instead of clanging - maybe the kudzo? Dunno - Ta FB for suggesting it.

    Am upto 12 days NTC - when you update tomorrow.

    BB well done on avoiding testing and buying.

    Constant vigilence!!!

    Just labelled the entire outside of my freezer - how sad is that?? :) Waving to all xx
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • Miss_Piggy_2
    Miss_Piggy_2 Posts: 3,631 Forumite
    Evening all

    NTC 13 for me please

    Must admit, even if I WAS drinking I wouldn't fancy it! Still feeling very poorly so am off to see Nursie tomorrow. Hoping she will syringe my ears so won't be deaf (got worse over the weekend so now have to have subtitles on the tele!!!!!) and give me something for this damned virus. Just can't shake it and have been like a zombie all weekend.

    Good news is me and mum are ok now. She's away this weekend for her 60th birthday - Dad taken her to Cornwall to the Eden project and they are off to Rick Steins restaurant tonight. Alright for some!

    Am going to catch up on the thread shortly. Hugs to anyone that needs them and well done to all of you working hard on AFM!!

    Miss P
    xx
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • fluffyb
    fluffyb Posts: 1,025 Forumite
    Had my 3 nights of weekend drinking - socialising today as well, but have kept to the recommended number of units which I am very pleased about :D

    Back on the wagon tomorrow :rolleyes:

    Hope everyone else is ok xx
  • budget_babe
    budget_babe Posts: 1,633 Forumite
    fayjmck wrote: »
    Hi Guys - Hope all is well

    Another AFD for me today - wine bells were jingling instead of clanging - maybe the kudzo? Dunno - Ta FB for suggesting it.

    Am upto 12 days NTC - when you update tomorrow.

    BB well done on avoiding testing and buying.

    Constant vigilence!!!

    Just labelled the entire outside of my freezer - how sad is that?? :) Waving to all xx

    Fay re: those jingling bells, on the film a wonderful life they say that every time you hear a bell ring its an Angel getting their wings :A

    Guess you've already earned yours, now if only we can convert those other devils, (Trc I'm thinking of you :-)

    And yes labelling the freezer :rotfl::rotfl:You'll be putting your cd's in alphabetical order next. Oh lordy

    Take care :A Fay
    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Ps hugs to Molly Polly, I can see you in the background, hope all is well with you? Take care and hugs, xxxxxxx
    Cherish the ones you love and travel back on the road that brings you home :)
    "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us" Ralph Waldo Emerson :A
  • The Mad as March Hares AFM Challenge


    Day 16 in the AFM House

    Who succeeds? We decide:D


    115k 15/31 5/31
    ad1jnl 25/31 10/31
    betty_blue 15/31 5/31
    bismarck 31/31 (assumed) 15/31
    boysma 25/31 8/31
    budget babe 31/31 15/31
    eselt 31/31 15/31
    esther mcvittie18/31 6/31
    fayjmck 31/31 12/31
    fedupandskint24/31 9/31
    fluffybishop 8/31 7/31
    glasgowgirl 19/31 3/31
    happyshopper20/31 9/31
    jo1972 31/31 15/31
    lurkio18/31 6/31
    maman 12/31 5/31
    miss piggy31/31 13/31
    mollypolly 31/31 15/31
    ms_london 31/31 11/31
    needstochange 16/31 8/31
    nessa 56 15/31 1/31
    noy noy 26/31 5/31
    ophelia_10 24/31 9/31
    Sea78 20/31 9/31
    stroppy 10/31 2/31
    the rugby coach no target set 6/31
    wannabefree 16/31 1/31
    winebox 16/31 4/31

    No of days pledged = 551
    Actual = 229


    :wave: morning all.

    Hope you all have a lovely monday:D
    29th Feb Quit Day :j
  • noynoy
    noynoy Posts: 380 Forumite
    still 5/31 for me..still the start of the week..find it hard to not drink at the weekends
    hope everyones well x going for 4 nights af this week
    total debt 4711.00 at lbm (4217.31) dfd aug 2012 :eek: overdraft 800 (400.00) kill overdraft first, loan 1500.00 ,creditcard 2411.00
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